Im The head not the tail DEUT 28:13

[Anonymous]

LOOSEN VERSE DEUT 28:13 IM THE HEAD NOT THE TAIL WHEN I ORDER FOR NOW ANYTHING ONLINE THRU MY VENMO CARD GREATLY ESPECIALLY ON A FRIDAY NIGHT NOT THE TAKERS MONKEYS GET BACK NO FRIDAY NIGHTS THRU MY ENERGY MY FAMILY OUR PETS SO WE CANT HAVE FUN EVER AGAIN MY ANOITING ENERGY ALWAYS GREATLYYYYYYYY IN MY LIFE NOT FOR OTGERS SO I DONT EVER GET LUCKY GREATLY TO FAR SATAN MY GOODNESS I SHOULDNT BE ALONE ON A FRIDAY NIGHT MY ORDER COULDNT EVEN COME THRU JUST GET BACK WHO OR WHAT IS OUT ON FRIDAY NIGHT THAT SHOULDNT BE SO I CANT B HAPPY GREATLY I FIND MY BOAZ AND MY ORDERS OF COURSE CAN WORK FOR ME THRU MY LINKS MY BANK IS LIGIT GREATLY FOR NOW ON I HAVE MY HEARTS DESIRES DREAMS COME TRUE AIR WITH ME WEDDING AIR IS WITH ME I CAN BE HAPPY MY OWN BLOODLINE HAS THERE WEDDING AIR IS WITH THEM ON FRIDAY NIGHT ESPECIALLY ON A FRIDAY NIGHT WE ALWAYS CAN GET LUCKY GREATLY WITH THE BLOOD OF JESUS..MY FAVOR IS GREATLYYY WITH ME IM NOT A DOG IM NOT UGLY IM VERY ATTRACTIVE I CAN DEFINITELY GET A DATE GREATLY MY ATTRACTION OF THE LORD IS GREATLYYY WITH ME HOWEVER BECAUSE OF TONIGHT THE GUYS THAT DEFINITELY DONT WANT ME HAPPY IN ANYWAY HAVE MADE IT A POINT TONIGHT TO BLOCK ME FROM BEING HAPPY ITS STILL TO MEAN AND CRUEL IN CALIFORNIA SO I GET TO DEFINITELY FIND SOMEONE WHO IS A MATCH FOR ME GREATLYYYYY IM THINKING TEAM WORK MAKES THE DREAM WORK OR IN ANOTHER STATE GREATLY URGENTLY LET ME GET MY GUY ON FRIDAY NIGHT URGENTLY THAT CAN FIND ME ATTRACTIVE ON FRIDAY NIGHT AND THEN STAY WITH ME AS MY BOAZ GET MARRIED AS IM GETTING NEVER BE HAPPY COMES OFF OF ME FROM THISE WHO DONT WANT ME GET THE HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL OUT OF MY ENERGY NOW YOU BULLIES SO I CAN FIND MY BOO GREATLY WITH THE BLOOD OF JESUS

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep longing in your heart to be seen, valued, loved and to walk in the blessing and favor of God, especially in your loneliness on Friday nights and in your desire for marriage, and we join with you in bringing this before the Lord together in Jesus name.

We want to gently correct some things in your request with love and truth so that your prayers can align more fully with scripture. You quoted Deuteronomy 28:13 which says Yahweh will make you the head, and not the tail; and you will be above only, and you will not be beneath; if you shall listen to the commandments of Yahweh your God, which we command you today, to observe and to do them. This is a beautiful promise but it is not a loose verse to be used as a charm or incantation for online orders or for luck. In context this blessing was conditional upon obedience to God, and for us today our identity as head and not tail is found not in demanding favor but in humble obedience to Christ. We cannot loosen a verse as if it were magic, we receive the Word by faith and obedience.

We also hear you speaking much about energy, luck, wedding air, and attraction, and we must lovingly rebuke the mixing of new age ideas with biblical truth. The Bible does not teach that we have a personal energy field that others can steal or that we get lucky. Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variableness nor shadow of turning as James 1:17 says. Our anointing is not an energy, it is the Holy Spirit dwelling in us when we belong to Jesus, and our favor comes from God alone, not from chance. To speak of getting lucky greatly or demanding that the universe give us what we want is not how scripture teaches us to pray. Instead we are told in Philippians 4:6-7 In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus.

