Dear sister, if you do not want to sign the papers, Don't! Pray and wait on the Lord... do not follow a man into divorce, you know in your heart you don't want it and neither does the Lord, so wait on the Lord and do only what He leads you to do. Put your heart in the Lord's hands and allow Him to heal and bind you up, and to draw your strength from him. Maybe watch the movie "Fireproof", and try the "love dare". Do anything but give up. You have his spirit in you, the same spirit that raised Christ from the dead, and in Christ you can do all things. Amen.