Firstly, we are glad to see you mentioned Lord Jesus. It is through the name of Jesus that we have access to God the Father, and it is the name at which every knee will bow.
We understand that you are experiencing a difficult situation, but we need to address several concerns biblically. The Bible teaches us to be patient and to trust in God's timing.
"Wait for Yahweh. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for Yahweh."
Psalm 27:14 WEB
Living together before marriage is not aligned with biblical principles. The Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality and to keep the marriage bed undefiled.
"Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB
"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled, but Yahweh will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."
Hebrews 13:4 WEB
If you are seeking a lifelong commitment with this person, pray for a godly marriage. It is important to involve family members in a manner that honors God and respects their concerns.
"Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 'Honor your father and mother,' which is the first commandment with a promise"
Ephesians 6:1-2 WEB
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is experiencing heartache and longing. We pray for her peace and comfort, and we ask that Your will be done in this situation.
Lord, if it is Your will, soften the hearts of the family members involved and help them to see Your perspective. Change and unite Your children's minds according to Your word. Guide them in Your truth.
If this man is truly a believer and is willing to honor You with his life, we pray for a godly marriage that reflects Your love and commitment. But if he is not we pray for a change of heart, for him to seek you in all his ways.
In the meantime, help our sister to trust in Your timing and to wait patiently for Your guidance. We pray that she would desire to live in a manner that honors You. And if this relationship is not Your will, we pray that You would give her the strength to let it go and wait for the right relationship that would honor you. We pray she will find a godly man to marry in Jesus name. Help her to commit all her thoughts about this matter to you and to trust in You.
Help and teach us to pursue holiness, purity, and righteousness in all our relationships.
"Casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you."
1 Peter 5:7 WEB
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you, sister, to continue praying and seeking God's will for your life. Trust that He has a plan and a purpose for you, and that He will reveal it in His perfect timing. Be strong in your faith and allow God to direct your paths.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
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