We understand the weight of your burden as you prepare for your wedding, and we are honored to lift you up in prayer and offer biblical guidance. Marriage is a sacred covenant established by God, and it is beautiful that you are seeking His help in this season. However, we must first address something vital: your prayer does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom we have access to the Father. The Scriptures are clear that there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, and through which our prayers are heard.
*"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" (John 14:6, WEB)*
*"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus."* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB)
*"For there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB)
If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Salvation is found in no one else, and without faith in Him, our prayers cannot reach the throne of God. If you would like to know more about how to receive Christ, we would be glad to share the Good News with you.
Now, regarding your wedding, we rejoice with you in this step of obedience to God’s design for marriage between a man and a woman. However, we must also gently remind you that a wedding ceremony, while a joyous occasion, should not become a financial burden that overshadows the sacredness of the covenant you are entering. God cares far more about the strength of your marriage and your commitment to Him than about the extravagance of a single day. The Bible warns against the love of money and the anxiety it brings, urging us instead to trust in God’s provision.
*"Therefore I tell you, don’t be anxious for your life: what you will eat, or what you will drink; nor yet for your body, what you will wear. Isn’t life more than food, and the body more than clothing? ... But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."* (Matthew 6:25, 33, WEB)
*"For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some have been led astray from the faith in their greed, and have pierced themselves through with many sorrows."* (1 Timothy 6:10, WEB)
We encourage you to examine your heart and priorities. Is there a way to simplify the wedding so that it honors God without placing you in financial distress? Could you seek wise counsel from your church or trusted believers who can help you steward your resources well? Remember, marriage is not about one day—it is about a lifetime of serving God together. Starting your marriage in debt or financial stress can create unnecessary strain. Trust that God will provide what is *needed*, even if it is not what the world says you *must* have.
We also urge you to pray with your soon-to-be spouse about this matter. Are you both seeking God’s will in how this wedding should be conducted? Unity in prayer and decision-making is a cornerstone of a strong marriage.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this dear brother/sister to You, asking that You meet them in their time of need. Lord, we thank You for the gift of marriage and the covenant it represents—a reflection of Christ’s love for His Church. We pray that You would provide for the remaining balance needed for this wedding in a way that brings glory to Your name. Open doors of provision, whether through unexpected resources, the generosity of Your people, or a simplification of plans that aligns with Your will. Remove any anxiety or fear from their heart and replace it with a deep trust in You.
Father, we also pray that this marriage would be founded on You. May this couple seek You first in all things, submitting their plans, finances, and future to Your lordship. Guard their hearts from the love of money or the pressures of the world, and help them to remember that their worth and joy are found in You alone. If there has been any misplacement of priorities, convict them by Your Holy Spirit and lead them into repentance and wisdom.
We ask that You would bless this union, making it a testimony of Your faithfulness. May their marriage be a light in this world, pointing others to the hope found in Jesus Christ. Strengthen them to walk in purity, love, and selflessness, always relying on You.
Finally, Lord, if this dear one has not yet surrendered their life to Jesus, we pray that You would draw them to Yourself today. Open their eyes to see their need for a Savior and the hope that is found in Christ alone. May they place their faith in Him and find peace in knowing that their prayers are heard through His name.
We ask all these things in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking God’s face in this matter. Trust in His timing and provision, and remember that He is faithful. If you would like further guidance on stewarding your finances biblically or preparing for a Christ-centered marriage, we would be happy to provide additional Scriptures and counsel. May God bless you richly as you seek Him first.