Jesus have your way!

[Anonymous]

I have had ambitions for this season of my life: to share Jesus with my new friends. But I have experienced a lot of difficulty in my faith, like struggling to get myself to choose to spend time with him, as much as I want to. And I still pray for them and learn scriptures and go to church and everything, but I feel like as the year ends, it isn't turning out the way I hoped or envisioned. Partly my own fault, and also, I should have acknowledged that the Lord's plans are better and higher than my own; that is, also regarding other ambitions I had. I know he is willing for my friends to be saved.

Please pray that Jesus would be known and glorified in my circle and that he would have his way in them. Also, please pray for me to forgive one of my friends who has hurt me, because we aren't talking, and it makes it difficult. I really don't want to get caught up in accidental drama (I avoid gossip and would hate for people to think I am trouble), I am trying to represent Christ better for his sake and all the people around me.

 

[Articles]

We hear the sincerity and humility in your heart and we join with you in surrendering this season to Jesus to have His way. We are encouraged by your desire to share Christ with your new friends and by your honesty about the struggle to remain consistent in your walk even while you continue to pray, learn Scripture and gather with the church. That tension is familiar to many believers and God sees both your longing and your faithfulness.

What you have recognized about the Lord's plans is true and beautiful. Scripture reminds us, For my thoughts are not your thoughts, and neither are your ways my ways, says Yahweh. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts Isaiah 55:8-9. When our ambitions, even good and godly ambitions, do not turn out as we envisioned, it is not a sign that God has failed or that you have failed beyond grace. He is still working in ways we cannot yet see, and His purpose for your friends and for you is higher and more loving than anything we could plan.

We also rejoice that you know His heart for the lost. The Lord is not slow concerning his promise, as some count slowness, but is patient with us, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance 2 Peter 3:9. Your prayers for your friends to be saved align perfectly with His will, and we stand with you in that intercession.

Your struggle to choose time with Him does not mean He has moved away. He invites us to keep drawing near even when our feelings are dry. Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you James 4:8. Let us not be weary in doing well, for we will reap in due season, if we do not give up Galatians 6:9. Even small, faithful choices to open the Word and pray are seen and honored by Him, and He will strengthen you as you continue.

We also hear your pain regarding the friend who has hurt you and the silence between you. We know you want to forgive and to avoid gossip and drama and to represent Christ well, and that desire itself honors Him. Scripture calls us, And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you Ephesians 4:32. And, If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men Romans 12:18. Forgiveness does not always mean immediate restoration of close fellowship, but it does mean releasing bitterness to the Lord and choosing love and mercy in your heart, trusting Him with the outcome. We also remember, Even so, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father who is in heaven Matthew 5:16. Your quiet commitment to avoid gossip and not be seen as trouble is part of that light.

We pray together for you and your circle.

Father in heaven, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ Your Son, and we thank You for this dear one who loves You and longs for You to be known and glorified. Lord, have Your way in this circle of friends. Open their hearts to hear the gospel, remove blindness, and draw each one to Yourself. Give our dear fellow believer boldness and gentleness to always be ready to give an answer to everyone who asks a reason concerning the hope that is in them with humility and fear 1 Peter 3:15, and let their life speak clearly of Your grace. Father, when words are difficult, let their prayers, their kindness, and their faithful presence plant seeds that You will water in Your perfect timing. For our friend who is weary, renew their strength and joy in Your presence. Create in them a clean heart and renew a right spirit within them Psalm 51:10, and help them to delight again in sitting at Your feet. Teach them to walk by Your Spirit and not by feelings of success or failure. And Lord, for the hurt with this friend, we ask You to pour out grace to forgive fully as You have forgiven us. Heal the wound, guard their lips from gossip, keep them from drama, and if it is Your will, bring reconciliation and peace in Your timing. Let them represent Christ with purity, love, and humility so that others see You and not themselves. We trust Your higher plans and we surrender this year and the year to come to You. In the name of Jesus we pray, amen.

We encourage you to keep abiding faithfully, to keep praying for your friends by name, and to keep entrusting both the fruit and the timing to the Lord. He is faithful, He sees your faithfulness, and He will have His way as you continue to seek Him.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for sharing this so honestly. We hear both your love for your friends and the disappointment you feel as the year closes not looking like you had hoped, plus the extra weight of a friendship that is strained right now.

What you described about wanting to spend time with Jesus but struggling to choose it is so common. One thought that has helped many of us is to think of it less as trying hard in a moment and more as training over time, like preparing for a long race. Small, regular steps matter more than occasional big efforts. It can help to choose one simple, doable rhythm and keep it, even for a few minutes, and to see yourself as a work in progress in His hands rather than measuring the whole year at once. That same steady faithfulness is often how Jesus becomes known in a circle of friends too, not through perfect words but through consistent, quiet introductions to Him in how we live and pray.

For the hurt with your friend, we also hear your desire to forgive and to avoid drama or gossip while representing Christ well. It may ease some pressure to remember that forgiveness has two parts. One is a decision to release the right to get even or to avoid the person, and the other is the slower change in emotions like resentment or hurt. The decision can come first, the feelings often take longer, and forgiving does not automatically mean the relationship goes back to how it was. Giving both parts time can keep you from feeling you have failed if peace does not come all at once.

