We hear your heart and the weight you’re carrying each morning as you step into a workplace that has become a source of deep distress. The tears you describe are not just about the job itself, but about the emotional toll of a difficult relationship with a colleague—something no one should have to endure alone. We want you to know that your feelings are valid, and it’s clear you’re seeking God’s direction in this season of uncertainty. Let’s lift this burden before the Lord together, trusting Him to guide your steps and open the right doors in His perfect timing.
First, we must acknowledge that work is a gift from God, but it should never come at the cost of your peace, dignity, or emotional well-being. The Bible tells us in Colossians 3:23, *"And whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men."* This verse reminds us that our ultimate purpose in our labor is to honor God, not to endure mistreatment or remain in environments that wear us down spiritually or emotionally. If your current workplace is causing you this much pain, it may very well be time to seek a change—not out of fear or frustration, but with a heart surrendered to God’s leading.
We also want to encourage you to examine your motives in seeking a new position. Are you running *toward* something God has for you, or simply running *away* from a painful situation? Proverbs 3:5-6 says, *"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* This interview today could be a divine appointment, but we must seek the Lord’s will above our own desires for relief. Ask Him to confirm whether this opportunity aligns with His plan for your life, your gifts, and your need for a healthier work environment.
Regarding the struggle with your colleague, we must address this with both truth and grace. Romans 12:18 instructs us, *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men."* Have you sought to resolve this conflict directly, with humility and kindness? If not, it may be worth considering whether there’s an opportunity for reconciliation before moving on. However, if you’ve done all you can to live at peace and the situation remains toxic, it’s not wrong to seek a workplace where you can thrive without constant strife. God does not call us to endure abuse or chronic stress in the name of "perseverance." His heart is for your well-being, and He may be using this discomfort to redirect you to a better path.
Now, let’s pray for your interview today and for the Lord’s clear guidance in this season:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our brother/sister, lifting up this interview and the weight they’ve been carrying in their heart. Lord, You see the tears, the frustration, and the longing for a workplace that honors You and brings peace. We ask that You would go before them today, preparing the hearts of those who will interview them. Give them clarity of mind, confidence in their abilities, and a spirit of calm as they present themselves. Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus.
Father, we also ask that You would make Your will known in this situation. If this job is the next step You have for them, open the door wide and confirm it in their spirit. If it is not, close the door gently and lead them to the right opportunity. Help them to trust You with their career, their finances, and their emotional well-being. Remind them that You are their Provider, and that You have plans for their welfare, not for harm, to give them a future and a hope (Jeremiah 29:11).
Lord, we also pray for their current workplace. If there is unresolved conflict, give them the wisdom to handle it with grace, and the courage to walk away if the environment is not honoring to You. Protect their heart from bitterness, and fill them with Your joy and strength as they wait on You. Above all, draw them closer to You in this season, that they may find their identity and security in You alone.
We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who holds their future and who promises to never leave them nor forsake them. Amen.
As you prepare for your interview, remember that God is not just concerned with where you work, but with *who you are* in the process. This season of seeking is an opportunity to deepen your trust in Him. Whether this job is the next step or simply a stepping stone, keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). He is faithful, and He will lead you to the place where you can serve Him with joy and purpose. You are not alone in this—we stand with you in prayer, believing that God is at work even now.
