God bless you Father in the name of Jesus, I lift up Sallie's husband former children to You to help them emotionally from not having a father, to nuture them to be wholesome. Father lift them up above the rejection, above the abandonment in Jesus name. Father, You said in Your words, when mother or father forsaken them, You will lift them up. Oh father, I cry out for them in Jesus name. Convict this father of his sins of abandonment. Awaken his heart to stand up for his children and fight against all that hinders him, to be a true and godly father. Soften his heart, remove the stones of hardness from his heart to be a good man, and a good father. All the things that blocks him, all the obstacles that blocks him from not seeing his children, give him the power to fight it. Encourage his wife to stand and assist him in doing so in Jesus name. Father I pray for his salvation and for him to be born again by Your Holy Spirit. And I pray for his wife to give her wisdom and understanding as she seeks after You for direction in Jesus name.
Sallie as your husband indicated, that he does not want to have children because he does not see his previous children ties in or is connected to him not wanting anymore. I dont know the circumstances of why he is not seeing his children. However, when those barriers are remove, and clear the way, in which you should help to bring harmony and God will give you the tools, when He sees you are willing, mistakes will happen at times, but with a true heart , God will give you support.
Children who feel rejected, and abandomen by their parents or parent, becomes angry, unforgiving, rebellious, turn to drugs, feel rejected, reject others, hate themselves, get in trouble with the law, dont do well in school, and so on and on. This would be the fruits of abandonment and neglect. There needs to be healing for your husband and healing for his children. God bless you..