We hear the deep anguish in your words, and our hearts break with yours as we stand with you in this valley of financial despair and emotional exhaustion. The weight of debt, the fear of eviction, and the weariness from years of hard work met with abuse—these are burdens no one should carry alone. But we want you to know this: you are not forgotten, and your struggle is seen by the One who owns the cattle on a thousand hills (Psalm 50:10). Even in this darkness, He is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18), and He has not abandoned you.
First, we must address the mention of Jesus in your request with gratitude, for it is only through His name that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is in His strength—not our own—that we find the power to endure. You thanked Jesus for what He has done, and we echo that gratitude, for His finished work on the cross is our firm foundation even when the ground beneath us feels like shifting sand. But we also want to remind you that Jesus is not just a historical figure or a distant savior—He is the living God who walks with you in this very moment, who collects every tear in His bottle (Psalm 56:8), and who promises to never leave nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).
Your exhaustion is real, and the abuse you endured was unjust. The Bible tells us that God is a defender of the oppressed (Psalm 10:17-18) and that He will repay those who have wronged His children (Romans 12:19). We rebuke the spirit of weariness and despair that has taken root in your heart, for it is not from God. Scripture says, "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28). This is not a call to passive resignation but an invitation to lay your burdens at His feet and trust Him to sustain you. The enemy wants you to believe that giving up is the only option, but we declare that hope is not lost. The same God who parted the Red Sea can make a way where there seems to be no way (Isaiah 43:19).
We also want to speak truth into the lie that all doors to employment are closed. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." This does not mean the path will be easy or immediate, but it does mean that God is not limited by your circumstances. He can open doors that no man can shut (Revelation 3:8). We encourage you to seek Him first in this season, asking for wisdom and discernment as you look for work. Even if the job market feels hopeless, remember that God is your provider (Philippians 4:19), and He can meet your needs in ways you cannot yet see.
The debt you carry is overwhelming, and we do not minimize the fear it brings. But we must also remind you that God is greater than your debt. Psalm 37:21 says, "The wicked borrow and don’t pay back, but the righteous give generously." This is not to shame you but to remind you that God’s economy is not like the world’s. He can provide opportunities for you to honor your debts in His timing and according to His provision. We encourage you to seek wise, godly counsel—perhaps from a financial advisor or a trusted pastor—who can help you create a plan to address your debt without succumbing to despair. Proverbs 22:7 warns that "the borrower is servant to the lender," but we declare that you are a child of the King, and your identity is not defined by your financial struggles.
We also want to gently address the mention of others in your position who are "giving up." While we understand the temptation to compare your struggle to theirs, we must remind you that God’s plans for you are unique. Jeremiah 29:11 says, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." This promise is for you, even if the future does not look like what you once imagined. We rebuke the spirit of comparison and despair, for it only steals your joy and distorts your vision of God’s faithfulness.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother/sister who is carrying the weight of financial ruin, emotional exhaustion, and fear of the future. Lord, You see every tear, every sleepless night, and every moment of despair. We ask that You would draw near to them in this season, reminding them that You are their refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1). Father, we rebuke the spirit of weariness and hopelessness that has taken hold, for You have not given us a spirit of fear but of power, love, and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7).
Lord, we ask that You would open doors of employment that no man can shut. Provide opportunities that align with Your will and give our brother/sister the strength to walk through them. We declare that You are their provider, and we trust that You will meet every need according to Your riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). Father, we also ask that You would give them wisdom in managing their debt. Show them practical steps to take, and surround them with godly counsel to help them navigate this season. We pray that You would soften the hearts of creditors and open pathways to financial restoration.
Most of all, Lord, we ask that You would renew their strength. Remind them that they do not have to carry this burden alone, for You are their ever-present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Heal their heart from the wounds of abuse and injustice, and replace their fear with Your perfect peace (Isaiah 26:3). We declare that this season is not the end of their story but a chapter in which You are working all things together for their good (Romans 8:28).
Father, we thank You for the name of Jesus, the only name by which we can approach You. We thank You that because of Him, we can come boldly before Your throne of grace to find mercy and help in our time of need (Hebrews 4:16). We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
In the days ahead, we encourage you to cling to God’s promises, even when they feel distant. Spend time in His Word, for it is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path (Psalm 119:105). Surround yourself with believers who can pray with you and encourage you, for iron sharpens iron (Proverbs 27:17). And remember, God is not done with you. The same hands that formed the mountains and set the stars in place are holding you right now. You are not defined by your debt, your past, or your current circumstances. You are defined by the love of Christ, and that love is stronger than any storm you are facing. Keep pressing forward, one step at a time, trusting that God is with you.
