Someone from the church my mother and I recently joined has invited me to go out with them somewhere this week. I am excited to go but my family doesn't have any money to go out a lot most months unless we come into extra income and I don't know how to tell people at church that. Also my mom has a lot of fears/reservations about me going with this person or anyone from church anywhere (but my mother is extremely demonized so some of those fears may be due to this). Although I will say, some of her fears are not unfounded because we are still getting to know these people. Please pray for me about it. Thank you.
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We understand the excitement and challenges you’re facing, and we want to lift this situation up in prayer while also offering biblical guidance. First, we rejoice that you and your mother have joined a church body, as fellowship with believers is vital for spiritual growth (Hebrews 10:24-25). However, we also recognize the concerns you’ve shared—both the practical and spiritual ones—and we want to address them with truth and grace.
It’s important to remember that God is your Provider, and He knows your financial needs even before you ask. If this outing is something He wants for you, He will make a way. Jesus reminds us in Matthew 6:31-33, *“Therefore don’t be anxious, saying, ‘What will we eat?’, ‘What will we drink?’ or, ‘With what will we be clothed?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well.”* Trust that if this invitation aligns with His will, He will provide. If finances are truly a barrier, it’s okay to humbly and honestly share that with the person who invited you. Many believers would be understanding and may even offer to cover the cost or adjust plans to something more affordable. Proverbs 16:3 says, *“Commit your deeds to the Lord, and your plans shall succeed.”* If you feel led to go, pray for wisdom on how to communicate your situation with kindness and trust.
As for your mother’s fears, we recognize that spiritual warfare is real, and if she is indeed demonized, this could be influencing her perceptions. However, we also acknowledge that discernment is a gift from God, and some of her concerns may be valid as you’re still getting to know these people. The Bible calls us to be wise as serpents and harmless as doves (Matthew 10:16). It’s good to pray for discernment and to proceed with caution, especially in new relationships. If this person is a believer, their actions and words should reflect Christ. First John 4:1 reminds us, *“Beloved, don’t believe every spirit, but test the spirits, whether they are of God; because many false prophets have gone out into the world.”* Pay attention to whether this person’s life aligns with Scripture and whether they encourage you in your walk with the Lord.
If your mother’s fears are rooted in spiritual bondage, we urge you to pray for her deliverance and to seek prayer support from mature believers in your church. Jesus has authority over every demonic stronghold, and He longs to set her free. Mark 16:17 says, *“These signs will accompany those who believe: in my name they will cast out demons…”* If you feel led, you can also gently but firmly remind your mother that fear is not from God (2 Timothy 1:7). Encourage her to trust in the Lord’s protection and to seek His peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:6-7).
Lastly, we notice that your request didn’t mention the name of Jesus, and we want to gently remind you that it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. Jesus said in John 14:6, *“I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.”* And in John 16:23-24, He tells us, *“Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you. Until now, you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be made full.”* There is power in the name of Jesus, and we are called to pray in His name, trusting in His authority and mediation.
Now, let us pray together for you and your mother:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this precious sister and her mother to Your throne of grace. Lord, we ask that You provide for their every need—financially, emotionally, and spiritually. You know the excitement in her heart to fellowship with believers, and You also see the concerns and fears that weigh on her and her mother. Father, we ask for Your wisdom to guide her in how to respond to this invitation. If it is Your will for her to go, open the doors and provide the means. Give her the words to speak if she needs to share her financial limitations, and soften the heart of the one who invited her to respond with understanding and kindness.
Lord, we also pray for her mother. If there are demonic influences at work in her life, we rebuke them now in the name of Jesus. We declare that fear has no place in her heart, for You have not given her a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind. Father, break every chain of bondage and fill her with Your peace. Give her discernment to know when her concerns are valid and when they are attacks from the enemy. Surround both of them with Your angels, and let Your Holy Spirit be their Comforter and Guide.
