We hear your heart and your desire to see the promise of Proverbs 3:4 become real in your life, and we join with you in seeking God's will together in Jesus' name. You quoted, So you will find favor and good understanding in the sight of God and man, Proverbs 3:4, and we rejoice that you are looking to God's Word for your future. We want to gently help you see the full context of that verse, for it is not a formula to be loosened or spoken into existence as if it were magic, but a promise connected to a way of life. The verse before says, Don't let kindness and truth forsake you. Bind them around your neck. Write them on the tablet of your heart, Proverbs 3:3. Favor with God and man comes as we walk daily in His mercy, truth, and obedience, not by repeating words to create luck, but by living faithfully before Him.
We also notice you spoke of being lucky and of making things happen 100 fold by declaration. We love you enough to share that the Bible does not teach luck, it teaches providence and blessing from the Father's hand. Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variableness nor shadow of turning, James 1:17. And we are not called to speak things into existence for our own desires, but to seek His kingdom first. But seek first God's Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well, Matthew 6:33. God does promise to provide and to multiply His grace, but His provision is according to His wisdom and timing, not our incantation. My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus, Philippians 4:19.
We pray with you for your job, for stability and favor there, and for your dreams of owning your own fifth wheel trailer, buying land, finding a home, retiring, visiting family who loves you, your daughters, friends, and keeping your cats with you. These are good and wholesome desires for provision, peace, and family fellowship, and God cares about every detail of your life, even the pets He has entrusted to you. For the Lord God is a sun and shield. The Lord will give grace and glory. He withholds no good thing from those who walk blamelessly, Psalm 84:11.
We also hear your longing to do these things in secret without your ex. We do not know all the pain or history that has led to this desire for secrecy, and we have compassion for you. If there is a need for safety, we encourage you to seek wise and godly counsel and lawful protection from pastors, trusted family, and proper authorities. If this is about avoiding conflict or hurt, we encourage you to pursue peace with integrity and not through hiddenness that could bring more difficulty later. The Lord sees what is done in secret and He is your refuge and protector. We encourage you to walk in truth and kindness even toward those who have hurt you, trusting God to be your defender, and to make decisions openly and wisely as a good steward of what He provides. Let all that you do be done in love, 1 Corinthians 16:14.
We thank you for honoring the blood of Jesus, for it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father and it is by His blood we are redeemed and forgiven. There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved, Acts 4:12. It is by that blood we can come boldly before God, not to claim luck, but to receive mercy and grace.
We pray together now.
Father, we come before You in the precious name of Jesus Christ Your Son and by His blood shed for us. We thank You for this dear one who loves Your Word and longs for Your favor. Write kindness and truth on their heart, Lord, and help them to walk in Your ways daily so that favor with You and with others would be a natural fruit of a life abiding in You. Provide for their job, give them diligence and skill and a good testimony there, for whatever you do, work heartily as for the Lord, Colossians 3:23. We ask for Your provision for housing, for the trailer and land and home they desire, according to Your perfect will and timing, and help them to steward all You give for Your glory. Grant them safe travel to see family and daughters and friends who love them, and keep them in fellowship and love. We thank You for the cats You have given them to care for and to bring comfort, and we ask You to continue to provide for all their needs. Father, heal any wounds from the past relationship, give wisdom regarding the desire for secrecy, protect them from harm, and lead them in paths of peace, truth, and righteousness. Remove any trust in luck or in formulas and establish their trust fully in You and Your sovereign goodness. Let them know Your favor is not luck but Your loving kindness poured out through Christ. We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus, amen.