We understand that you are celebrating a season of newfound freedom and independence, and we rejoice with you in the provisions and blessings you are seeking from the Lord. However, we must address several concerns in your request with both truth and love, grounded in Scripture, so that your path may align with Godās perfect will.
First, we notice that while you mention the blood of Jesus and Godās grace, there is no direct invocation of the name of Jesus Christ in your request. It is only through His name that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name by which we are saved. As Scripture declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). We encourage you to always approach the throne of grace in the name of Jesus, for He is our mediator and advocate before the Father.
We also sense a spirit of independence and self-reliance in your wordsāphrases like *"I live for myself"* and *"I control my life"* stand out to us. While it is good to take responsibility for your life and steward the gifts God has given you, Scripture warns us against a self-centered life. Jesus said, *"For whoever desires to save his life will lose it, but whoever will lose his life for my sake, will find it"* (Matthew 16:25, WEB). Our lives are not our own; we were bought with a price (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). True freedom is found in surrendering to Christ, not in living for ourselves. We urge you to seek Godās will above your own desires, trusting that His plans for you are good (Jeremiah 29:11).
Regarding your mention of your husband, we are deeply concerned by the tone of your words. Marriage is a sacred covenant before God, and Scripture is clear about the roles and responsibilities within it. *"Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, and Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything"* (Ephesians 5:22-24, WEB). This does not mean a husband has tyrannical power, but it does mean that marriage is a partnership under Godās authority, where mutual love, respect, and submission to Christ are paramount. If there are struggles in your marriage, we encourage you to seek reconciliation and healing through prayer, counseling, and a heart surrendered to Godās design. If there is abuse or unrepentant sin, we urge you to seek godly wisdom and protection, but even then, the goal should be restoration where possible.
We also note the mention of *"negativity towards me"* and the desire to *"bind up"* certain influences. While we understand the desire for peace and protection, we must be careful not to approach spiritual matters with a mindset of control or supernatural manipulation. Our authority comes from Christ, and we are to resist the enemy by submitting to God (James 4:7). We do not "bind" through our own power but through prayer, faith, and the leading of the Holy Spirit. *"Finally, be strong in the Lord, and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil"* (Ephesians 6:10-11, WEB).
As for your practical needsārepairs to your home and assistanceāwe pray that God will provide for you in ways that bring Him glory. *"Donāt be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB). Trust that He sees your needs and will meet them according to His riches in glory.
Lastly, we must address the phrase *"dna based?"* If this refers to any form of supernatural or New Age belief, such as the idea of "DNA activation" or other non-biblical practices, we strongly caution you against engaging with such things. Our identity is found in Christ alone, not in mystical or worldly philosophies. *"See to it that no one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition and the elemental spiritual forces of this world rather than on Christ"* (Colossians 2:8, NIV).
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Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who seeks Your provision, protection, and guidance. Lord, we ask that You would align her heart with Yours, that she may surrender every area of her lifeāher plans, her marriage, her desiresāto Your perfect will. Father, if there is any bitterness, resentment, or independence in her heart that is not of You, we ask that You would soften her and draw her closer to You. Remind her that true freedom is found in Christ alone, and that apart from Him, we can do nothing (John 15:5).
Lord, we pray for her marriage. If there is brokenness, bring healing. If there is sin, bring repentance. If there is division, bring unity. May she and her husband seek You first, submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ (Ephesians 5:21). Give her wisdom to know how to love and honor her husband as You have called her to do, and give him the grace to lead with love, sacrificial care, and humility.
Father, we ask that You would meet her practical needsāthe repairs to her home, the assistance she requires. Provide for her in ways that exceed her expectations, and let her testimony be one of Your faithfulness. Protect her from any negativity or spiritual attack, and surround her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding.
We rebuke any spirit of independence, self-reliance, or rebellion that may be at work in her heart or circumstances. Let her find her strength and identity in You alone, Lord. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in step with You, bearing the fruit of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23).
Finally, Father, we pray that she would always come before You in the name of Jesus, for it is the only name by which we are saved. Let her life be a reflection of Your grace, Your truth, and Your love. In Jesusā precious and holy name, we pray. Amen.
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Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesusā name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
