I've been in a relationship(currently separated) from a man ...

[chandrabless]

I've been in a relationship(currently separated) from a man who was verbally abusive, always negative, violent, jealous, and at the same time never gave up old relationships with women from his past and started new relationships with many other women. He and his teenage son bullied my daughter while in the same house for over three years.. she is now clinically depressed. Our two younger children have a lot of psychological issues that I'm helping them with now. He went around trying to convince everyone that I was an awful person. He would talk to my dad about me, several men at church, my sister, whom he turned against me. He talked down about me to all of his friends and posted many negative things about me on -banned site-. He would get mad because I never posted anything good about him on -banned site- or talked highly of him to people because he wanted everyone to think that he was such a great person. He kept threatening to leave because anything that I did was never good enough. I prayed and prayed to get away from him because I knew that he was poisoning my life. There were so many times that he would wake me up in the middle of the night arguing about our older kids(from previous relationships). Things like who didn’t do the dishes or why the younger kids weren’t on a regular sleeping schedule. He got mad and made a huge hole in the wall because he saw a message from a friend of mine from junior high that was on the computer asking me to play poker, and stayed the night in a mental institute because someone called the police and he was afraid he would go to jail. He would bring up the fact that I hadn’t followed through with my degree and when I tried to go back to school he would criticize me and say I was going to leave him when I got my degree. I had to quit school again after only one semester because I couldn’t focus. He always found something to argue with me about but never had solutions. He use to scare our younger kids and tell them monsters or spiders were certain places, that was his way of disciplining them or stopping them from doing certain things and our 5 year old is scared of so many things now; he can’t be left alone anywhere and today at school he was too scared to take pictures during picture time and he didn’t know why. After years and years and months of disagreements and arguments I decided to pursue my music career and since he is a music producer and he was involved it worked out for a while, but when we didn’t use all of his music tracks on the album he decided to stop working with us after two years(myself and the other producer) and then said that we kicked him to the curve and took over the project. He then told everyone that I was neglecting my family to pursue my music career (which was his idea) and finally left and went to Texas and oh has my life been so much better without him. . My life as well as the lives of my children, though they are too young to understand. After leaving without saying goodbye to me, he tells everyone that he went out there to start a life for his family and planned on all of us going there. We are going through a divorce now and he has a lawyer and keeps asking about child custody (he has always been afraid of us parting and him having to pay child support) Now he says he is moving back to be closer to our children and I think his intentions are really to start more chaos and try to fight me for the kids in court.

My request is prayer in agreement that he will not come back and live where I live. I need prayer that he will no longer be able to harm myself or my children or even be a part of our lives. It's been a real rough 8 years and I'm so tired of dealing with him. God says that He will silence our enemies and I don't want him around me or my children any longer.

 

[JJNortyperson]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[humble3333]

I went through somewhat of the same circumstance as you. Mine contacted me through the internet with his new girlfriend after leaving for 6 1/2 years to come back for revenge,he had no interest in the children.Making the same statements to take my children from me and making me look like a bad mother, which was so far from the truth.My regret, was when he showed up two weeks later at my door with his new girlfriend with court papers for legal rights to our children. Then I had wished i had ran with the children when he first contacted me.Then i wouldn't have spent 2 1/2 years in the Superior family courts. Dealing with nothing but pain, suffering and misery by both of them.I couldn't run it was too late. The battle began. The battle was more than i could bare, my children and i paid a heavy price.So i gave the battle to God, and he won the battle for us. Only through prayers, trusting in God, believing in him, Faith beyond measurement. I used the words that my Christian sister taught me written in the Bible, "No weapons formed against us shall prosper". So anything him and his girlfriend tried to do to us, backfired everytime through God's grace.I won the court case he got supervised visits at a center, him and his girlfriend broke up when she was no more use to him. He sees his children maybe 12 hours a month.Trust in God will help you. God Bless.

 

[Abbyamy]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Don]

1 Peter 5:7

Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you. Pour your heart out to the Father in Jesus name. HE HEARS YOU. My wife MerciMe and I are praying now for your request in Jesus name.

 

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