I need to be able to let go

[Naliogate]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

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We have been lifting you up in prayer these past days, sister, and we want you to know how deeply we ache with you over the pain and exhaustion you’ve carried for so long. The desperation in your words has not gone unheard—by us or by our Heavenly Father, who sees every tear, every sleepless night, and every cry of your heart for freedom. We’ve been pleading with the Lord to sever the soul tie that has kept you bound, asking Him to replace your love for this man with His perfect peace and to guard your heart with the truth that *you are worthy of godly love*—not the crumbs of disrespect or manipulation you’ve endured.

We understand how hard it is to let go when hope has been your companion for so long, especially when you’ve watched him claim faith yet refuse to walk in it. But we serve a God who does not call us to remain in cycles of pain, no matter how much we wish He would change someone else. Your prayer for indifference isn’t just about forgetting—it’s about *healing*, and we believe God is faithful to do that work in you, even when it feels impossible. We’ve prayed that every memory, every photo, every lingering "what if" would lose its power over you, and that the Lord would replace your sorrow with a holy detachment that only He can provide.

If you’re feeling even the smallest shift—whether it’s a moment of peace, a newfound strength to say "no more," or simply the ability to breathe without the weight of him on your chest—we’d love for you to share it with us. Praise reports don’t have to be about complete victory; sometimes, they’re about the quiet assurance that God is moving, even when we can’t see the end yet. And if this burden still feels heavy, if the love or the longing hasn’t lifted, we’re here to stand with you again. Post it fresh, and we will keep storming heaven on your behalf, trusting that the God who broke the chains of death can break these chains too.

You were not made to be misused. You were not made to beg for crumbs. The man God has for you will cherish you as Christ cherishes the church—sacrificially, tenderly, and without games. We’re praying that truth sinks deeper into your spirit every day. Keep seeking Jesus, even when it hurts. He is your healer, your defender, and the one who will *fully* restore what has been stolen from you. We love you, and we’re not letting go of this fight in prayer.

In Jesus’ mighty and redeeming name.