I need to get out of confusion

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I am a born again christian for the last four years. Two weeks ago i met a young woman in her mid thirties who fell in love with me. Above all she is married and has two children. These young woman took me to the supermarket and bought for me very expensive house hold goods. After that we have been going out for the last one week and even had a sexual affair with her. Im in a deep confusion because i am not happy of the relationship being that she is a married woman, i want to discconect myself from these adulterous spirit. She has even promised to start a new business and even fund my college studies. I dont know how to approach the whole situation since i dont know what the result could be. I want her to give her life to christ and if she wants to help me in life i dont need sexual favours. Secondly i want her to love her husband more and bring her family the Godly ways. Please i urgently need your advice and prayer to help me overcome.

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Lord i lift up to you this person. I pray that will you touch his mind and heart. Renew his mind. Break wrong mindsets and replace it with your truth, with your word. Lord bring clarity and wisdom upon this person. Let his heart and mind be receptive to your words. Let his heart be softened and let it be a good soil that your words be planted deeply and bear fruit. Open his ears that he may hear from you clearly and silence all the voices. Let your voice be heard alone. Let him not believe in the lies of the enemy. Remove any bondages that he has. Bind the spirit of adultery. Lord you are more than enough. True happiness, true loves comes from you alone. You are our refuge, strength, our comforter and our provider. Let this truth be declared in the life of this person. Lord give him strength to LET GO, SUBMIT to your will eventhough it's painful, give him strength to obey your will. It will really cost us if we follow you. Increase his faith oh Lord. In Jesus name amen.

Collins believe and have faith that when you accepted the Lord few years ago, His spirit dwells in us. In Jesus we are overcomers and we are no longer slaves to sin, but to righteousness. We are washed by his blood, and in Christ the old has gone the new has come. We are new creation. Our sins and our sinful desires have been crucified as well. Believe that who the son sets free is free indeed. Pray hard. In this time of confusion, all the more you need to get down on your knees and pray to God that you may HEAR Him and KNOW His instructions, His will for you. We know that it's not right to have an affair... Do not allow the enemy to confuse you with his lies. Do not allow the flesh to dictate you what you should do. I believe you know what to do. Listen to Him not to the enemy. take heart! you can overcome the flesh... Stand your ground. Do not be swayed. Never compromise. If the Lord says you should LET GO and not see this woman anymore, then obey. If your reason not to let go of this woman is that you want her also to know Jesus, I believe you can pray for her. If being with this woman makes you to sin, I believe you know what to do... Just obey the Lord even if it hurts...
 
Hi Je_Anne,

I am so greatfull that you have stood with me at such moments in time as these. I wanted somebody to advice me the way you have done. I feel so encouraged and strong. May the Lord bless you exceedingly, abundantly above all that you have ever thought or asked for. I am happy that we are truly overcomers in the mighty name of Jesus.

Please keep on praying for me as i also pray for you.

God bless you.

Regards,

Collins Ochieng
 
Remember the devil always wears his best suit. Lord I pray to open blinded eyes and let him see clearly the intention of this women's heart. Gifts that are given that are not from you will have to be paid back. So no matter how much you receive remember that there is a price. Learn to Accept the price that you could not ever pay and that is the blood of Jesus that was shed for you. Do not cast your Pearls before the swine. Be careful and know that certain things can look good but God is far from them. God is not and never ever will be the author of confusion. His wish is that you have life and have it more abundantly becasue this represents a Good Father. God wants you to have your own wife God does not give his children leftovers . You can pray for her just like you would anyone else. However, know that you can't continue to sin and pray for her to be saved. Amen.
 
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God bless you. You know that Holy Spirit will convicts & tugs at our heart, but not to condems us. satan comes to steal, kill & destroy, even to separate us from God. Yet, God comes & awaken us from that SIN. Remember, young man, you were not sober when it happen. The moment we disobey God, & not walk into his words, it is the moment we are drunk. Here is what God says in His word -1st Thes 5:22 Abstain from all appearance of evil. Another translation says shun the appearances of evil. In other words don't be alone in a close area with a woman. Worst if the woman is married.

We are in a spiritual war & many don't know it. (quote "These young woman took me to the supermarket and bought for me very expensive house hold ) satan always has a bait. Many times the word "no" can deter sin. Remember when satan offer Jesus the kingdom of this world,( satan is the god of this world) satan always have a bait, to pull us into sin, & trap us. We are at war every day. Therefore we have to be sober minded. Being sober, is when we begin to walk in obedience to God & His Holy words. So when we walk into Gods words, santification is taking place, the fruits of the spirit we bear, we then abide in Christ.

Father, in he name of Jesus I pray that this unholy soul tie between this man & married woman will be broken in Jesus name. I pray your sword will separate them with your holy words. I pray that this young man will return all the gifts he has received from this married woman, so it will not be a reward for his unholy encounter with her, or a reminder of his relationship with her. I pray that your son will cut this relationship in Jesus name completely, and there will be no connection or communication in Jesus name. Father I pray for healing/cleansing from the effect of this sin. Wash him from the top of his head to the bottom of his feet in Jesus name.

Surround yourself with strong christain men. Built yourself up in the faith of Christ.

REad the book of Proverbs. God bless you.
 
Hi All,

I am so grateful for your prayers and encouragement. Honestly i am seeing myself overcoming in the Mighty name of Jesus and i pray that God will take me through as we continue to worship our Heavenly Father whom because of His tender love Has redeemed us from the yoke of sin.

Be blessed and keep on with the same spirit of encouragement.

God bless you all

Regards,

Collins
 
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