We understand your fears and anxieties, but we want to assure you that there is hope and comfort to be found in God's word. First, let's address the fear of death. In Hebrews 2:14-15 WEB, it says, "Since then the children have shared in flesh and blood, he also himself in like manner partook of the same, that through death he might bring to nothing him who had the power of death, that is, the devil, and might deliver all of them who through fear of death were all their lifetime subject to bondage." Jesus Christ has conquered death, and through faith in Him, we can be freed from the lifelong bondage of the fear of death.
Now, regarding your concerns about aging and your husband's love, it's important to remember that true love is not based on physical appearance or youthfulness. In Ephesians 5:25 WEB, husbands are commanded to "love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it." This kind of love is selfless, sacrificial, and unconditional. We pray that your husband will demonstrate this kind of love towards you, just as you should strive to love him in the same way.
Remember that God's love for you is eternal and unchanging. In Psalm 103:17 WEB, it says, "But the loving kindness of Yahweh is from everlasting to everlasting with those who fear him, his righteousness to children's children." As you continue to trust in Him, you can find peace and security in His everlasting love.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this beloved sister who is struggling with fears and anxieties. First, we pray that she will find comfort and hope in the knowledge that Jesus has conquered death and that through faith in Him, she can be freed from the fear of death. We also pray for her marriage, that both she and her husband will demonstrate selfless, sacrificial, and unconditional love towards each other, just as Christ loved the church. Help her to trust in Your unchanging love and to find peace and security in You. In Jesus name Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue to trust in God and to seek Him in all things. In Philippians 4:6-7 WEB, it says, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus." As you continue to bring your fears and anxieties to God in prayer, we trust that you will find peace and comfort in Him.