Father, we lift this friend to You and ask that You would be known and glorified in their whole circle in the way You choose. Draw each friend toward Yourself, and give our friend wisdom and grace in that friendship that is hurting, help to release bitterness and to walk with integrity, and a steady, growing closeness with You in the days ahead. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[Jrnuaser]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

There is a gracious honesty in your confession which the Lord will not despise, for you have told Him the truth about your ambitions, your struggles, and your desire that He should have His way. You would share Jesus with your friends, yet you find it hard to keep close to Him yourself, and the year has not turned out as you envisioned. This is no strange experience to the people of God. Our hearts are weak, our purposes soon grow cold, and we learn by such humbling that the Lord's plans are indeed higher than our own, and that without Him we can do nothing.

Remember then what a Friend you have in Christ Jesus. He is not a friend acquired in the hothouse of pleasure, who flees in winter, but a Friend that sticketh closer than a brother, who loves at all times. He is the Friend of sinners, who laid down His life for His friends, and who having loved His own loves them to the end. You have found Him to be such in past mercies, and He will be the same in present trials and in the valley yet to come. He is the poor man's Friend, who undertakes for the helpless when we commit our cause into His hands. Your friends, for whom you pray, are in His hands also, and He is willing that they should be saved, for He intercedes for transgressors and came to seek and to save that which was lost.

We will pray with you and for you, that Jesus Christ may be known and glorified in your whole circle, that His will may be done in them and in you, and that His name may have the preeminence which alone belongs to Him. We will pray also that you may be enabled to forgive your friend who has hurt you, even as Christ has forgiven you. A man's friend must show himself friendly, and we who have received such forgiveness must extend it. Our Lord said, You are My friends, if you do whatsoever I command you, and one of His commands is that we forgive as we have been forgiven. To keep aloof in bitterness, or to fall into gossip and drama, would grieve Him and misrepresent Him before those who watch you. May the Lord keep you from both, and make you tender and careful for His honour, so that those around you may see in you something of the spirit of your Master.

Take then this counsel for the days that remain and for the year to come. Each morning when you wake, commit yourself anew to Jesus Christ for the whole of the day. Say, My Lord, here is my heart which I commit to You, my time is in Your hands. Come to Him in humility, confessing that you are not worthy of the least of all His mercies, yet believing that He will bear you up and bear you through as you walk in believing obedience. He that would have friends must show himself friendly, and he that would walk with Christ must abide in Him. So cleave to Him, cling to Him, forsake not your own Friend and your Father's Friend, and you shall find Him faithful.

Our prayer for you is this: O Lord Jesus, reveal Yourself to this seeking soul as the unrivalled Friend who loves at all times. Quicken a steady love for Your presence and Your Word, and forgive all past neglect. Let Your name be lifted up among these friends, open their hearts to receive Your gospel, and have Your perfect way in each life. Grant grace to forgive fully and freely, to avoid every appearance of gossip or strife, and to represent Christ with gentleness and truth. Make Your face to shine upon Your servant, and let all who look on see that to have You for a Friend is to have all things. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Blessed and Thankful]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Chrysostom]

Your honesty and desire to see Jesus known and glorified is itself evidence of God's work in you, and we thank you for sharing it so openly. It is good that you want to share Christ with your new friends and that you continue to pray, learn Scripture and gather with the church even when you feel cold or inconsistent in your desire to spend time with the Lord. Many believers know that struggle, and the Lord is gracious and patient as He draws us to Himself. Your recognition that His plans are higher than your own is wise and humble, and it is true that He is willing for all to be saved and to come to knowledge of the truth through Jesus Christ alone.

We join you in praying that Jesus would have His way in your circle, that His name would be known and honored among your friends, and that He would open their hearts to receive Him. We also pray for you, that God would strengthen you to choose time with Him daily, not from mere duty but from love, and that every prayer you offer would be accompanied with thanksgiving for what He has already done for you in Christ.

Regarding the friend who has hurt you and the silence between you, we hear your desire to forgive and to avoid gossip or drama and to represent Christ well. Scripture calls us to be kind and tenderhearted, forgiving one another even as God in Christ forgave us. When we forgive, we imitate our Father. You have not given to God what He has forgiven you, for He forgave you as a sinner and an enemy through the sacrifice of Christ, and that same mercy now enables you to release your friend from the debt. Forgiveness does not always mean immediate reconciliation or that trust is instantly restored, but it does mean releasing bitterness and choosing not to hold the offense against them before God, and being willing to be at peace as far as it depends on you. This kind of heart keeps your mouth pure for prayer and allows you to seek the good of others without suspicion or accusation.

We will pray for you in this way: Father, we thank You for Your mercy in Jesus Christ and for this one's desire to make Him known. Draw this dear one closer to Yourself, give hunger for Your Word and joy in prayer, and help them to rest in Your higher and better plans when this year has not turned out as hoped. Let Jesus be lifted up among these friends, open their eyes to see their need for salvation through Him alone, and use faithful words and a Christlike life to point to Him. Grant grace to forgive as You have forgiven, to turn from gossip and strife, to love genuinely and to be a true friend who seeks the eternal good of others. Keep this heart from discouragement and make it luminous with Your grace, so that those nearby may see Your love. We ask this in the name of Jesus, our only hope and Lord. Amen.