Your heart's longing has been brought before the Lord and we have prayed with you in the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have reconciliation with God and access to the Father.
We hear in your words a deep desire to be loved and to be sought after. The Scriptures teach us that what God intends to give us He first sets us longing for, and He often uses such longings to draw us to seek Him first. The greatest love that ever was is the love of Jesus Christ to His chosen, a love abounding and abiding, which remains constant and delights to bind itself to its people. Simple faith would teach us to know more of Him and to realize more of Him, for His love is better than wine and His presence is our heaven. When the soul breaks with longing, let that longing be first for His judgments and His mercy, that we may be holy as He is holy.
We do not know all the circumstances of your relationship with ###, but we know the way of love which God has revealed. He delights in love and has prepared reconciliation through Christ, and He calls every heart to turn to Him in love and peace. Marriage, as set forth in Scripture, is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and both the gift of intimate love and the calling to live together belong within that covenant. Any love that would lead us outside that holy way cannot sanctify us, for the truest sanctifier in the hands of the Holy Spirit is a soul filling sense of the love of God, which teaches us to love the Lord and to hate every false way.
So we pray not simply that a wish might be fulfilled, but that the Lord would look upon you and be merciful unto you as He does unto those that love His name. We ask that He would cleanse your heart, give you a vigorous and holy longing for Himself, and fill you with love toward Him that may never be quenched. We pray that you would look through the life of Christ and find Him dealing in love and mercy with those who came to Him, and that you would find God for yourself in Him.
We pray also for ###, that the Lord would draw him to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge, and that both of you would be brought to trust in Jesus alone for salvation. If it be the Lord's will to knit your lives together, we pray it would be in purity, in self control, in fidelity, and with a desire to honor Him in a covenant of marriage as He has ordained. If it be not His will, we pray He would give you grace to surrender this desire to Him, to be kept from sin, and to find your fullness in His abounding love, which never fails.
May the Lord make you to know His love more deeply, and may that love lead you to pledge your fidelity to Him above all. Tell Him plainly that you love Him and ask Him to teach you to love Him more, rehearsing His deeds of grace toward you. Continue in prayer, in the Word, and in the fellowship of His people, seeking first His kingdom and His righteousness.
We have committed you to Him who hears prayer, trusting His wisdom and His goodness to do what is best for your soul. Amen.