God bless you and Loves you. His grace is sufficient for you. Please listen to what the word of God's say, for He gives us instruction of how to live. He has spoken through his prophets, and Jesus. He wants us to live well. Here is what Jesus says "man shall not live by bread alone but by the word that comes from His father's mouth. Jesus also so said "my food (spiritual food-word of God) is to do the will of God, His father. So Jesus being the son of the living God knows of the importance to obey and live by the word of God, how much more shouldn't we live the same way, by the word of God.
Because sin is in the world, Job 5:7 Yet man is born to trouble as the sparks fly upward. There are always going to be trouble, trials, tribulations, therefore, God gives us instructions of how to deal with it. But it takes a humble and willing heart to obey God. But our nature is to be independent from God, and do it our way, which is called pride. We are born with it, we even see this in little children. So Jesus says "Matt 11:28 Come to ME all you who labor and heavy burden and I will give you rest. (29) take MY yoke upon you and LEARN from ME, for I AM GENTLE and LOWLY in HEART, and you will find REST. For MY yoke is easy and MY burden is LIGHT.
Here is another scripture: Phil 4:6 He is saying or even commanding "stop being anxious for nothing, but in EVERYTHING by prayer and supplication, with thanking let your request be known unto God. And the PEACE OF GOD which passes all understanding will GUARD YOUR HEART AND MIND through Christ Jesus. Hear God is telling you in verse 8 what to meditate on: what is true (God's) what is honest, noble, just, pure, lovely, pure, good report. Those things will keep your mind occupied with the things of God. Satan's battleground is our mind, he does and carries out his evil devices in the mind. Word of God says be sober-minded, another says gird up the loins of your mind, another says renew the mind. God knows about our mind.
You must be dependent upon Jesus, His words to sustain. Outside of that is confusion, illusion. When we want to be in control, or think we are in control, and things don't work out, we panic, we stress, we become fearful, we feel like losers, we can't sleep, anxiousness, but when we trust and give it to God, we will eliminate those feelings.
Father I pray and bind up the strongholds in this person's life so they will be able to trust in you, surrender all and say yes to you in Jesus' name so you can bring deliverance and freedom for ### in Jesus' name...God Bless You
Father I pray