We hear the deep pain and despair in your words, and our hearts ache with you. The bullying, manipulation, and spiritual attacks you’ve endured have left you feeling broken, insecure, and hopeless. But we want you to know this: **you are not alone, and your life has immense value in the eyes of God.** The enemy wants you to believe you are beyond help, but that is a lie straight from the pit of hell. Jesus came to bind up the brokenhearted, to set the captives free, and to give sight to the blind—both physically and spiritually (Luke 4:18). He sees your suffering, and He has not abandoned you.
First, we must address the spiritual warfare you’re facing. You mentioned speaking decrees and declarations, but Scripture warns us that our words have power—and not all declarations align with God’s truth. Proverbs 18:21 says, *"Death and life are in the power of the tongue; those who love it will eat its fruit."* When we speak words of defeat, insecurity, or hopelessness over ourselves, we give the enemy a foothold. Instead, we must **speak God’s promises** over our lives. The Bible says in 2 Corinthians 10:4-5, *"For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ."* We rebuke the lies of the enemy in Jesus’ name and command him to flee (James 4:7). Satan has no authority over you if you are in Christ. **You are not "too far gone"**—God specializes in redeeming what seems irredeemable (Joel 2:25).
You also expressed feeling "made stupid" and unable to understand how things work. This is another tactic of the enemy—to make you doubt your own mind and worth. But God’s Word says in 1 Corinthians 1:27, *"But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong."* Your struggles do not define your intelligence or your future. The Holy Spirit is your Helper, your Teacher, and your Guide (John 14:26). If you feel confused or overwhelmed, ask Him for wisdom—He gives it generously to those who ask (James 1:5).
Now, about your statement that there is "no point" in asking for prayer: **this is the enemy’s greatest deception.** Prayer is not a last resort—it is our first line of defense. Jesus Himself told us to pray without ceasing (1 Thessalonians 5:17), and He promised that where two or three are gathered in His name, He is there with them (Matthew 18:20). You may feel like you have no one, but **you have an entire family in Christ who stands with you.** We refuse to let you believe the lie that you are beyond prayer. The Bible says in Hebrews 4:16, *"Let us therefore draw near with boldness to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy, and may find grace for help in time of need."* You are not a burden—you are a child of God, and He longs to comfort you.
We also notice that your message did not mention the name of Jesus. This is critical because **there is no salvation, no deliverance, and no victory apart from Him.** Acts 4:12 says, *"There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."* If you have not surrendered your life to Jesus, we urge you to do so now. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and invite Him to be the Lord of your life. Romans 10:9 says, *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."* If you have already done this, then stand firm in your identity as a child of God. The enemy wants to steal your joy, your peace, and your purpose, but **greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world** (1 John 4:4).
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother/sister who is feeling broken, attacked, and hopeless. Lord, we rebuke the spirit of fear, insecurity, and despair in Jesus’ name. We break every chain of bullying, manipulation, and spiritual oppression that has been placed upon them. Father, we ask that You open their eyes to see themselves as You see them—beloved, valued, and fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). Heal their mind, their emotions, and their spirit. Fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).
Lord, we declare that the enemy has no authority here. We command every lying spirit to flee in the mighty name of Jesus. We speak restoration over their life—restoration of their confidence, their joy, and their purpose. Remind them that You are their Refuge and Strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Surround them with godly community, with people who will speak life and truth into them. Give them the strength to stand firm in Your promises and the courage to reject every lie of the enemy.
Father, if they have not yet surrendered their life to You, we pray that You would draw them close. Let them feel Your love in a tangible way. If they have already given their life to You, remind them of their identity in Christ. Renew their mind with Your Word (Romans 12:2) and fill them with hope for the future. We thank You, Lord, that You are working all things together for their good (Romans 8:28), even when they cannot see it.
We ask all these things in the powerful, matchless name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
Friend, we want you to know that **your story is not over.** The same God who parted the Red Sea, raised Lazarus from the dead, and conquered sin and death is fighting for you. You may feel like you have nothing and no one, but **you have the Creator of the universe on your side.** We encourage you to find a Bible-believing church or a trusted Christian friend who can walk with you through this season. You do not have to face this alone.
Here are some Scriptures to meditate on:
- *"The Lord is my light and my salvation—whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life—of whom shall I be afraid?"* (Psalm 27:1)
- *"But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint."* (Isaiah 40:31)
- *"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."* (Jeremiah 29:11)
Keep speaking God’s truth over your life. Keep praying, even when it feels pointless. Keep trusting that He is working behind the scenes. The enemy wants you to give up, but **God wants to give you a future filled with hope.** We stand with you, and we will continue to pray for your breakthrough. You are loved, you are seen, and you are not forgotten.
