I was a virgin until I slept with a ...

[LivlovesJesus]

I was a virgin until I slept with a man that I fell deeply in love with. He had already slept with a couple of other women before me, which I knew beforehand. Somehow, we had this idea that God would join us if we lay together. Some time later though, this man told me that one of the other women he had previously slept with was a Christian and it was just a one-off thing. He said that because he slept with this Christian woman before me, he is somehow betrothed to her. He says he thinks it's God's will for him to marry her. However, he is not in love with her and nor is she in love with him, for she is with another man. He's in love with me and wishes to marry me, but thinks God will not let him. I love him deeply and also wish to marry him, but I fear this will never happen. The regret and guilt he has of his past sexual sin has consumed him to the point of deep depression.

I struggle to believe that it really is God's will for him to marry this woman he doesn't even love. I believe he is bipolar, so it's possible what he thinks is God's will could actually be part of his mental disorder.

Please, dear brothers and sisters, pray for God to reveal His true will to this man, and to release him of the overwhelming and consuming regret and guilt of his past. Please pray that God will cut this man's ties to his past sin, that he may start anew.

Thank you, God bless you!

 

[Articles]

Lord, we thank you that you for the blessings that you have given us. Help us to honor you in every part of our lives. We place this request at your throne. Please hear and reply according to your perfect will and timing. Grant us the peace to know that you are in control. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Chris8]

Dear Lord,please have mercy on this woman and that man.

In the Name of the Lord,right now I command to all the power of darkness and the curses to leave this woman and that man! Now!

I pray that Your will to be done in their lives.

You are the King of kings and Your Name is Wonderful.

Thank You my Lord

 

[waytonice]

Dear Sister In Christ, I'm not really that good when it comes to the affairs of the heart, but it's funny that you say that's how he feels because my Mom use to tell me the same thing growing up, which I never heard that from anyone else, only she told me it was suppose to be the first person you are ever with whether they are a Christian or not! However, I do NOT believe that God would want you to be with a person you do NOT love just for that reason, and God also doesn't like divorce, and more than likely that's what would happen! I'm so thankful that our sins have been forgiven the day that Jesus died on the cross for us John 3:16. Please tell him that God has already forgiven him if he asked for repentance and stopped continuing in that sin! If you two are meant to be together God will make a way and he will bless you beyond measure! Just stay true to each other and wait until marriage now as this is the honorable thing to do! If he continues to struggle in this area it would serve him well to go talk to a Pastor or someone that can assure him that he'll be ok. ~ I read this quote recently that says " If Satan tries to remind you of your past, just turn around and remind him of his future." Well I'm praying that all works out well for you two, and May God Bless You Both, In Jesus Name, Amen

P.S. I'm so glad I heeded my Mom,s advice as I'm happy to say that I've been married to my one and only for almost 28 years now, but I know that had he not been my first God would of still forgiven me!

Dear Sister In Christ, I'm not really that good when it comes to the affairs of the heart, but it's funny that you say that's how he feels because my Mom use to tell me the same thing growing up, which I never heard that from anyone else, only she told me it was suppose to be the first person you are ever with whether they are a Christian or not! However, I do NOT believe that God would want you to be with a person you do NOT love just for that reason, and God also doesn't like divorce, and more than likely that's what would happen! I'm so thankful that our sins have been forgiven the day that Jesus died on the cross for us John 3:16. Please tell him that God has already forgiven him if he asked for repentance and stopped continuing in that sin! If you two are meant to be together God will make a way and he will bless you beyond measure! Just stay true to each other and wait until marriage now as this is the honorable thing to do! If he continues to struggle in this area it would serve him well to go talk to a Pastor or someone that can assure him that he'll be ok. ~ I read this quote recently that says " If Satan tries to remind you of your past, just turn around and remind him of his future." Well I'm praying that all works out well for you two, and May God Bless You Both, In Jesus Name, Amen

P.S. I'm so glad I heeded my Mom,s advice as I'm happy to say that I've been married to my one and only for almost 28 years now, but I know that had he not been my first God would of still forgiven me!

