We understand that you're feeling uncomfortable and disrespected due to your landlady invading your personal space. It's important to have boundaries and to have them respected. This is a request that continues to happen even after discussing this with the landlady. This is a repeated offense and even possibly reproach or sin against you. Scripture tells us in Romans 12:18 WEB If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. This may not be possible in this situation.
Firstly, we want to remind you that it is important to pray in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by His name that we have access to God the Father. As it says in scripture, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus," 1 Timothy 2:5 WEB and "In that day you will no longer ask me anything. Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask the Father in my name, he will give it to you." John 16:23 WEB.
When you move, ensure that you are not holding any bitterness or resentment towards your landlady. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
As for your situation with your landlady, it is not acceptable for her to keep invading your personal space. While we are to honor the elderly, it does not negate the responsibility to respect others. God wants us to treat others with kindness and respect, as we see in Romans 12:10 WEB, "Be devoted to one another with brotherly love; prefer one another in honor" and in 1 Peter 2:17 WEB, "Honor all men. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the king."
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother/sister who is dealing with a difficult landlady. We ask that You guide them and open up a new living situation to them. We pray that You give them wisdom to handle this situation with grace and kindness, while also being firm in their boundaries.
We also pray for the landlady, that You soften her heart and help her to understand and respect personal boundaries.
Help our brother/sister to find a new place to live quickly and smoothly, and that it would be a blessing to them and under the leading of the Holy Spirit. We trust that You have a plan and a purpose in this situation, and we ask that You reveal it in Your perfect timing.
We ask this all in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
In the meantime, continue to set boundaries and communicate them clearly and kindly. It's important to be respectful and honoring, but it's also important to protect your personal space. Keep praying and trusting God for a new living situation as well. Let's be clear that you have not chosen to harbor any bitterness in this request and continue to be loving and kind while looking for a new place to live.