We pray for protection over this sister as she navigates this new relationship within the church. Give her discernment to recognize godly character and to walk away from anything that does not honor You. Let this be an opportunity for her to grow in faith and trust in You, Lord. And if this outing is not Your will, close the door gently and make Your direction clear.
Father, we also pray that You would draw both her and her mother closer to You. Remind them that their hope and security are found in You alone. Strengthen their faith, and let them experience Your love in a tangible way. We ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to seek the Lord’s will in this situation through prayer and Scripture. If you feel unsure, ask Him for confirmation and peace. Colossians 3:15 says, *“Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which you were also called in one body; and be thankful.”* If you don’t have peace about going, it may be a sign to wait or decline. Trust that the Lord will honor your desire to follow Him, and He will guide your steps. Stay rooted in His Word, and don’t hesitate to reach out to trusted believers in your church for counsel and prayer. You are not alone in this—He is with you always (Matthew 28:20).
It’s important to remember that God is your Provider, and He knows your financial needs even before you ask. If this outing is something He wants for you, He will make a way. Jesus reminds us in Matthew 6:31-33, *“Therefore don’t be anxious, saying, ‘What will we eat?’, ‘What will we drink?’ or, ‘With what will we be clothed?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well.”* Trust that if this invitation aligns with His will, He will provide. If finances are truly a barrier, it’s okay to humbly and honestly share that with the person who invited you. Many believers would be understanding and may even offer to cover the cost or adjust plans to something more affordable. Proverbs 16:3 says, *“Commit your deeds to the Lord, and your plans shall succeed.”* If you feel led to go, pray for wisdom on how to communicate your situation with kindness and trust.
As for your mother’s fears, we recognize that spiritual warfare is real, and if she is indeed demonized, this could be influencing her perceptions. However, we also acknowledge that discernment is a gift from God, and some of her concerns may be valid as you’re still getting to know these people. The Bible calls us to be wise as serpents and harmless as doves (Matthew 10:16). It’s good to pray for discernment and to proceed with caution, especially in new relationships. If this person is a believer, their actions and words should reflect Christ. First John 4:1 reminds us, *“Beloved, don’t believe every spirit, but test the spirits, whether they are of God; because many false prophets have gone out into the world.”* Pay attention to whether this person’s life aligns with Scripture and whether they encourage you in your walk with the Lord.
If your mother’s fears are rooted in spiritual bondage, we urge you to pray for her deliverance and to seek prayer support from mature believers in your church. Jesus has authority over every demonic stronghold, and He longs to set her free. Mark 16:17 says, *“These signs will accompany those who believe: in my name they will cast out demons…”* If you feel led, you can also gently but firmly remind your mother that fear is not from God (2 Timothy 1:7). Encourage her to trust in the Lord’s protection and to seek His peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:6-7).
Lastly, we notice that your request didn’t mention the name of Jesus, and we want to gently remind you that it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. Jesus said in John 14:6, *“I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.”* And in John 16:23-24, He tells us, *“Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you. Until now, you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be made full.”* There is power in the name of Jesus, and we are called to pray in His name, trusting in His authority and mediation.
Now, let us pray together for you and your mother:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this precious sister and her mother to Your throne of grace. Lord, we ask that You provide for their every need—financially, emotionally, and spiritually. You know the excitement in her heart to fellowship with believers, and You also see the concerns and fears that weigh on her and her mother. Father, we ask for Your wisdom to guide her in how to respond to this invitation. If it is Your will for her to go, open the doors and provide the means. Give her the words to speak if she needs to share her financial limitations, and soften the heart of the one who invited her to respond with understanding and kindness.
Lord, we also pray for her mother. If there are demonic influences at work in her life, we rebuke them now in the name of Jesus. We declare that fear has no place in her heart, for You have not given her a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind. Father, break every chain of bondage and fill her with Your peace. Give her discernment to know when her concerns are valid and when they are attacks from the enemy. Surround both of them with Your angels, and let Your Holy Spirit be their Comforter and Guide.
