I need your guys help. For those who take the time

[Jasmine Jones]

I need your guys help. For those who take the time to read this I truly appreciate it. I feel like I just need some advice on what to do with my current relationship situation. For those who have read my numerous previous requests you guys probably have an idea.
For the last year I was dating a man that I love so dearly and we went from promise rings to I love yous to literally making a commitment that nothing would come between us and we were meant for each other. He is much older than me and I expected him to be really serious about what he was saying considering I had met his parents and everything.
When we started dating he was very close to this other female which he trains in a group and I always felt threatened because I knew they were close and he reassured me numerous times that they had nothing and will never have anything they are just friends.
Recently he left me without a valid explanation he just said to me he had never had someone as caring and as loving and passionate as me and doesn't know what to do because my parents would never approve. In which I said that's not true because my parents would want me to be happy and I would tell them with pleasure but I needed to make sure the situation was stable first. He distanced himself so much from me it's been such a painful experience because I see him everyday . Last week he was so cold to me and ignored me flat out and I saw him leave to have drinks with the same girl he told me not to worry about and I shat him out saying he cheated on me and went straight to her and all that. He then asked to see me for lunch as he said I had my facts wrong and that he said from day one there's nothing there she's just always been there for him and he's going through a difficult time and doesn't want to hurt me. He cancelled plans last minute and called me saying he doesn't need my hurtful comments and he doesn't have to explain himself to me and was so angry with me and then asked if we could just be friends and then take it from there?
Obviously I agreed because I don't want to lose him! But I need to know what you guys think should I let go and heal it should I entertain his messages he still sends me with rose emoticons and voice notes of how he loves my smile and all of that. Because surely there's more going on with that other girl because every time she sees me she stares me up and down and makes a comment to her mom. I just don't know what to do. Is he just a player and it's time I give up and tell him straight when he messages me again that I'm not his second choice or do I continue to trust him and believe what he's saying and see how things end up. I'm so lost and hurt .
Please help me

 

[Anji]

Keep God in your heart, cast your care unto Him, everything is possible when you trust in the Heavenly Father.

 

[Brother James]

Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus  
 
Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend  
 
Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart
 
Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me
 
Let Us Pray:  God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You.  I long for a more intimate relationship with You.  God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8).  Show me how to draw closer to You.   Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life.  Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life.  God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7).  I confess, I will take no thought for my life.   I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34).  I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily.  Thank You Jesus for Your Promises!  Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3).  Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus.  God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site.  Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus,  my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.
 
Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.

 

[HMC1957]

Hello. Know your worth my dear....

Please don't get caught up in the web of this person's manipulation and control tactics. Trust in the Lord instead.

"Lord do not let me fall victim to the controlling words of another.. Please help me to rely and stabilize my life on Your word alone. Lord grant me the wisdom to see through manipulative tactics that keep me from walking in the full honor, dignity and integrity that You have called me to do. " In Jesus name. Amen

 

[gratefully777]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Isabelle10]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.





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[Hopeful23]

I think you already have the answer. You are just looking for confirmation of what you already suspect. To put it nicely I think this man is full of brown sugar.

Tell him he needs to choose and that you aren't willing to be second fiddle.

He does sound like a player and manipulator to me.

Oh, and as for him saying he doesn't have to explain himself to you. Really? Well, that is not true. If he made a commitment to you then you both are accountable to each other so he does have to explain himself to you. If he wants to do whatever he wants and not be called out on anything then he is not really committed and maybe it's time to say goodbye buddy.

 

[hostadmin]

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