Is it okay to end a friendship

I think about this for almost a year now and just don‘t know what I should do.
I have a friend I can‘t handle because she has some mental problems and we also had fights and misunderstandings in the past.
She came to Europe from the US about 2 years ago.Married some-not very nice- guy and struggles with depression here.She doesn‘t work,is not reliable and I don‘t feel comfortable meeting her anymore.She‘s not a bad person and I still have love for her.But I don‘t want drama and insecurity in my life.
I‘m the only friend she has.So I feel responsible.I feel bad that I feel this way,because god doesn‘t reject me either.I feel like I MUST be there for her because Jesus would‘ve done that.
But my bad feelings for her don‘t go away.

 

[MissJ]

Thank

You are a good and loving person. Most would not even consider all that you have concerns about. As far as letting go of a toxic relationship, I do not believe it is wrong and you should not have any guilt about it. Guilt are feelings that do not come from God.

Dear Heavenly Father
I ask that you give MissJ the answers that she needs in this situation. I pray that she is able to make the correct decision in this without any guilt or anxiety about it.
I thank you Father for the generousity of spirit that MissJ has displayed toward this woman. I pray for the healing of this person so that she may be healed of this illness of mind and spirit. Remove the spirit of depression, anger and unreliability from her.
I thank you Father for your love and mercy that all of your children receive that is without bounds.
In Jesus name.
Amen

Thank you for your nice reply! I do feel guilty! Because I imagine how many times I needed god and he never said no to me.
And I can‘t get over all the things which happened between her and me.I‘m not angry.I just don‘t want to deal with negative things anymore.But she‘s a good person who just wants to be loved.
After reading your post, I thought that I could see her as a lesson god gives me and not as a friend anymore.Like I just meet up to be there for her.But I always take everything too close.It‘s also her attitude to just be here and not work...

 

[Steven Bobb]

Thank you very much for writing me your thoughts.
She already goes to therapy and seeks help.She also said that she doesn‘t want to be a burden to me. We don‘t see eachother very often ( no more). But I still feel like it doesn‘t „ match“ anymore.She would text me to meet up and I feel like I don‘t want that.
I said more about that in my post to natasha.
She feels no one likes her.All of her friends left her.She is Autistic ( light kind). Her lifestyle is much different from mine.We had a nice time s while ago and I tried to accept her but a lot of things happened since then.
She drank too much,smoked and there was always drama.
And that gives me Anxiety.
I don‘t want to tell her to leave my life.But I also don‘t feel like meeting up.That might sound weird...but that‘s how I feel for more than 1 year now.

I would say then, the best thing is probably to pray for a change that helps both of you...like she finds another person to "lean on",this way she still has someone, and you're out of a problem situation,but don't have to feel guilty because she diverted from you on her own,and you're not put in the awkward spot of finding a way to cool it.

 

[MissJ]

I would say then, the best thing is probably to pray for a change that helps both of you...like she finds another person to "lean on",this way she still has someone, and you're out of a problem situation,but don't have to feel guilty because she diverted from you on her own,and you're not put in the awkward spot of finding a way to cool it.

I think you‘re right...God is the only one who sees what‘s really going on with her.
I feel guilt every time I ask god to help me with something.It‘s like: why should he help me while I don‘t want to be with her anymore. How can I feel this way towards om of his children.She‘s not a Christian though.But was looking for god once.
Thank you again for responding to me.You helped me a lot!

 

[APSS]

I think about this for almost a year now and just don‘t know what I should do.
I have a friend I can‘t handle because she has some mental problems and we also had fights and misunderstandings in the past.
She came to Europe from the US about 2 years ago.Married some-not very nice- guy and struggles with depression here.She doesn‘t work,is not reliable and I don‘t feel comfortable meeting her anymore.She‘s not a bad person and I still have love for her.But I don‘t want drama and insecurity in my life.
I‘m the only friend she has.So I feel responsible.I feel bad that I feel this way,because god doesn‘t reject me either.I feel like I MUST be there for her because Jesus would‘ve done that.
But my bad feelings for her don‘t go away.

Prey to solve ur prob

 

[MissJ]

Prey to solve ur prob

I always pray over things.Thank you though.

 

[MissJ]

The first thing you should do is this. A. Fast and pray for her. Jesus can deliver her from any problem she would have. B. Be friendly and love other just as Jesus love us. C. Attend church services and invite to join the choir of your church. Singing praises to the Lord will make satan flee from her life.

Thank you very much for your words!

 

[Olgah]

Tenants have the same problem. They do not want to pay the rent and get angry when you ask to pay. I pray for them. I ask Jesus to bless them and help them. But more than that. I pray for Jesus to save their souls.

 

[Isabelle10]

 

[SongleaderStelle]

I am praying for you and your friends. God bless you.