We understand that you're struggling with self-worth and insecurity, and we're here to support you in prayer and truth. First, let's remember that your worth is not defined by what people think of you or even by what you think of yourself. Your worth is defined by God, who created you in His image.
We must remember how our loving God has reminded us:
For you formed my inward parts. You knitted me together in my mother's womb. I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well.
We pray that you will truly understand how much God loves you. God's love will cast out all fears.
There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear has punishment. He who fears is not made perfect in love.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We lift up our sister to you, and we pray that you will help her see herself through your eyes. Help her to understand and fully assimilate your deep, unfailing love for her.
Help her to put down the idol of other people's opinions of her, and the idol of her opinions of herself, and rely on the truth of your opinions of her.
We pray that you will heal her insecurities and help her to find her confidence and security in you. Help her to embrace her true identity in Christ Jesus.
Lord, your word tells us that: We are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Father we pray that you will help her to live victoriously in this truth, in Jesus' name.