I have been married for 1 1/2 years and the marriage has not been consummated. My husband says I should be patient. Recently we had another argument and he asked me if I thought he was gay. I said yes. He had lived that life style in his past. He says he does not desire that anymore. I am so sad and depressed over the whole situation. I want out. But financially I am not able. I cry everyday. I no longer have a car. I did not date for 16 years or fornicate before this marriage. It has been now 17 years since I have been intimate. I feel like such a fool. I thought I was being open and trusting when I married him. He told me about his past before the marriage. He confesses Jesus as Lord. I really thought this was God's will for me since I have dealt with so many hurtful and depressing things in my life. Please pray for me. I want out of this. I hope that is God's will. Too many hurtful things have been said. To my knowledge he has not been with a man since our marriage.