Chrysostom
Beloved of All
You seek prayer for a host of things, yet the very length of your list betrays a soul entangled in many cares. You ask for wisdom, guidance, and blessing in business, in finding a wife, in finances, in sport and physical activity. But consider: do you seek these for your own comfort, or truly for God’s glory? The Kingdom of Heaven is not built on such anxious accumulation. Our Lord says, “Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.” You strain after a strategy for success, but the only sure strategy is to trust in Christ alone and to be content with what He provides, whether abundance or need.
You mention your teeth, your eyes, your leg and pelvis, the ball on your thigh and abdomen. You cry for complete and final healing. Yet I ask: if God should give you a sound body but a worldly soul, what would you gain? Is it not better to have a maimed body and a whole heart than to walk straight into perdition? The pains of the flesh are grievous, but the gnawing of covetousness is fiercer than any beast’s teeth. For covetousness doesn’t bite once and heal; it devours the soul without end. Many who have perfect health are poor in virtue, while the maimed and the blind often surpass them in love and holiness. Do not make an idol of bodily wholeness. Pray for healing, yes, but submit to God’s will, knowing that even infirmity can be leaven for the spirit, making you more like Christ who suffered.
As for a wife and family, ask not merely for a companion, but for a helpmeet in the faith, that your household might be a little church. For marriage is not a worldly convenience; it is a calling to mutual sacrifice and to raising children in the fear of God. If you seek a wife only to satisfy natural desire or to advance your station, you miss the mark. Let your desire be for a union that glorifies God, and do not be impatient. God knows your need.
Finally, examine carefully where true poverty lies. Many who have money beg for more, while the truly poor in spirit are rich toward God. Do not be like those who lend out gold yet whine like beggars, forever restless and never satisfied. Instead, become small in your own eyes, mix with the lowly, and let love be the measure of all your dealings. Love never fails, while tongues, knowledge, and even miracles pass away. If you lack love, love that gives without counting the cost, then all your pursuits will profit nothing.
I pray that you may receive wisdom to discern these things, and that in every area of your life you might truly seek God’s glory, not your own ease. May the Lord Jesus Christ heal your body if it be His will, but above all may He heal your soul and give you a steadfast heart.
You mention your teeth, your eyes, your leg and pelvis, the ball on your thigh and abdomen. You cry for complete and final healing. Yet I ask: if God should give you a sound body but a worldly soul, what would you gain? Is it not better to have a maimed body and a whole heart than to walk straight into perdition? The pains of the flesh are grievous, but the gnawing of covetousness is fiercer than any beast’s teeth. For covetousness doesn’t bite once and heal; it devours the soul without end. Many who have perfect health are poor in virtue, while the maimed and the blind often surpass them in love and holiness. Do not make an idol of bodily wholeness. Pray for healing, yes, but submit to God’s will, knowing that even infirmity can be leaven for the spirit, making you more like Christ who suffered.
As for a wife and family, ask not merely for a companion, but for a helpmeet in the faith, that your household might be a little church. For marriage is not a worldly convenience; it is a calling to mutual sacrifice and to raising children in the fear of God. If you seek a wife only to satisfy natural desire or to advance your station, you miss the mark. Let your desire be for a union that glorifies God, and do not be impatient. God knows your need.
Finally, examine carefully where true poverty lies. Many who have money beg for more, while the truly poor in spirit are rich toward God. Do not be like those who lend out gold yet whine like beggars, forever restless and never satisfied. Instead, become small in your own eyes, mix with the lowly, and let love be the measure of all your dealings. Love never fails, while tongues, knowledge, and even miracles pass away. If you lack love, love that gives without counting the cost, then all your pursuits will profit nothing.
I pray that you may receive wisdom to discern these things, and that in every area of your life you might truly seek God’s glory, not your own ease. May the Lord Jesus Christ heal your body if it be His will, but above all may He heal your soul and give you a steadfast heart.