Dear Sister In Christ, I'm not really that good when it comes to the affairs of the heart, but it's funny that you say that's how he feels because my Mom use to tell me the same thing growing up, which I never heard that from anyone else, only she told me it was suppose to be the first person you are ever with whether they are a Christian or not! However, I do NOT believe that God would want you to be with a person you do NOT love just for that reason, and God also doesn't like divorce, and more than likely that's what would happen! I'm so thankful that our sins have been forgiven the day that Jesus died on the cross for us John 3:16. Please tell him that God has already forgiven him if he asked for repentance and stopped continuing in that sin! If you two are meant to be together God will make a way and he will bless you beyond measure! Just stay true to each other and wait until marriage now as this is the honorable thing to do! If he continues to struggle in this area it would serve him well to go talk to a Pastor or someone that can assure him that he'll be ok. ~ I read this quote recently that says " If Satan tries to remind you of your past, just turn around and remind him of his future." Well I'm praying that all works out well for you two, and May God Bless You Both, In Jesus Name, Amen

P.S. I'm so glad I heeded my Mom,s advice as I'm happy to say that I've been married to my one and only for almost 28 years now, but I know that had he not been my first God would of still forgiven me!

 

[waytonice]

Sorry I' m on my IPad which I' m not use to let thus the the reason for the multi quotes! I guess I really wanted to get my message across, LOL

 

[donise]

I was a virgin until I slept with a man that I fell deeply in love with. He had already slept with a couple of other women before me, which I knew beforehand. Somehow, we had this idea that God would join us if we lay together. Some time later though, this man told me that one of the other women he had previously slept with was a Christian and it was just a one-off thing. He said that because he slept with this Christian woman before me, he is somehow betrothed to her. He says he thinks it's God's will for him to marry her. However, he is not in love with her and nor is she in love with him, for she is with another man. He's in love with me and wishes to marry me, but thinks God will not let him. I love him deeply and also wish to marry him, but I fear this will never happen. The regret and guilt he has of his past sexual sin has consumed him to the point of deep depression.

this guy is not a good guy,he has already tricked you,don't fall for his lies,read your bible,see what god tells you,search for the answers,don't stop till you find out the truth,this man took you for his sexual sin,when he sleeps with other women and has many partners,he is already showing you the first sign.he is no good,no matter how nice or cute he looks on the outside,it is who lives in the inside of him,from within. Jesus CHRIST WOULD NEVER BE UNFAITHFUL.THAT UNFAITHFUL COMES FROM SATANS FOLLOWERS.THERE IS NO SUCH THING OF BYPOLER,DON'T LET ANY ONE TRICK YOU,THIS WORD WAS MADE UP BY,WHO KNOWS WHO,ITS NOT IN THE BIBLE.ITS LIKE THIS,EVERYONE HAS A CHOICE,THEY WANNA FOLLOW JESUS,OR THE DEVIL

NO ONE CAN WORSHIP TWO GODS.

I pray in Jesus name that you get away from this guy, and don't have sex with anyone until you know Jesus Christ more and study your bible.don't let anyone take you away from Jesus and bring you down to there level,think,its not love,you want from this guy,its called your looking for some kind of attention, making love is between a man and wife.he will take everything from you even your soul.you don't know who you are dealing with. you can be in great danger and you don't even know it.please take it from me,i was their in your shoes. i was with a guy he said he loved me, i believed him, i was a virgin no more, i was 12 he was 17, he lied to me only to get what he wanted.how would i know,i was just a kid...he got my friend preg, married her,ended up beating her up at age 15 she was, she divorced him at 16,what away to find out the truth, i never took him back,even when he begged me, he went out on me once too many times, that stuff he did to me got me confused, and that was just what the devil wanted, i ended up marring two more violent men, that i left and never went back.i was one of the lucky ones to be alive and tell you my true story. ask god to forgive you for you have sinned, and ask him to help you stay with out sex until he brings you the right man,that never will lie to you. i'm still waiting, i haven't been with anyone since 2 years now, i just do other things hobbys to keep going and read my bible, i have already raised,6 children on my own as a single mom.all my kids are grown up, i wish to have a nice man, but i stopped looking, i got my self a dog, and i just want jesus only.i have had a hard life, i went threw cancer in 1994 and kemo therpy, i was in a coma for one month, i saw jesus, i asked to be here til im 100 or something,i have been threw so much lies and abuse, i pray in jesus name you find your way to his path and don't believe in this guy any more, you are much better then him. start over you can do it,get out while you can. love donise, in jesus name amen even though you had sex with the wrong person, ask jesus to make you new in jesus name amen love always donise

I struggle to believe that it really is God's will for him to marry this woman he doesn't even love. I believe he is bipolar, so it's possible what he thinks is God's will could actually be part of his mental disorder.

Please, dear brothers and sisters, pray for God to reveal His true will to this man, and to release him of the overwhelming and consuming regret and guilt of his past. Please pray that God will cut this man's ties to his past sin, that he may start anew.

Thank you, God bless you!

