Joining church & maladaptive daydreaming

Dhitlor

Humble Servant
This Sunday, I will be having a meeting with the elders of the church I've been attending so that I can possibly begin the process of finally joining the church. I love this church so much. I really want to attend here. I love everything - the teaching, the people, it is a sound church, etc. There are some issues though. Please pray that God would smooth those issues out as I desperately want to join this church - it has brought so much hope and joy to my life. It is very hard to find a true, godly church nowadays and true Christians often find themselves getting pushed out of many so-called churches with nowhere to go to fellowship with other believers. It's really hard. Please pray about all of this. Please also pray for me that I would stop maladaptive daydreaming. I started doing this when I was very young due to trauma I experienced as a child. It has always been a form of escape. Now, it has gotten to a point where I'm doing it involuntarily without thinking. I really want to stop. This is a terrible thing to struggle with and I also believe it is opening me up to demonic forces that are further exacerbating demonic attacks I have been experiencing for the past few years. Thank you.
 
We rejoice with you in your desire to join a sound, biblical church where the Word of God is faithfully taught and where you have found hope, joy, and true fellowship with believers. It is indeed rare in these last days to find a church that stands firmly on Scripture without compromise, and we praise God for leading you to such a place. The body of Christ is meant to be a refuge for His people, a place of growth, accountability, and love, and we earnestly pray that the Lord will smooth out any issues that may arise in your meeting with the elders. May He open doors that no man can shut and grant you favor as you seek to commit yourself to this local body of believers. Remember, it is God who builds His church, and if this is where He has called you, He will make the way clear.

We also lift up your struggle with maladaptive daydreaming, recognizing the deep roots it has in past trauma and the way it has become an involuntary escape for you. This is a serious stronghold, and you are wise to see it for what it is—a distraction from the life God has called you to live, and potentially an open door for spiritual attacks. The enemy loves to keep believers bound in cycles of escapism, pulling them away from reality and the purposes of God. But take heart, for the Lord is greater than any stronghold, and He desires to set you free. The apostle Paul reminds us in 2 Corinthians 10:4-5, *"The weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ."* This is not a battle you fight alone—Jesus has already won the victory, and by His power, you can break free from this bondage.

We must also address the spiritual dimension of this struggle. If you sense that this habit has opened you up to demonic influence, it is critical to repent of any sin associated with it—whether it be idolatry (placing fantasy above God’s truth), unbelief (distrusting God’s sovereignty over your pain), or any other compromise. James 4:7 commands us, *"Be subject therefore to God. But resist the devil, and he will flee from you."* Submit this area of your life fully to the Lordship of Christ, and actively resist the enemy’s lies. Fill your mind with Scripture, worship, and prayer instead of allowing it to wander into ungodly imaginations. Philippians 4:8 exhorts us, *"Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things."*

We encourage you to seek counsel from mature believers in your church, particularly the elders or a trusted sister in Christ who can walk with you in accountability. Trauma leaves deep wounds, but Jesus is the Great Physician, and He longs to heal you completely. Psalm 34:18 assures us, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* Do not be ashamed to bring this struggle into the light—God’s power is made perfect in our weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9).

Let us pray together for you:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with thanksgiving for our sister and for the church You have led her to—a place where Your Word is preached without compromise and where she has found hope and joy in You. Lord, we ask that You go before her in this meeting with the elders. Soften hearts, remove obstacles, and make Your will undeniably clear. If it is Your purpose for her to join this body of believers, let nothing hinder it. Give her wisdom, boldness, and peace as she seeks to commit herself to this fellowship. Protect her from any spiritual attacks that may arise, and let her find her place among Your people for Your glory.

We also lift up her struggle with maladaptive daydreaming. Lord, You see the wounds of her past and the ways she has sought escape from pain. We ask for Your healing touch to restore her mind, emotions, and spirit. Break every stronghold that has kept her bound, and fill her with Your truth and presence so that there is no room for the enemy’s lies. Give her the strength to take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ. If there has been any sin associated with this habit, we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing. Let her mind be renewed by Your Word, and let her find her satisfaction in You alone.

Father, we rebuke any demonic influence that has gained a foothold through this struggle. By the authority of Jesus Christ, we command every unclean spirit to flee and never return. Fill her instead with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in freedom, joy, and victory. Surround her with godly support and accountability as she seeks to overcome this battle.

We thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness. You are the God who sees, who heals, and who delivers. May our sister experience Your power in new and profound ways as she surrenders this area of her life to You. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer, we pray. Amen.
 
We're right there with you, sister, as you take this significant step towards joining your church family. We're excited for you, and we're praying with you! We believe that God has led you to this place, and we trust that He will smooth out any issues that may arise. We're asking the Lord to open doors that no man can shut and to grant you favor as you meet with the elders. Remember, it's God who builds His church, and if this is where He has called you, He will make the way clear.

We also want to encourage you in your struggle with maladaptive daydreaming. We understand that it's a deeply rooted habit, but we have faith that Jesus can break any stronghold in your life. We're praying for you, that God would heal the wounds of your past and fill your mind with His truth and presence. We're asking Him to give you the strength to take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ and to fill you with the Holy Spirit, so that you can walk in freedom, joy, and victory.

Keep holding on, sister. We're here for you, and we're believing in God's power to work in your life. Let's trust Him together!
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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