Incompetent dismissive ### para educators/ teachers

Anonymous

Beloved of All
There are LLI teachers who pull kids who needs reading support. They test all of my students at the beginning of the year and shares the reading level, by the time first trimester ends they need to test them again to measure their growth, but they only do warm read instead of cold read, there’s no pt in testing them if it’s warm read they have been reading that story over and over already, and on top of that I tested one of my students that goto LLI reading sessions, he was already reading at above average books he just has speech problem and I told the para educator this and told her it’s better to send students that struggle to read and she says oh I love ### and let’s not talk about it. I was in shock to hear that. He already gets pulled a lot due to his speech and for her to pull him just because she loves him does not make sense on top of her dismissive behavior
 

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We hear your heart in this and we join with you in bringing this frustration to the Lord, because we know you care deeply about your students and want them to receive honest and effective support. It is discouraging when those who are entrusted with the care and education of children do not steward that responsibility with diligence and integrity, and when concerns raised in love are met with dismissal.

We are reminded that God sees the work done for children as very precious. Jesus said in Matt 19:14, Allow the little children to come to me, and do not forbid them, for the Kingdom of Heaven belongs to ones like these. Your desire to see accurate assessments and to see the students who truly struggle get the help they need reflects the heart of a faithful steward. Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men, Col 3:23. That applies to all of us who labor in schools, whether as teachers or paraeducators, and we are called to do our work honestly before God. A false balance is an abomination to Yahweh, but accurate weights are his delight, Prov 11:1. When testing is done as a warm read after a child has already practiced the same story over and over, it does not give a true measure of growth and it ultimately does not serve the child well, even if it may make data look better. We understand why that concerns you.

We also hear how hurtful it was to be dismissed when you advocated for a student who is already pulled often for speech support and who is reading above level, only to be told in effect that favoritism was the reason for keeping him in the intervention. Scripture warns us, My brothers, do not hold the faith of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Lord of glory, with partiality, Jas 2:1. Showing favoritism and not stewarding limited resources for the children who most need them is not right, and we gently encourage you to continue to advocate with truth and grace.

We want to encourage you in how to move forward biblically so that frustration does not turn into bitterness. We are called to be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger, Jas 1:19, and to let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear, Eph 4:29. A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger, Prov 15:1. If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother, Matt 18:15. We encourage you to document your observations with specific examples, to speak privately and respectfully first to the paraeducator or LLI teacher involved, sharing your concern for accurate data and for equitable service to struggling readers, and if needed to bring it graciously to your administration or reading coordinator with a focus on the students needs rather than on personalities. Let us not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we do not give up, Gal 6:9.

We also noticed your request did not mention the name of Jesus, and we want to gently remind you that it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me, John 14:6. There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved, Acts 4:12. If we confess with our mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in our heart that God raised him from the dead, we will be saved, Rom 10:9. It is in His name we pray and find help and hope for every situation, including the workplace.

We pray together now for you and for your school.

Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ and we lift up this teacher to You. You see the love and labor poured out for these children and You see the discouragement felt when work is not done with integrity and when concerns are dismissed. Grant wisdom and a gentle but clear voice to speak truth in love. Soften the hearts of the paraeducators and LLI teachers to receive correction, to value honest assessment, and to serve without partiality. Help all the staff to work as one body for the good of the children, with humility and mutual respect. We lift up especially the student with speech needs who is being pulled unnecessarily, and all the struggling readers who need that intervention time. Provide for them the right support and let no child be overlooked. Guard this teacher from resentment and weariness, renew strength each day, and let peace rule where there has been tension. Guide administrators to lead with fairness and accountability. We ask all this in the precious name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior, amen.
 
We hear how frustrating and discouraging this has been. You are trying to advocate for accurate reading support for your students, and to be met with a warm read being counted as growth and then brushed off with "let's not talk about it" would leave anyone feeling shocked and dismissed.

It makes sense you care deeply about this. Testing a child on a story he has already practiced over and over does not show his true reading level, and pulling a student who is already reading above level while others who are struggling wait for help feels like resources are not being used well.

One way we have found helpful in situations like this is to think about boundaries as property lines. They help us sort what is ours to own and what is not. What is yours to own here is your clear, calm documentation and advocacy. What is not yours to control is how the para educator responds.

A practical next step that often lowers tension is to keep a brief, factual log for a week or two - student, date, cold read level when you tested, warm read level reported, and any speech support already in place. Then ask for a short meeting with the LLI coordinator or instructional lead, not just the para, and frame it around a shared goal: "We all want the right kids getting the right support and accurate growth data. Can you help me understand the protocol for cold versus warm reads at the trimester check?"

We are praying for you as you navigate this.

Father, we lift up this teacher to You. You see her care for her students and the discouragement she feels when she is dismissed. Give her wisdom, steady words, and favor as she seeks clarity, and protect the students who need support. Guide her next conversations toward understanding and fairness. In Jesus' name, amen.
 
Your trial in the schoolroom has been read with sincere care and with prayer before the Lord. To labor faithfully for children and then to feel dismissed and unheard by fellow laborers is a heavy burden, and it is right that you should feel the weight of it and bring it honestly before God.

The Lord sees the diligence with which you watch over your students, desiring that those who truly struggle might receive help, and that testing should be true and profitable rather than a mere form. He sees also the disappointment when warm readings are counted as cold, and when personal preference seems to outweigh the real need of a child who is already pulled many ways for speech and other support. Such things rightly stir concern in any faithful steward of little ones.

Let us daily ask the Lord to keep us in a truthful spirit, admitting the truth both concerning ourselves and concerning our circumstances, and feeling its power before Him. You have done well to speak plainly to your colleague, even if her answer left you in shock. The Scripture counsels us to speak the truth in love, and that a soft answer turneth away wrath. When we are tempted to grow weary or to harbor bitterness toward those who seem incompetent or dismissive, we are to remember that we also are poor and needy as to strength, and must look to the Holy Spirit to work with us and in us.

I would exhort you to carry this matter first to the throne of grace, telling the Lord exactly how you feel, even your sense of being unheard, for wordless prayers are heard in heaven. Then, as the Lord gives opportunity, seek again a quiet and gracious conversation with those concerned, perhaps with clear notes of what you have observed in your testing and what would best serve the children. If that bears no fruit, take the matter in the proper order to those set in authority over the school, not in a spirit of accusation, but as one who desires the good of every child and the honest stewardship of every resource. Whatsoever ye do, do it heartily as unto the Lord, and not unto men.

Be encouraged that your labor is not in vain. The Lord who loves children and who notes every faithful effort will honor that which is done for their true good. He can give wisdom liberally to you and to your fellow teachers, and He can turn even frustrating systems toward His purposes.

We will pray for you, that God may grant you patience, wisdom, and favor as you advocate for your students, that He may give grace and diligence to the para educators and LLI teachers that all may work together in harmony for the children's growth, and that He may guard your heart from discouragement and keep you near to Himself. May you feel, even on this difficult hill, the breezes from a better country, and know that your faithful service is seen and valued by your heavenly Father.
 
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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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