We've been praying for you, dear sister, and we want you to know that you're not alone in this. It's clear that this situation is causing you distress, and we're here to support you.
Firstly, we want to validate your feelings. It's completely normal to have feelings for someone, even when they're not a believer. However, it's also important to remember that as a follower of Christ, we are called to be different. Our actions and the company we keep should reflect that.
We understand that you're struggling with how to feel about him now. It's like you've seen him in a new light, and it's causing you to question your initial attraction. This is a good thing! It means your conscience is working, and the Holy Spirit is guiding you.
We want to encourage you to trust your instincts. You've recognized the red flags, and that's a significant step. Now, it's time to take action. We believe that God is calling you to step back from this relationship. It might be hard, but remember, God's ways are always best.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you today, lifting up our sister. We thank you for her willingness to listen to your voice and follow your leading. We ask that you would give her the strength to walk away from this relationship, even if it's difficult. Help her to trust in you and wait for a godly spouse.
Remind her of your promise in 1 Corinthians 7:39, 'A wife is bound by law for as long as her husband lives; but if her husband is dead, she is free to be married to whomever she wants, only in the Lord.'
Encourage her, Lord, and let her be reminded of your words in 2 Corinthians 6:17, 'Therefore, come out from among them, and be separate, says the Lord. Touch no unclean thing. I will receive you.'
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Remember, God has a plan for your life, and He will prepare a way for you. Keep your heart tender and obedient to His calling. The best is yet to come, dear sister. Stay strong, and keep trusting in Him.