 

[LivlovesJesus]

I have to tell you that I know I have not been cruelly tricked or lied to by this man. He didn't just want to sleep with me and that's it. He is a good and honest man, with great passion about God. Unfortunately, he's just made mistakes like we all do, for we are all sinners. His mind has been warped after a difficult past. He does know that something's not right with the way he thinks, but he can't change it. He just needs some help, and sometimes we need God AND medication, etc.

There definitely are things such as bipolar, I know. It's very common for Christians to just say that mental disorders aren't real and it's all to do with your relationship with God. The truth is though that we are only human and we do sometimes have chemical imbalances in our brains. This man doesn't believe he needs help, but the people around him can see otherwise.

Please don't pray that I stay away from him (although, I have been doing so anyway), but rather pray for his healing. We truly are in love. Even my parents can see that this man is honest. God has never told me that this man is dangerous and that I should steer clear of him. I wasn't even looking for anyone, but then this man just popped up in my life. I have always turned away from men, prefering to stay single, until he came along. I do believe we are some kind of soul mates. It's just that we met at a bad time. I have faith that one day we may be fit to be together again. However, if God tells me he's not right for me, then I'll have to let go. But I am currently trying to help this man, as I believe I'm meant to. He deserves to be happy and live his life without these mental hinderances. Even if we never end up together, I'd just be happy to see him well.

 

[dmm]

Ok, first. I want you to understand the Covenant involved with Marriage and why it should be between one man and woman. The very reason he's confused is because his spirit is confused. When you sleep with someone it is a joining of two spirits. Literally. The word says "and the two shall become ONE". Then, your desire should only be for you husband or wife. The first picture we have of Jesus is joined together with the bride. So...marriage is literally a type and shadow of the covenant between Christ and his church. That being said is that when you join yourself outside of the marriage covenant, your spirit becomes literally confused as this isn't God's natural order. It's not just a physical act it's a spiritual act reserved for the confines of marriage and marriage alone. You spirit will become confused if you don't repent of it too. You will pine for him because that's how God made you. Once you are saved and your knowledge increases in God this will become deeply evident to people. You can't make someone love you or like you. You can't make someone stay or leave. You can't control anything about another person. Not even God can do this as he gave us all free will. God can't make someone love you, but he can lead them closer to HIM so that they can feel his love first. He can't make them listen to his Holy Spirit who is trying to guide them through his word, but he can bring him to the word. We have to take it and use it. God can free and has freed us from our sins, it's just us who have to accept it and move on. So if he's truly repented and truly is seeking the Holy Spirit and you and him turn from sexual immorality outside of marriage then you begin to see the true love of God. Having all this inside of you is like looking for the sun through a hurricaine. It's there, and never changes it's position, it's just clouded.

So I hope I haven't offended you. Stay strong and positive and get deep into God's word. Never take sex lightly inside or outside a marriage. It's Gods gift to you and to your husband only!

Have a blessed day.

 

[waytonice]

Dear Daughter Of Christ, I have to agree with dmm after reading what she wrote so I hope I didn't give you the wrong impression. The bible clearly instructs us about fornication. 1 Corinthians 6:12-18 Yes we are to definitely wait until marriage, but if one has not God will forgive that sin if we come to him and ask for repentence and not to cotinue in that sin as that is what God would want us to do. He is an almighty and gracious God. I also understand what you were asking for in prayer, and so I' m praying again that God will be with you both. May your friend be totally convicted in his heart. God Bless!

 

[fighter]

Hebrew 13:14 4 Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.

my dear sister it is wrong to sleep with a men before marriage God never joins in these kinds of things outside of marriage for his son went on the cross for these sins it actually hurts him to see his children going through these . Jesus really wants to help you before you can help anyone you need to ask the Lord to help you and he is willingly to help you, in order to set someone free from their pain you need power and the love of God with our own power it will be destroyed for God says in Luke 6:47-49 47 As for everyone who comes to me and hears my words and puts them into practice, I will show you what they are like. 48 They are like a man building a house, who dug down deep and laid the foundation on rock. When a flood came, the torrent struck that house but could not shake it, because it was well built. 49 But the one who hears my words and does not put them into practice is like a man who built a house on the ground without a foundation. The moment the torrent struck that house, it collapsed and its destruction was complete.â€

My sister the Lord cares for that men more then you can just be obedient to the word of God do not give way to desire. desires will hurt and destroy more desires of the sin the Lord is willing to help you and your friend because if God doesn't set you free or that men no one can for he has all the power. God may use a servant of him to help u and that men Jesus really loves you just repent from your sins.. Pray that the Lord cleans the desire of these world from your heart 1 John 2:16 For everything in the world--the cravings of sinful man, the lust of his eyes and the boasting of what he has and does--comes not from the Father but from the world. Praise be Jesus in his name amen!