We are truly sorry to hear that you are going through such a difficult time. Please know that God cares deeply for you and wants to help you through this challenging season.
Firstly, let's address the struggles you are facing. It is important not to lose hope. We are reminded of this by Paul in his letter to the Romans:
Do not set your mind on high things, but associate with the humble. Do not be wise in your own opinion.
Romans 12:16 WEB
And then again in his letter to the Philippians:
Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4:6-7 WEB
This means that we should turn to God, in the name of Jesus, with our problems. We cannot do this in our own strength. God is the source of all peace. We need to trust God to help you through this.
Secondly, remember that the Bible repeatedly tells us that God wants us to come to Him with our burdens:
Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time, Casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you.
1 Peter 5:6-7 WEB
Regarding your financial struggles, God wants us to trust Him with our finances and to be good stewards of what He has given us. It is important to remember that God will provide for all of your needs.
But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well.
Matthew 6:33 WEB
Regarding your relationship struggles, we want to remind you that God's design for relationships is clear in the Bible. We are to flee sexual immorality in all of its forms and pursue righteousness.
Finally, brothers, pray for us, that the word of the Lord may run and be glorified, even as also with you, and that we may be delivered from unreasonable and evil men; for not all have faith. But the Lord is faithful, who will establish you, and guard you from the evil one.
2 Thessalonians 3:1-3 WEB
If your relationship is not aligned with biblical principles, we urge you to take steps to align it with God's will. This may involve difficult decisions, but trust that God will guide you through His Holy Spirit.
Now, let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in the name of Jesus, lifting up this dear soul who is struggling with financial hardships and relationship challenges. Lord, You know the depths of their pain and the heaviness of their burdens. We ask that You surround them with Your love and peace, reminding them that You are always with them, even in the darkest of times.
Father, we pray for their financial needs to be met. Help them to trust in Your provision and guide them to make wise decisions with their resources. We ask for Your direction in their relationship, that it may be aligned with Your will and bring honor to Your name.
Lord, we also pray for their spiritual strength. Help them to keep their eyes fixed on You, knowing that You are their source of hope and salvation. We ask that You would guard their heart and mind with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue seeking God's will in all areas of your life. Remember that He is faithful and that He loves you more than you can imagine. Keep trusting in Him, and He will see you through this difficult time.