We understand your heart’s cry for divine clarity, and we commend you for seeking God’s will in all things. It is good that you are invoking the name of Jesus in your request, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and receive answers to our prayers. As Scripture declares, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me"* (John 14:6, WEB). Your desire for visions, revelations, and warnings must be rooted in a heart that seeks God’s glory above all else, not merely personal curiosity or assurance. Remember, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). The Lord may choose to speak through His Word, the still small voice of the Holy Spirit, godly counsel, or even dreams—but we must always test these things against Scripture, for not every vision or sign is from Him (1 John 4:1).
Now, let us address the specific elements of your request with biblical truth and prayer. You ask for confirmation about a potential spouse, referenced as "###." We must first emphasize that God’s design for marriage is sacred—a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman, both committed believers in Christ (Genesis 2:24, 2 Corinthians 6:14). If this person is not a born-again believer, or if this is a relationship outside of biblical marriage (such as courtship with no intention of marriage, fornication, or a same-sex relationship), we must lovingly but firmly rebuke this. Scripture is clear: *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). If this is a godly courtship with marriage as the goal, then we pray for discernment and confirmation. But if it is anything less, we urge you to repent and align your desires with God’s Word. Flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18) and do not awaken love before its time (Song of Solomon 2:7).
You also mention a desire to "see hell" as a "reality check." We must address this carefully. While it is not sinful to acknowledge the reality of hell, seeking to *experience* it is dangerous and unnecessary. Hell is a place of eternal torment prepared for Satan and his angels (Matthew 25:41), and the unsaved who reject Christ will suffer there forever (Revelation 20:14-15). The Bible already gives us vivid warnings about hell—Jesus Himself spoke more about hell than heaven—to urge us to repentance and evangelism. *"If your hand or your foot causes you to stumble, cut it off, and cast it from you. It is better for you to enter into life maimed or crippled, rather than having two hands or two feet to be cast into the eternal fire"* (Matthew 18:8, WEB). Instead of seeking a vision of hell, we encourage you to let the Holy Spirit convict your heart through Scripture and use that urgency to share the Gospel with the lost. The reality of hell should drive us to our knees in prayer for souls, not to satisfy morbid curiosity.
Lastly, if you are asking for signs about your path, remember that God often guides us through His Word, peace in our spirits, and wise counsel—not just supernatural signs. *"Your word is a lamp to my feet, and a light for my path"* (Psalm 119:105, WEB). Be cautious of seeking signs over seeking the Sign-Giver Himself. Jesus rebuked those who sought signs without faith (Matthew 12:39). Instead, ask the Lord to align your desires with His will (Psalm 37:4) and to give you wisdom (James 1:5).
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this beloved child of Yours who seeks Your face for direction, revelation, and confirmation. Lord, we ask that You guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7), that they would not be led by curiosity or fleshly desires but by Your Spirit and Your Word. If there is any relationship in their life that does not honor You—whether through unbelief, sexual immorality, or rebellion—we pray You would convict them deeply and give them the strength to repent and walk away. Father, if this courtship is of You and aligns with Your will for marriage, confirm it clearly and supernaturally. But if it is not, sever it completely and redirect their heart toward Your perfect plan.
Lord, we ask that You grant them godly dreams and visions *if it is Your will*, but more than that, we pray You would make Your Word alive to them like never before. Let them find their answers in Scripture, in prayer, and in the counsel of mature believers. Protect them from deception, for Satan himself can appear as an angel of light (2 Corinthians 11:14). Give them discernment to test every spirit and every revelation against Your truth.
As for their desire to understand the reality of hell, Father, we ask that You would break their heart for the lost rather than allow them to seek experiences that could open doors to the enemy. Let them be so burdened for souls that they preach Christ crucified with urgency (1 Corinthians 1:23). Remind them that hell is real, but so is Your mercy—and it is Your kindness that leads us to repentance (Romans 2:4).
Finally, Lord, if they are on the wrong path in any area of life, shine Your light so brightly that they cannot miss it. Give them the courage to obey, even if it is difficult. We declare that they will walk in Your perfect will, not leaning on their own understanding but trusting You completely. In the name of Jesus, we rebuke any spirit of confusion, fear, or rebellion, and we command clarity, peace, and obedience to take root in their life.
May they wake up each day with a fresh anointing to seek You first (Matthew 6:33) and to walk in the good works You have prepared for them (Ephesians 2:10). We ask all this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
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