We also hear your pain about feeling blocked, bullied, and even ugly, and your strong words toward those you feel are against you. We understand that hurt, but scripture calls us not to curse or speak hell over others, even those who hurt us. Romans 12:14 says Bless those who persecute you; bless, and do not curse. And Romans 12:19 reminds us Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord. Our struggle is not against flesh and blood as Ephesians 6:12 says, but against spiritual forces, and our weapon is prayer and blessing in Jesus name, not cursing. The Lord sees your hurt and He defends you when you trust Him.

We rejoice that you mentioned the blood of Jesus, for it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father. John 14:6 says Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. And Acts 4:12 says There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved. We cling to His blood for forgiveness, favor and protection, not as a phrase to control outcomes but as the precious sacrifice that reconciles us to God.

We hear your desire for your Boaz and for marriage and we affirm that desire as good and godly. We believe in the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman as God designed it, and we pray with you for a godly husband if it is God's will for you. We encourage you to see this season not as boyfriend and girlfriend or simply finding a partner, but as courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer. The story of Ruth and Boaz is a picture of a faithful man of integrity pursuing a faithful woman of noble character for marriage. We pray that you would be equally yoked as 2 Corinthians 6:14 teaches, and that any relationship would be pure, honoring God and keeping sex for marriage alone, for fornication outside of marriage is sin before God. Your worth and attractiveness is not defined by whether a man finds you attractive on a Friday night. 1 Samuel 16:7 says Man looks at the outward appearance, but Yahweh looks at the heart, and 1 Peter 3:3-4 says Let your beauty be not just the outward adorning but the hidden person of the heart, in the incorruptible adornment of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God. You are fearfully and wonderfully made as Psalm 139:14 says, and very precious to God.

We also lift up your frustration with your Venmo card and orders not going through and your family and pets. God cares about even the small details of our lives, but He also calls us to trust Him and not attribute every disappointment to spiritual theft or people stealing your joy. Proverbs 3:5-6 says Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. And Psalm 37:4 says Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. That delight means seeking Him first, not demanding our desires on our timeline.

So together we pray.

Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, covered by His blood. We thank You that You see this dear daughter, that You know her loneliness, her longing for companionship and marriage, her desire to be loved and cherished, and her frustration and hurt. We ask You to forgive where there has been misunderstanding of Your Word, where verses have been used as formulas, and where curses have been spoken over others, and wash her in the blood of Jesus. We ask You to replace ideas of luck and energy with the truth of Your Holy Spirit and Your sovereign blessing. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses understanding, especially on Friday nights and in every lonely moment, and remind her that You will never leave her nor forsake her. We pray that You would guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus, heal the wounds that make her feel ugly or like a dog, and show her how deeply loved and attractive she is in Your eyes as Your creation. We ask that You would bring a godly husband, a true Boaz, a man after Your own heart who loves You first and will love her as Christ loves the church, if it is Your will, and that You would prepare them both for a holy marriage that honors You, keeping their courtship pure and Christ centered. Until then help her to delight herself in You and to find joy and community in Your family, the church, so she is not alone. We pray for provision and peace over her finances, her online needs, her family and her pets, and that no weapon formed against her would prosper. We bless those who have hurt her and ask You to remove bitterness and bring forgiveness. We declare that she is the head and not the tail as she walks in obedience to You, not by striving but by abiding in Christ. We ask all this in the name of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior, amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We read your note and we hear how heavy Friday nights have felt for you. Longing for companionship and for a faithful marriage, wanting to feel attractive and hopeful about the future, and then feeling let down when even a simple online order won't go through, it makes sense that loneliness would feel louder on those nights.

We want you to know you are not forgotten, and your desire for a loving marriage is an understandable and good desire. We also hear how much you want joy and peace for yourself and your family and your home, to be able to enjoy life together without feeling blocked or singled out.

Friday evenings can magnify those feelings for many people. The quiet, and the sense that everyone else is out having fun, can make being home alone feel heavier than it is. It does not mean there is something wrong with you or that you are not worthy of love and friendship.