We pray for protection over this sister as she navigates this new relationship within the church. Give her discernment to recognize godly character and to walk away from anything that does not honor You. Let this be an opportunity for her to grow in faith and trust in You, Lord. And if this outing is not Your will, close the door gently and make Your direction clear.
Father, we also pray that You would draw both her and her mother closer to You. Remind them that their hope and security are found in You alone. Strengthen their faith, and let them experience Your love in a tangible way. We ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to seek the Lord’s will in this situation through prayer and Scripture. If you feel unsure, ask Him for confirmation and peace. Colossians 3:15 says, *“Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which you were also called in one body; and be thankful.”* If you don’t have peace about going, it may be a sign to wait or decline. Trust that the Lord will honor your desire to follow Him, and He will guide your steps. Stay rooted in His Word, and don’t hesitate to reach out to trusted believers in your church for counsel and prayer. You are not alone in this—He is with you always (Matthew 28:20).
We're praying with you, dear friend. We understand the excitement and the concerns you're feeling. It's great that you and your mom have found a church family, and we're here to support you both in this.
We're trusting that if this outing is God's will, He will make a way for you to go. Let's claim Proverbs 3:5-6 together: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths." Trust that He knows your needs and will provide (Philippians 4:19).
As for your mom's fears, let's remind her of God's promise in 2 Timothy 1:7: "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind." Encourage her to cast her cares on Jesus (1 Peter 5:7) and to trust in His protection and peace (Philippians 4:6-7).
Let's also pray for discernment for both of you. If this person from church is a believer, their actions and words should reflect Christ. As you get to know them, pay attention to whether they encourage you in your walk with the Lord (1 John 4:1).
We're here for you, and we're believing that God will guide you both in this. Keep seeking His will through prayer and His Word. You're not alone; He's with you always (Matthew 28:20). Let's trust that He will give you the peace you need to make the right decision (Colossians 3:15).
Let's pray together: "Lord, we come before You in the name of Jesus. We ask for Your guidance and provision in this situation. Help ### to trust in Your goodness and to follow Your will. Give her peace about the decision to go or not to go. If it's Your will for her to go, open the doors and provide the means. Give her the words to speak if she needs to share her financial limitations, and soften the heart of the one who invited her to respond with understanding and kindness. Lord, we also pray for her mother. If there are demonic influences at work, we rebuke them now in Jesus' name. Fill her with Your peace and give her discernment to know when her concerns are valid and when they are attacks from the enemy. Surround both of them with Your angels, and let Your Holy Spirit be their Comforter and Guide. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We're trusting that if this outing is God's will, He will make a way for you to go. Let's claim Proverbs 3:5-6 together: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths." Trust that He knows your needs and will provide (Philippians 4:19).
As for your mom's fears, let's remind her of God's promise in 2 Timothy 1:7: "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind." Encourage her to cast her cares on Jesus (1 Peter 5:7) and to trust in His protection and peace (Philippians 4:6-7).
Let's also pray for discernment for both of you. If this person from church is a believer, their actions and words should reflect Christ. As you get to know them, pay attention to whether they encourage you in your walk with the Lord (1 John 4:1).
We're here for you, and we're believing that God will guide you both in this. Keep seeking His will through prayer and His Word. You're not alone; He's with you always (Matthew 28:20). Let's trust that He will give you the peace you need to make the right decision (Colossians 3:15).
Let's pray together: "Lord, we come before You in the name of Jesus. We ask for Your guidance and provision in this situation. Help ### to trust in Your goodness and to follow Your will. Give her peace about the decision to go or not to go. If it's Your will for her to go, open the doors and provide the means. Give her the words to speak if she needs to share her financial limitations, and soften the heart of the one who invited her to respond with understanding and kindness. Lord, we also pray for her mother. If there are demonic influences at work, we rebuke them now in Jesus' name. Fill her with Your peace and give her discernment to know when her concerns are valid and when they are attacks from the enemy. Surround both of them with Your angels, and let Your Holy Spirit be their Comforter and Guide. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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