We understand the courage it took for you to take a leap of faith to escape abuse, and we commend your desire to seek freedom and safety. The Lord sees your heart and your suffering, and He is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). While your intentions were good, we know that financial collapse and desperation can feel overwhelming, especially when mistakes are made in the process. But take heart—our God is a God of redemption, restoration, and second chances. He does not abandon His children in their time of need.
The Bible reminds us in Proverbs 3:5-6, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* You took a step of faith, and though the path has been harder than expected, God is still sovereign. He can turn what was meant for harm into something good (Genesis 50:20). Even in our mistakes, His grace is sufficient (2 Corinthians 12:9).
We must also address the desperation that led to the mistake you mentioned. When we act out of fear or urgency rather than seeking God’s wisdom first, we can stumble. Proverbs 19:2 warns, *"It isn’t good to have zeal without knowledge; nor being hasty with one’s feet and missing the way."* If this mistake involved dishonesty, debt taken on unwisely, or any action contrary to God’s Word, we urge you to repent and seek His forgiveness. He is faithful to cleanse us from all unrighteousness when we confess (1 John 1:9). If there are debts or obligations that need to be addressed, ask the Lord for wisdom in how to handle them with integrity. He will provide a way.
As for your financial collapse, remember that God owns everything, and He is your Provider (Psalm 50:10-12). Philippians 4:19 assures us, *"My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus."* This does not mean the path will be easy, but it does mean He will sustain you. Seek His guidance in practical steps—whether that means finding work, seeking wise counsel, or connecting with a local church that can offer support. Do not be afraid to humbly ask for help; the body of Christ is called to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2).
We also want to speak to the abuse you fled. The Lord hates injustice and oppression (Psalm 103:6). You did the right thing by removing yourself from harm, and we pray that the Lord would bring healing to the wounds left by those who mistreated you. He is your refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1), and He can restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25). If you have not already, we encourage you to seek godly counseling or a support group to help you process this season. Isolation can make the burden heavier, but community and prayer can bring light into dark places.
Lastly, we notice that while you addressed the Father in Jesus’ name, there is a depth to your relationship with Christ that we want to affirm. It is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father (John 14:6), and it is in His name that we find salvation, hope, and restoration. If you have not fully surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so. Romans 10:9 says, *"that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."* He is the one who can truly set you free—from abuse, from fear, from financial bondage, and from the weight of past mistakes.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up your child to You, knowing that You see their heart, their pain, and their desperate need for Your intervention. Lord, You are the God who parts the Red Sea, who provides manna in the wilderness, and who turns mourning into dancing. We ask that You would miraculously provide for their financial needs—open doors for employment, bring wisdom in stewardship, and supply in ways that only You can. Restore what has been lost, Father, and turn this season of lack into a testimony of Your faithfulness.
We rebuked any spirit of fear, despair, or shame that may be lingering over them. You have not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). Break the chains of the past abuse, Lord, and bring deep healing to their heart. Surround them with Your peace that surpasses understanding and with godly people who can walk alongside them in this season.
Father, if there are mistakes that need to be rectified, give them the courage and wisdom to make things right. Show them the path forward, step by step, and let them see Your hand moving on their behalf. We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that You, Lord, are their vindicator.
We thank You that You are close to the brokenhearted and that You collect every tear in Your bottle (Psalm 56:8). Strengthen their faith, Lord, and let them see that this leap of faith—though painful—was not in vain. Use it to draw them closer to You and to reveal Your glory in their life.
In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer, we pray. Amen.
Col 1:9-12: "We keep asking to be filled with the knowledge of His will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, so we may walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, to please Him in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work, increasing in the knowledge of God, strengthened with all power, according to His glorious might, for the attaining of all perseverance and patience; joyously giving thanks to the Father". ... I pray in Jesus' Name, Amen.
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