I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Please look into a program called Kairos or Cairos (I dont remember how its spelled, sorry) It is a prison ministry group. They also have a ministry group for friends and family of inmates.
Lord, I pray for this woman, that You will cover her with Your love. I pray that she will make the journey to the top of Your mountain, where You will provide for all of her needs. Lord, I pray for her children and boyfriend, that You will provide them with a means for conviction and that they will fall to their knees and give their lives wholly to You, Lord. I pray all of this in the name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.