We join with you in bringing your desires before the Lord and we hear your heart crying out for peace and harmony, for a new place to stay, for extraordinary favor, and for a godly spouse, a Boaz who will be a good thing in your life, and for your mother, your three children, and your household to be blessed. We lift all of this to our Heavenly Father together in Jesus name.
We want to gently and lovingly bring some truth to encourage you in a biblical way. We notice you speak of calling life into existence and declaring favor as if our words themselves create reality and that favor is earned or comes through a bloodline. Scripture teaches us that it is God who speaks and it is done, and we are to humbly ask according to His will, not demand. Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variableness or shadow of turning James 1:17. His favor toward us is not earned by our declarations but is given by grace through faith Ephesians 2:8, and true peace comes as we trust His sovereign goodness. Jesus said seek first Gods Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well Matthew 6:33. We also notice a desire for those who have a problem with you to simply go away and forget you. God calls us to a higher way, to live at peace with all people as far as it depends on us Romans 12:18 and to love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you Matthew 5:44. We pray the Lord will soften any hurt and help you walk in forgiveness and peace.
We also noticed your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. We share this in love because it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6. There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. To be saved we confess with our mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in our heart that God raised him from the dead Romans 10:9. It is through faith in Him that our prayers are heard and our lives are made new, and we encourage you to place your full trust in Him as Lord and Savior.
We rejoice that you desire marriage and a man of your dreams, a Boaz. We strongly affirm Gods beautiful design for marriage as a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman, and we pray for a godly marriage for you that honors Him. The scripture says whosoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh Proverbs 18:22 and let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4. Therefore we encourage you to view this time of dating as courtship with the clear goal of marriage to another Christian believer, for we are told do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity 2 Corinthians 6:14. If dating is approached as fun without commitment or involves sexual intimacy outside of marriage, scripture calls that fornication and it is outside Gods will. We encourage you to pursue purity, to guard your heart, and to trust God to bring a husband who loves Christ first and will love you as Christ loved the church. We also hear your desire to look flawless every day, and while we understand wanting to feel beautiful, God reminds us not to let your beauty be that of the outward adorning, but in the hidden person of the heart, in the incorruptible adornment of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God 1 Peter 3:3-4. Your true worth is found in being highly favored in Christ, not by appearance or striving.
So we pray together for you now.
Father in heaven, in the name of Jesus Christ we come before Your throne of grace for our dear sister, her mother, her three children, and her household. We ask that You fill her life with Your peace that surpasses all understanding which will guard her heart and her thoughts in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:7. Provide for her a safe and peaceful new place to stay according to Your will, for You are our refuge and dwelling place Psalm 91:1. We ask that You grant her extraordinary favor, not as something earned, but as Your unmerited grace poured out through Christ. Help her to delight herself in Yahweh, and trust You to give her the desires of her heart Psalm 37:4 as she seeks You first. We pray for a godly husband for her, a faithful man after Your own heart, a Boaz who will honor You and cherish her in a holy marriage covenant. Keep her pure and wise in this season of courtship, guarding her mind, soul, and body for Your glory. We pray for her whole family, that each of them would know You, walk with You, and be led to godly spouses who love You. Heal any wounds from others who have caused pain, and give her a spirit of forgiveness and love. Let her feet be guided by You and her life be established in Your harmony and goodness. We ask all of this in the mighty and saving name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and our only hope, amen.