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Please pray for healing and trust in my marriage. There has been pornography and it makes me feel never good enough and never pretty enough not worthy.
 
We grieve with you over the deep pain and betrayal you are experiencing in your marriage. The enemy has used pornography to distort God’s beautiful design for intimacy, and we stand with you in rebuking this sin that has brought such devastation. The Word of God is clear: *"Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s"* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, WEB). Pornography is not just a struggle—it is adultery of the heart, as Jesus taught in Matthew 5:28: *"But I tell you that everyone who gazes at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart."*

Your feelings of inadequacy and unworthiness are lies straight from the pit of hell. You are fearfully and wonderfully made in the image of God (Psalm 139:14), and your worth is found in Christ alone, not in the twisted comparisons fueled by sin. Your husband’s struggle does not define you, but it *does* require urgent repentance and spiritual warfare. This is not just a "personal issue"—it is a direct attack on your marriage covenant, and it must be treated with the gravity it deserves. *"No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure"* (1 Corinthians 10:13, WEB). There is no excuse for indulging in this sin, and your husband must turn from it completely, seeking accountability, counseling, and the power of the Holy Spirit to break this stronghold.

We also urge you to examine your own heart before the Lord. Have you allowed bitterness, resentment, or unforgiveness to take root? *"Be careful that no one fails to receive God’s grace. Watch out that no bitter root grows among you to poison others and defile many"* (Hebrews 12:15, NLT). While your pain is valid, you must guard against the enemy using this to drive a wedge between you and your husband—or between you and God. Forgiveness does not mean excusing sin, but it *does* mean releasing the offense to God and trusting Him to bring justice and restoration. *"Don’t say, ‘I will pay back evil!’ Wait for Yahweh, and he will save you"* (Proverbs 20:22, WEB).

Now, let us pray fervently over this situation:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this precious sister who is brokenhearted and weary. Lord, You see her pain—the betrayal, the feelings of unworthiness, the deep wound caused by the sin of pornography in her marriage. We ask You to bind up her heart and remind her that she is Your beloved daughter, redeemed by the blood of Jesus. Let her find her identity in You alone, not in the lies of the enemy or the failures of her husband.

Father, we rebuke the spirit of lust, addiction, and perversion that has infiltrated this marriage. We command it to flee in Jesus’ name! We pray for a spirit of conviction to fall upon her husband—let him be pierced to the heart by the weight of his sin. Bring him to true repentance, Lord, not just sorrow for being caught, but godly sorrow that leads to transformation (2 Corinthians 7:10). Surround him with godly men who will hold him accountable and walk with him in purity. Break every chain of addiction and fill him with the Holy Spirit’s power to resist temptation.

Lord, restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25). Rebuild trust where it has been shattered. Give this wife supernatural strength to forgive as You have forgiven her. Soften her husband’s heart to seek her forgiveness and to pursue her with the love of Christ. Let this marriage be a testimony of Your redeeming power—where sin abounded, grace abounds all the more (Romans 5:20).

We pray for wisdom, Father. Should she confront him with godly boldness? Should she seek biblical counseling? Should boundaries be set for the protection of her heart and the marriage? Give her clarity and courage, Lord. And if her husband refuses to repent, prepare her heart for the difficult steps of truth and consequences that may lie ahead, always guided by Your Word.

Finally, Lord, we ask for a hedge of protection around this marriage. Let no weapon formed against it prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Fill their home with Your peace, Your truth, and Your holy presence. May they both surrender fully to You, seeking first Your kingdom and Your righteousness (Matthew 6:33).

We declare victory over this marriage in Jesus’ name. The enemy has no authority here—only You, Lord, reign supreme. Bring healing, restoration, and a love that reflects Your covenant faithfulness. In the mighty and holy name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

Sister, we urge you to immerse yourself in the Word of God and in prayer. Surround yourself with a community of believers who will support you and speak truth into your life. If your husband is unwilling to repent, you must seek godly counsel on how to proceed—whether through church leadership or a biblical counselor. Remember, *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9, WEB). But confession must lead to change. You are not called to endure ongoing sin in your marriage—you are called to holiness, and so is your husband.

Stand firm in faith. The battle is fierce, but the victory is already won through Christ. *"Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness"* (Isaiah 41:10, WEB). Cling to Him, and do not lose hope. We are standing with you in prayer.
 
We're here with you, sister. We know the pain and confusion that pornography can bring into a marriage, and we're sorry you're going through this. Let's cling to the promise in Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Jesus sees you, He knows your pain, and He wants to heal you.

First, let's remind ourselves of our worth. You are a daughter of the King, fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). The lies of inadequacy and unworthiness are just that - lies. They're not from God, and we reject them in Jesus' name.

Now, let's pray. Heavenly Father, we come to You on behalf of our sister. We lift up her marriage, her heart, and her husband to You. Lord, we ask for Your healing power to touch their marriage. We ask for conviction for her husband, that he would see the sin of pornography for what it is - an attack on his marriage and his relationship with You. Give him the strength to turn away from it and run to You.

We also ask for wisdom for our sister. Give her clarity on how to approach this situation, and the courage to do what You're calling her to do. If her husband refuses to repent, prepare her heart for what may lie ahead, always guided by Your Word.

Finally, Lord, we ask for a hedge of protection around their marriage. Fill their home with Your peace, truth, and holy presence. May they both surrender fully to You, seeking Your kingdom and righteousness.

We declare victory over this marriage in Jesus' name. The enemy has no authority here - only You, Lord, reign supreme. Bring healing, restoration, and a love that reflects Your covenant faithfulness.

Sister, immerse yourself in God's Word and prayer. Surround yourself with a community of believers who will support you and speak truth into your life. Remember, God is faithful, and He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear (1 Corinthians 10:13). Trust in Him, and stand firm in faith. You are not alone. We're standing with you in prayer.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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