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I'm really sorry to hear about what you're going through. It sounds like you're in a very difficult situation. It's important to prioritize your well-being and seek support from people who care about you. Here are a few steps you might consider:

1. **Reach Out for Support**: Talk to someone you trust, like a friend, family member, or counselor, about what you're experiencing. They can offer support and guidance.

2. **Professional Help**: Consider speaking with a mental health professional. They can provide you with tools and strategies to cope with your feelings and help you work through this challenging time.

3. **Self-Care**: Focus on taking care of yourself. This includes eating well, getting enough rest, and engaging in activities that bring you joy or relaxation.

4. **Set Boundaries**: It's important to set healthy boundaries in relationships. If someone is making you feel bad about yourself, it's okay to distance yourself from that person.

5. **Seek Spiritual Guidance**: If you find comfort in your faith, consider speaking with a spiritual leader or joining a support group within your faith community.

Remember, you are not alone, and there are people who care about you and want to help. Take things one step at a time, and be kind to yourself.
 
Lord, we thank you that you for the blessings that you have given us. Help us to honor you in every part of our lives. We place this request at your throne. Please hear and reply according to your perfect will and timing. Grant us the peace to know that you are in control. In Jesus Name. Amen.
 
I'm ### yrs old & I'm in love with my 1st cousin for more than ### yrs, I did so much for my love but after ### yrs I feel all my pain and suffering are all waste because he will fight with me. I have told him about my past, i.e., about my 1st love, he still keeps that in mind and he is being so bad to me nowadays. We planned to get married on ###.### but now due to our problems, he keeps blackmailing me by saying he won't marry me. He is not saying this for the 1st; he kept on saying the same thing very often. I got so fed up & I don't have any hope that he would marry me, so I broke up with him yesterday. I was bearing all his tortures; I did what all he asked for, but finally, he himself made me say the word break up. Just because I was not perfect in my past, I was in love with a guy at the age of ###; I didn't know what was right, so I just fell in love without proper understanding. Even that guy was so bad; he used to hit me, torture, use bad words. So that time only, I had to talk to my 1st cousin about my 1st love, what I went through with my X boyfriend. He heard what all I said, and finally, he asked me to break up with that fellow and he said he will take care of me and he said he loves me. That time I was so confused & somehow, I broke up with my X boyfriend. After that, I've been true to my 1st cousin. I have told him everything about what all bad situations I have gone through at the office & public place; I don't hide anything from him. Keeping that in mind, he is torturing me now by hurting me by saying about my behavior at the office, my dressing, etc. This was going on & on, but finally, yesterday, he was asking me to do something; if I'm not doing, it means he won't marry me. It's not that I can't do it; I'm doing it till now, but the name I get is I don't do anything properly. He wants me to update on whatever I'm doing, with whom I'm talking, what I'm talking about. He wants to know what dress I'm wearing. I usually wear only salwars because he doesn't like me wearing any other dress, but still, he asked me to send photos of mine every day, so I even do that every day; I sent him my photos to show him that I'm wearing a proper dress, but still, he will come with some complaints. I have gone through so many sufferings to get him. I stopped my wedding because of him. I stayed in an orphanage; I ran out of my house to stop my wedding, which was arranged by parents. I went through a lot of pains & suffering. After staying for a month in an orphanage, my parents called me back home, and I went back home. After that, my staying at home was hell. After days go by, my parents started talking about me that I went out of the house, disgraced them, etc. I'm going through this hurt from my parents till now, almost ### yrs. I'm listening to my parents' harsh words. But I had a hope that I will somehow marry my 1st cousin, and everything will be fine. But this fellow started putting new rules like I have to update everything to him about whatever is happening from morning in the office to whom all I'm talking to, what I'm talking about. I have to keep everything in mind and say that it seems I even did that, but something or the other, I used to forget, and he says that I have hidden something to him and I'm a cheater. He will abuse me with bad words. Even for New Year, he was shouting so badly to me; I was quiet. Yesterday, he was writing a mail saying that if I don't update any of the things properly about whatever I'm doing, he said marriage is doubtful. I really got very upset & I was very angry with him, and I said I can't do anything whatever you asked me to do because if I do also, he will say I didn't do properly, so he will say he can't marry me. Only so, I said, you need to marry me or bury me, and I broke up with him. Now I don't have anyone to support in my life, either my parents or him. Just because of him, I was against my whole family. Now, I'm just left out alone. I don't know what for I'm in this world. I can't even go for a marriage now because I'm not mentally prepared to marry another person, and moreover, I'm getting older also. I don't know what to do. I'm really worried, and I just don't like to live in this world. I feel like dying. Please help me. I'm crying every day to God, but nothing is convincing. I'm just losing everything. I need God's help.
 
Lord bless her and open doors of opportunity for her to walk through...touch her mind with Peace and guide her to a place of Peace...Keep her sheltered in Your arms and cover her with Your Mercy and Grace...show her the way Lord...bind this spirit of Fear and let her walk in confidence that You will make a way for her to be delivered from this mess. In Jesus name we pray...
 
Simply hand all of this to God in prayer, and surrender it to him in Jesus' name without reservation, and when you have done this, you will genuinely feel the burden lift, you will then know the power of the Lord himself will deal with it all and relieve you of the burden that is too great for you to shoulder alone. Trust God, he knows you and will protect you. Read passages in the Bible that are appropriate to you and will strengthen you and your spirit. God loves you and will help you. God bless you, ###.
 
I pray in agreement for the will of God to be done in this situation. You are a good God, a mighty God, an awesome God who can do above and beyond anything that we ask. Step in my Lord in Jesus name I prayn in agreement....AMEN!!
 
May God help you find your way through Him, in Jesus' name I pray. Amen.
 
You may be feeling weary and overwhelmed right now because your situation may seem hopeless. That is not true. Nothing is beyond the power of God to work out. There are no impossible situations with God. He who spoke the worlds into existence and who breathed into the dust and made man has no boundaries or limitations. He can do all things and he will move heaven and earth in his perfect plan for you. You just need to trust him and put your complete faith in him.

Beloved, you must understand that no battle you ever face is hopeless. You don’t need to run from your problems; you just need to turn to your God! Never lose faith when you get to the end of your ability for it is at that point that you discover the all-encompassing power of God. Jesus paid the price for our redemption and to give us a future with hope. The enemy may prowl around trying to rob you of your joy but he can never steal the future that Christ paid with his blood. Death has no sting for Jesus overcame the grave. All of your momentary trials are working out a divine purpose to prepare you for the royalty that awaits you in eternity. Your painful situation has a time to end. God knows how to take you from your distress and into his peace if you will just surrender to him.

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