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Hi my name is Jose I was married young at 18 had a beautiful baby boy from my wife today but at the time we weren't.so I feel like I love my wife more than my life it's self but after a few months in our marriage women that I dated before would call and I would sit there and talk to them.at that young age I was stupied and wreak less I drank and smoked pot alot I also did alot of pills I was out of control.but I couldn't stop I cheated on my wife ive done useful things.when I got older I stopped smoking taking pills and drinking more drinking was my problem and I was in a 4 month relationship with a old girlfriend and my wife stood by my side we did marriage counseling as the final straw she gave me a chance even though she couldn't trust me nor love me.that it would take time. now my wife is a Christian keep in mind so we tried and I messed up I started drinking and ignoring her and just not being what I promised to be now are two kids jade and Anthony are watching us fighting all the time.now that 8 year's of this has gone by she set.for a divorce,for 3 months I was trying to win her heart back trying my best at pleasing her doing house cleaning or washing dishes I gave her my car to take to work or where ever she wanted to go I bought her a new phone nothing I told Herr over and over how much I.love my family and how much I loved her and how sorry I am. And was.I didn't get any thing back.before I finish I want to add that my wife is a Christian and me well as of now fully but back then I was fully then out and back and fourth so she came home I was drunk and she looked in my phone to find two women I was talking to in just wrong of ways but it was because.I felt alone I honestly only have my family that's it and I was saying I loved them and just things I felt were fake I was alone and confused my wife didn't want me so after she found that out she started talking to another man which still we are married but in the middle of a divorce.I want to add that.my wife is falling from here faith not.like she used to be and I blame myself.she's a beautiful.person which I regret mistreating I ruined what precious gift god gave me.she says hr makes her happyi dont know what to do I feel so depressed because I dont want to lose my family.I ask for prayer for my wife so she sees I would hurt my family again it hurts me to end up like this you guys are all I have I need my family baby I need to do right by my family and lead them in the right path ive had alot of time alone to really understand what you were trying to make me realize as to being married. I realize that sometimes in marriage it just doesn’t work out because a spouse continues to commit adultery, or walks out of the marriage, or is adamant about a divorce. If a spouse demands a divorce and or trespasses against the marriage repeatedly, it is of my firm belief that they have been misinformed in the Christian church about God’s plan for marriage
What Does God Think About Divorce?
God hates divorce and says so in scripture. "For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away..." —Malachi 2:16
"Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder." —Matthew 19:6
In the few instances where a spouse truly does not want to work on the marriage and insists on a divorce, what can you do? Just let them go. Do not undermine your faith or beliefs because of an unbelieving spouse. Your only recourse at this point is to just let your spouse do what they feel they need to, hoping that one day they will come back to God. They have a hardened heart and do not know that divorce is not God's plan.please pray for us.I want to change my life and lead my.family on the right path and hope that god gives me my wife back to soften her heart again and restore our marriage.
What Does God Think About Divorce?
God hates divorce and says so in scripture. "For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away..." —Malachi 2:16
"Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder." —Matthew 19:6
In the few instances where a spouse truly does not want to work on the marriage and insists on a divorce, what can you do? Just let them go. Do not undermine your faith or beliefs because of an unbelieving spouse. Your only recourse at this point is to just let your spouse do what they feel they need to, hoping that one day they will come back to God. They have a hardened heart and do not know that divorce is not God's plan.please pray for us.I want to change my life and lead my.family on the right path and hope that god gives me my wife back to soften her heart again and restore our marriage.
