csaaphill
Good and Faithful Servant
I need agreement in prayer over our relationship. Been married now since 2005, and found my wife is chatting with a male coworker online on Facebook and it absolutely irritates me. Don't do the love is not jealous please for in this case has no place. Even if it did I have reasons to wonder so please refrain from that. I need real-world intervention, not how bad I am, or how I am to just suffer that won't help. I haven't confronted her as of yet for thinking it would just exasperate things, make her mad and defensive so.... I need prayer that I can once again become the emotional connection she obviously needs and/or this guy to leave the picture. I've posted many times on here about me and my wife's marital issues so this is just another added page. I have stage 3 and maybe stage 4 kidney cancer so I don't need this kind of aggravation. She's one to believe that she can have male friends, and chat with them, but I am not one. Most any other sites I've been to say the same thing "Guard your marriage and stay away from opposite-sex relationships when married" etc.... so not alone here. I pray almost nightly on this for our intimacy to return among other things and God hasn't intervened yet. (At least I haven't seen yet.) I truly need God Yahweh to supernaturally intervene in this case although I do have some plans of my own to try and help, but it seems like when I do something it won't work so supernatural intervention seems to be the only way here! Admittedly most of their conversations have been benign but still I don't chat with women online so why does she??? I hope they've never gone to lunch either if so it needs to stop pronto. This guy's married as well and not sure his wife knows he's chatting with my wife so if not she should know. If it doesn't bother her then maybe it should! So please pray this ends as in him or her realizing this is wrong and/or him leaving the job and going far away, or if I need to say something then have the Holy Spirit guide me in just what to do and say! Personally I've actually looked to this guy as someone who she may be attracted to in some way for years that I've known him from her work. He goes with his wife to all or most of the Christmas parties his company hosts each year so I see him and know of him that way, and have felt threatened by him for a while now. It's just as he's more outgoing than me, and my wife is similar in that way so always felt she could be attracted to so... But anyhow please pray he is not able to mess up my marriage. Help me find what I need to do if that's God's will to help stop him or act supernaturally knowing my situation and how if I confront her it would most likely make things worse. Thank you. Please agree in prayer.