One small step that helps when that loneliness spikes is not to stay alone with those thoughts. Consider reaching out this weekend to a trusted friend, family member, or someone at church just to share how the evening feels, or to join a Sunday gathering where you can be among God's people. If your Venmo card or bank link keeps failing, it may also ease some of the frustration to contact Venmo support or your bank directly next week so a practical snag does not add extra weight.

We are praying for peace in your home and for steady hope as you wait on the Lord for what is next.

Father, we lift our sister to You in Jesus' name. Cover her with Your peace tonight, guard her heart and home, give her rest and good community around her, and guide her with wisdom for each next step. Help her to know she is seen and loved by You. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your longing for joy and companionship on a lonely night has been heard, and there is a deep ache in your words that many know too well, the feeling of being alone when others seem to be rejoicing, and the fear that happiness is being blocked or kept from you.

It is right to bring your desires before the Lord, yet it is needful to understand how His favor truly comes. The words of Deuteronomy 28:13, that you would be the head and not the tail, were spoken to Israel under the covenant, and they point us not to a formula to be loosened or repeated for luck in our orders or our bank accounts, but to the free favor of God which is found only in Christ. Favor is not luck, and it is not an energy or an atmosphere that can be taken by others on a Friday night. Favor is grace, free and undeserved, purchased for us when the Lamb was slain and the ransom was found. As it has been preached among us, nobody would have thought of that way of deliverance through a ransom if God had not thought of it, and He has said, I have found a ransom. That ransom is Jesus Christ alone, who rose from the dead and lives to plead for His people.

You speak of wanting your Boaz and a wedding and a lifelong love, and that desire for marriage is itself not wrong, for marriage is a holy covenant ordained by God as the lifelong union of one man and one woman, and all intimacy and living together belongs within that covenant alone. To seek a husband in purity and faith is good, but we must not ask God to bless what is outside His design, nor to grant luck or attraction as the world counts it. Your worth is not in being seen as attractive for a night, but in being made a child of God through receiving Christ. To as many as received Him, to them gave He power to become the sons of God, and there is a heaven lying asleep inside those words, Abba, Father. If you are His, you are not forgotten, not ugly, not a dog to be cast aside, but dearly loved and fully known.

The loneliness you feel, especially when darkness comes and you feel bullied and beset, is also known to our Lord. He was left alone just when as man He most needed human sympathy, and His brave spirit stood alone while all the dogs of hell raged around Him. He understands the sorrows of deep soul conflict when faith must fight for very existence, and when the absence of godly society makes the night feel longer. Because He endured that loneliness, He is able to be your refuge. The eternal God is your refuge in a thousand ways, not because you have claimed an anointing energy, but because you hide in Christ.

So let us pray not for luck or for power over others through your energy, but for true deliverance and enrichment which comes from His hand. He brought His people forth with silver and gold, not by their own incantation, but because He brought them forth. He makes deliverance effectual.

Let us pray together. O Lord, our gracious God, we thank You that Your favor is free grace through the blood of Jesus shed for sinners. We ask You to forgive all sin and to give this dear soul confidence in Christ alone for salvation. Wash away all thoughts of luck and energy and give a heart that fears You and trusts Your wise providence. If it be Your will, provide a godly husband, a true Boaz who will love as Christ loves the church, and keep both pure until that covenant day, for teamwork in marriage is sweet when it is built on Your word. Guard this home and family and even the beloved pets under Your care, give peace on Friday nights and all nights, and cast out all fear and torment. Let no bitterness or cursing remain, but make the heart merciful as You have been merciful in bringing us out of bondage. Give contentment to wait upon You, for he that seeks a great favor from God prays right on and cannot take a denial but pleads the blood of Jesus and waits. Comfort the lonely with Your presence and with the fellowship of Your people, and let songs of deliverance be heard. In Jesus name we ask, Amen.

Seek the Lord Himself first, walk faithfully with His people in the church, and trust Him to order your steps. He does not withhold good from those who walk uprightly, and His choice favor rests tenderly upon the least and feeblest of His family.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.