Life & relationships overlapping with narcissist ### brother-in-law; home issues

Dhitlor

Humble Prayer Partner
Please pray for me about this: recently several incidents have occurred where certain relationships and areas of my life are overlapping with my ### brother in law. First, he started to express an interest in getting the same primary care doctor that I have claiming that so many people have been telling him how good my doctor is and that he is thinking of switching to him. He said this after I had already mentioned my doctor's name at least once in passing conversation at a family gathering while he was in the room. He is a horrible, evil person and I know he only expressed an interest in doing this because he is plotting something. Then, another incident happened where my piano teacher began showing interest in reaching out to my ### to see if she wanted to take lessons from her when she heard that my ### was interested in learning the piano during a casual conversation I was having with her. I was very apprehensive about this but I gave her my ###'s contact information to see if my ### wanted to schedule a lesson. I didn't know how to just tell her no or what to do. I don't mind my piano teacher teaching my ### but in teaching my ###, she will inevitably end up having to interact with my ### in law and I do not want my ### in law doing anything to ruin the relationship that I have with my piano teacher which he is likely to do. Please pray that all these things and my ### in law's plotting would be foiled. I do not want him involved in any aspect of my life. He is a demon in human flesh, I am certain. Please pray for his total removal from my life along with his family and friends. Please also pray about the complex that I live in making the back deck area of my home (which I share with others) off limits until further notice due to some unclear issues they have discovered with the area. I enjoy being out on my back deck and feeding the birds and other animals. Please pray they will fix the problems quickly and that nothing will happen to cause problems with our living here or having and enjoying our back deck area. Thank you.
 
We understand your concerns and are here to pray and guide you according to biblical principles. First, let's address the issue of your brother-in-law. The Bible tells us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us, as seen in Matthew 5:44 WEB: "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you,"

It's clear that you're feeling troubled by his actions, but it's important to remember that vengeance belongs to God alone, Romans 12:19 WEB: "Don't seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God's wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"

Instead of seeking his removal, pray for his heart to change. Pray that God will work in his life and soften his heart. This doesn't mean you should allow him to cause harm or disruption in your life, but rather, set boundaries while showing love and kindness. As the Lord directs in Romans 12:21 WEB: "Don't be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."

Regarding your home issues, trust that God has a plan. He knows your desires and will provide according to His will. Pray for patience and wisdom to navigate this situation, Philippians 4:6 WEB: "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God."

Now, let's pray:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you today in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who's facing overlapping relationships and home issues. Lord, we pray for her brother-in-law, that You will work in his heart and bring about a change. We ask that You guide our sister in her interactions with him, giving her the wisdom and love to respond in a way that honors You.

Lord, we also pray for the home issues. We ask that You guide the complex's management to resolve the deck issues swiftly and fairly, allowing for continued enjoyment in the area. We pray for patience and understanding in the process.

Finally, Lord, we pray for our sister's peace and joy. Help her to cast all her anxieties on You, knowing that You care for her, 1 Peter 5:7 WEB: Casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you.

We ask all these things in Jesus' name. Amen.

Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep your eyes on Jesus through all these situations. He is your strength and your portion forever. We did not see the name Jesus, Jesus Christ, Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name) in your request. We will pray for you through the name of Jesus Christ to God. There is no other name by which we can be saved. We encourage you to examine your relationship with Jesus.
 
We're here for you, dear friend. It's clear that you're dealing with a complex situation, and we want you to know that we're lifting you up in prayer.

Firstly, let's pray for your brother-in-law. We know it's hard to understand his actions, but remember, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud" (1 Corinthians 13:4, NIV). Let's pray that God softens his heart and brings about a change in him. We also pray that you, dear friend, will have the wisdom and strength to set boundaries while still showing love and kindness.

Now, about your home issues, we know it can be frustrating, but remember, "God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble" (Psalm 46:1, NIV). Let's trust in Him and pray for patience and wisdom in navigating this situation.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come to you today, lifting up our dear friend. Lord, we pray for her brother-in-law. We ask that you work in his heart, bringing about a change that will honor you. Give our friend the wisdom and love to respond to him in a way that pleases you.

Lord, we also pray for the home issues. We ask that you guide the process, helping them to resolve the deck issues swiftly and fairly, allowing for continued enjoyment in the area. We pray for patience and understanding in the process.

Finally, Lord, we pray for our friend's peace and joy. Help her to cast all her anxieties on you, knowing that you care for her.

We ask all these things in Jesus' name. Amen."

We're here for you, and we'll continue to pray for you. Trust in the Lord, and He will direct your path (Proverbs 3:5-6, NIV).
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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