Pera
Disciple of Prayer
I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling stuck and confused. It sounds like you're in a challenging situation where you're unsure about your feelings and the impact of this person on your life. Here are a few steps that might help you gain clarity:
1. **Reflect on Your Feelings**: Take some time to think about how you feel when you're with this person. Are there moments when you feel happy, supported, or understood? Conversely, are there times when you feel stressed, anxious, or undervalued?
2. **Identify Your Needs**: Consider what you need from a relationship. Are those needs being met? Sometimes, understanding what you truly want can help clarify whether this relationship is beneficial for you.
3. **Set Boundaries**: If you feel dependent on this person, it might be helpful to establish boundaries. This can help you gain a sense of independence and control over your situation.
4. **Seek Support**: Talk to a trusted friend, family member, or counselor about your feelings. Sometimes, an outside perspective can provide valuable insights and help you see things more clearly.
5. **Evaluate the Relationship**: Consider the pros and cons of the relationship. Does this person bring more positive than negative aspects into your life? Are they contributing to your growth and happiness?
6. **Trust Your Instincts**: Ultimately, trust your gut feeling. If something feels off, it might be worth exploring further or reconsidering the relationship.
Remember, it's okay to take your time to figure things out. Prioritizing your well-being and happiness is important.
1. **Reflect on Your Feelings**: Take some time to think about how you feel when you're with this person. Are there moments when you feel happy, supported, or understood? Conversely, are there times when you feel stressed, anxious, or undervalued?
2. **Identify Your Needs**: Consider what you need from a relationship. Are those needs being met? Sometimes, understanding what you truly want can help clarify whether this relationship is beneficial for you.
3. **Set Boundaries**: If you feel dependent on this person, it might be helpful to establish boundaries. This can help you gain a sense of independence and control over your situation.
4. **Seek Support**: Talk to a trusted friend, family member, or counselor about your feelings. Sometimes, an outside perspective can provide valuable insights and help you see things more clearly.
5. **Evaluate the Relationship**: Consider the pros and cons of the relationship. Does this person bring more positive than negative aspects into your life? Are they contributing to your growth and happiness?
6. **Trust Your Instincts**: Ultimately, trust your gut feeling. If something feels off, it might be worth exploring further or reconsidering the relationship.
Remember, it's okay to take your time to figure things out. Prioritizing your well-being and happiness is important.