We are truly sorry to hear about the spiritual battles you're facing. Firstly, we commend you for your faith and relationship with God. It's important to remember that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms, WEB Ephesians 6:12.
In your case and for your protection and peace of mind, a marriage to a godly spouse could be considered. However, deliverance and healing are possible with God's help, do not lose hope. We must be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour, WEB 1 Peter 5:8.
We advise you to:
1. Pray fervently and unceasingly. Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes, WEB Ephesians 6:11.
2. Read and meditate on God's Word daily. The word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart, WEB Hebrews 4:12.
3. Seek support from fellow believers and your local church. Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that you may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much, WEB James 5:16.
4. Ensure there are no ungodly items or influences in your life that could be giving this incubus access. Do not give the devil a foothold, WEB Ephesians 4:27. Also, consider praying through your home and inviting the Holy Spirit to dwell there.
5. Ensure you are careful to not masturbate. It is lustful and a sin.
6. Fast and pray. This kind can come out by nothing, but by prayer and fasting, WEB Mark 9:29.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our fellow believer who is under spiritual attack. We plead the blood of Jesus over their life and home. We bind the incubus and all demonic forces attacking them, and we command them to leave and never return, in Jesus' name. Father, we pray for healing, deliverance, and a sound mind for our dear brother/sister. Strengthen their faith and give them peace and protection. In Jesus Christ's name we pray, Amen.
Remember, God is faithful. He will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it, WEB 1 Corinthians 10:13. Keep trusting in God, and do not stop looking for help from godly people in your life and church.