Kindness soften heart 💗 Rom 2:4, Angelic Help🤺 Gen 19:16, Holy Spirit Work, Jn 16:8, Grace to Embody Christ's Love, Biblical Advice Bears Fruit…

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Good and Faithful Servant
đź’ť Father, in Your kindness, soften my matrimonial love (we committed to each other before You in the presence of many witnesses as You remember), me, and our families to repentance, the purpose which the kindness of God is intended, Rom 2:4. Steer her heart (and all our hearts) as You do kings' hearts like channels of water. Help her to come home and be willing to meet together with our pastors like we've promised, put everything on the table, James 5:15-16.

Do as You did for Lot in helping him to escape Sodom. You helped him out of indecision by literally seizing him by angels, Gen 19:16... Do as You did for the fisherman who You chose to lead the disciples -- he was proud and boasted, said he was better than all the others, and then denied you repeatedly --- but You didn't give up on him. You gave a similar experience to his first call to be a fisher of men, and then reinstated him three times with gracious humility and even expanded his tent to shepherding others, showing us how to evangelize in early Acts, and how to be a pastor in 1st and 2nd Peter… Thank You for not giving up on Peter…

You mercifully and powerfully confronted Saul on the way to Damascus to persecute your brethren, Acts 9:1-31. Later, after blinding him, letting him mess up, make tents and then giving him some private discipleship — “while they were worshipping the Lord and fasting, The Holy Spirit set Barnabas and him apart for the work to which I called them,” Acts 13:2-3. You made him the Paul we all know and love -- a light to all the people groups... A name change signifies a change in calling and identity -- Thank You for not giving up on Paul…

Don’t give up on the one I love and am so ready and willing to forgive... I truly believe You are MORE willing than I… Grant me strength, endurance, patience, understanding and the right words at the right times, like apples of gold in settings of silver, Ps 12:11, and may it always be from a right heart, mind and motive: Love from a purified heart, a sincere faith and a good conscience, 1 Tim 1:15.

It was while they were ministering to the Lord and fasting -- please help me hunger and thirst for righteousness in these situation, and help others share this burden with me for her, me, our child, the entire situation and all that’s transpired, good, bad and ugly, to be turned for glory, praise and honor, Isa 58:6-14.

The early church said, "fasting and giving lends wings to our prayers." Let that be shown to be true not only yesterday, but today and forever. Please work powerfully within me, humbling my soul with fasting, sanctifying residual pockets of darkness with light, helping the word become flesh, as John says, to love The LORD and my neighbor with ALL my heart, soul, mind, will, emotions, physical strength and finances -- my thoughts, words, deeds, actions and especially my reactions -- let the word be engrafted, James 1:22-23.

Loose angels to assist her return before group this week, Gen 19:16, Heb 1:14... Place and use the love of Jesus in me to publicly demonstrate true love of the gospel, Gal 3:1. Let me model it and teach it to myself, her, every family member, those near and dear and those far off and beyond to extended family, friends especially any who might consider me an enemy -- let me be a living ambassador Your love to be known and read by all people groups, everywhere, 2 Cor 3:2, “What to say and how to say it,” John 12:49.

Do not take us out of the world, but keep us from the evil one, John 17:15. Sanctify us by the truth; Your word is truth, John 17:17. Let the Word of Christ be engrafted, James 1:22-23, that we may be effective doers. Keep her, them and us from evil people, 2 Thes 3:2, temptation, Matt 6:13, sin Zeph 3:13 and the evil one, Matt 6:13. Thank you for the angels in advance -- they're real and really do get sent ahead, Heb 13, and thank You in advance for the fact "You like to make their faces change," in Jesus' Name.

"I don’t speak on My own authority. The Father who sent Me has commanded me what to say and how to say it," John 12:49 [1]. May I speak truth the right way (in love, humility and kindness) at the right time (when one isn't tired or in the right place to receive it), Prov 25:11, Thank You and you all in Jesus' Name.
 
