We hear the deep distress and fear in your words, and we stand with you in prayer, lifting this situation before the throne of God. First, we must address the spiritual warfare you are clearly facing. The language of commanding, decreeing, and declaring in your own strength—rather than submitting to Christ’s authority—opens doors to confusion and deception. Scripture tells us, *"For though we walk in the flesh, we don’t wage war according to the flesh; for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds"* (2 Corinthians 10:3-4). True authority comes not from our own words or pride, but from the blood of Jesus and humble dependence on Him.
You mention being followed by those who seek to harm you and your children. This is a serious matter, and we urge you to involve law enforcement immediately if you believe you are in physical danger. God has given authorities to protect the innocent (*Romans 13:1-4*), and we pray for wisdom and safety for you and your family. We also rebuke any demonic influence or harassment in Jesus’ name. The enemy has no right to your home, your mind, or your children. *"Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you"* (James 4:7). We declare that your home is covered by the blood of Jesus, and no weapon formed against you shall prosper (*Isaiah 54:17*).
Now, we must address the matter of your desire for an unmarried man to live with you. Scripture is clear that sexual intimacy outside of marriage is fornication, and cohabitation without the covenant of marriage is not God’s design. *"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers"* (Hebrews 13:4). If you are seeking companionship, we encourage you to pursue a godly courtship with the goal of marriage, not merely living together. This protects your heart, your children, and honors the Lord. We pray for a man who fears God, loves your children as his own, and is committed to leading your family in righteousness.
We also notice the absence of humility and submission to Christ in your words. You declare your own purity and kingdom, but Scripture teaches that our righteousness is like filthy rags apart from Jesus (*Isaiah 64:6*). Salvation comes only through faith in Him: *"For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, that no one would boast"* (Ephesians 2:8-9). We urge you to repent of any pride or self-reliance and surrender fully to Christ. Only then can you walk in true authority and peace.
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the only name by which we are saved and delivered. We lift up this dear sister and her children to You, asking for Your protection over their lives, minds, and home. Lord, we break every assignment of the enemy against them. We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against them in judgment, You will condemn (*Isaiah 54:17*). We cancel every curse, every spirit of fear, and every demonic harassment in Jesus’ name.
Father, we ask for Your wisdom and discernment for her. If there is real danger, reveal it clearly and guide her to the right authorities for protection. Surround her and her children with Your angels, Lord. Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (*Philippians 4:7*).
We also ask for Your forgiveness where there has been pride, self-reliance, or any ungodly declarations made in her own strength. Lord, humble her heart to seek You first and to walk in Your ways. If she is seeking companionship, we pray for a godly man who will love her and her children as Christ loves the church. May he be a man of integrity, committed to marriage and to leading them in Your truth. Guard her heart from any relationship that does not honor You, and help her to wait on Your timing.
Father, we ask that You fill her home with Your presence. Let Your Holy Spirit bring conviction where there is sin, comfort where there is fear, and wisdom where there is confusion. May she and her children grow in their love for You and in their trust in Your protection. We declare that her home is a place of peace, joy, and righteousness in Christ.
We thank You, Lord, that You hear our prayers and that You are faithful to answer. We trust in Your goodness and Your power to deliver and restore. In the precious and powerful name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.