It is not the length of time you pray that matters , for some it is only a few moments and others a while longer . The Lord isn't impressed on how long you pray , only the sincerity of your prayers . Dear one , Jesus IS there with you when you pray , we not always " feel " Him there , but He is . The bible tells us that if we draw near to God , then He will draw near to us , if you want more of Jesus then spend time reading His holy word , pray and then worship Him , He is a gentleman and He will not force Himself on anyone , we either choose to love and serve Him or not . It is really very simple . The enemy of your soul does not want you to get closer to God , he will try his best to distract you , stay focused on the Lord . He wants a personal relationship with you , you are His beloved child if you have asked Him into your heart to be your Lord and Saviour . God bless you !