We come before the throne of grace with a heavy yet hopeful heart, lifting up this sacred marriage covenant made before God and witnesses. Father, Your Word declares that "the kindness of God leads to repentance" (Romans 2:4 WEB), and we cling to this truth today. Soften every hardened heart in this situation—beginning with our own—so that pride, bitterness, and self-justification would melt under the warmth of Your relentless love. You who turn kings' hearts like channels of water (Proverbs 21:1 WEB), redirect every stubborn will toward reconciliation, humility, and restoration.

Lord, we remember how You seized Lot by the hand through Your angels to rescue him from destruction (Genesis 19:16 WEB). Do the same here—intervene with divine urgency to draw this wife home, not just physically but spiritually, to the marriage vows she made before You. Stir her conscience through the Holy Spirit’s convicting work (John 16:8 WEB), that she may lay every hidden sin, fear, or offense before You and your pastors, as James 5:16 commands: "Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed."

We are humbled by Your patience with Peter, who denied You yet was restored to lead Your church (John 21:15-19 WEB), and with Paul, whose violent persecution of Your people was transformed into apostolic zeal (Acts 9 WEB). You do not abandon the wayward—You pursue them, break them, and remake them for Your glory. So we cry out: *Do not give up on this marriage!* Let the same grace that redeemed these men now heal this family. Grant this husband supernatural endurance, wisdom to speak "apples of gold in settings of silver" (Proverbs 25:11 WEB), and a heart purified by faith and love (1 Timothy 1:5 WEB).

Yet we must address the spiritual warfare at hand. The enemy seeks to devour this union (1 Peter 5:8 WEB), and we rebuke every spirit of division, unforgiveness, or deception in Jesus’ name. If there has been unrepentant sin—whether pride, emotional or physical abandonment, or even adultery—we call it what it is: a violation of the one-flesh covenant (Matthew 19:6 WEB). But where sin abounds, grace abounds more (Romans 5:20 WEB). We plead for a fasted, prayed-over repentance that leads to restoration, not just of the marriage, but of each spouse’s walk with You.

Father, as the early church ministered to You in fasting (Acts 13:2 WEB), we join this husband in humbling ourselves before You. Let fasting and prayer lend wings to these petitions, sanctifying every "pocket of darkness" with Your light. Engraft Your Word into their lives (James 1:22 WEB), that Christ’s love would become flesh in their words, reactions, and daily choices. Loose Your angels to guard this family (Hebrews 1:14 WEB), shielding them from temptation (Matthew 6:13 WEB) and evil influences (2 Thessalonians 3:2 WEB).

And to the one who wrote this plea: Your willingness to forgive is a reflection of Christ’s heart (Ephesians 4:32 WEB). But remember, true reconciliation requires two repentant hearts. If your wife remains unrepentant or unwilling to submit to pastoral counsel, you may need to follow Matthew 18:15-17 WEB, entrusting her to Your care while standing firm on biblical truth. Yet even then, let your life be a living epistle of Christ’s love (2 Corinthians 3:2 WEB), speaking truth in love (Ephesians 4:15 WEB) and trusting God to change what you cannot.

We pray all this in the mighty name of Jesus, the only name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12 WEB) and through whom we have access to the Father (Ephesians 2:18 WEB). May Your kindness lead this family to repentance, Your angels minister to them, and Your Spirit bind them together in a marriage that glorifies You. Amen.
 
We stand with you, dear brother, in prayer for your marriage. Like the prodigal son, we believe that our Heavenly Father is eager to welcome your wife back home with open arms. May His kindness lead her to repentance, and may His angels guide her steps back to you. Let us, like the persistent friend in Luke 11:5-13, keep knocking at the door of heaven, asking, seeking, and knocking until we receive a breakthrough. Trust in the Lord, for He is faithful and just to forgive and cleanse (1 John 1:9). Let us also remember that marriage is a covenant before God, and He is faithful to keep His promises (2 Timothy 2:13). We pray that your wife's heart would be softened, and that she would return to you, not just physically, but also spiritually, to the marriage vows she made before God. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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