I have been married for 1 1/2 years and the marriage

JustpeaceJ

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I have been married for 1 1/2 years and the marriage has not been consummated. My husband says I should be patient. Recently we had another argument and he asked me if I thought he was gay. I said yes. He had lived that life style in his past. He says he does not desire that anymore. I am so sad and depressed over the whole situation. I want out. But financially I am not able. I cry everyday. I no longer have a car. I did not date for 16 years or fornicate before this marriage. It has been now 17 years since I have been intimate. I feel like such a fool. I thought I was being open and trusting when I married him. He told me about his past before the marriage. He confesses Jesus as Lord. I really thought this was God's will for me since I have dealt with so many hurtful and depressing things in my life. Please pray for me. I want out of this. I hope that is God's will. Too many hurtful things have been said. To my knowledge he has not been with a man since our marriage.
 
"Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need." Hebrew 4:16

Father, I boldly come to your throne of mercy with this child’s need. I ask in your mighty power to meet this child’s need. I pray that this child of yours may experience your great love and care for them today. Give them eyes to see your hand of mercy at work in their life. Awaken all their senses to the realization that you will never leave them or forsake them. In Jesus Christ’s Name I pray, Amen
 
"Father, I pray for those people who are hurting & are going through

some unimaginable circumstances.

Please seal and cover this person (and their family) with the blood of Jesus and surround them with Your glory, light, presence, peace and protection, so nothing can get through to harm them.

I pray for those who want their lives to be better & to be free from those things that may be holding them back. Even though we may not know them Father, YOU know their situation."

In Jesus name. Amen

**My heart goes out to you friend, for it appears that you have been fooled by an obviously gay man, into a loveless, sexually barren marriage. Please love yourself more friend and get out of this anyway you can. God does not want you in this situation.  To believe that this man is not sexually active, would be quite naïve. The truth is screaming at you my friend. That's why you get so upset. And that's why you need to hold your head up, and say ENOUGH!!! 

This sort of thing happens quite frequently.  Some gay men want to appear straight to society, so they manipulate kind women, like yourself into marrying them. All along , keeping their gay lifestyle going. It is very possible that he is out there getting his sexual needs met.  It is also possible that he is denying you (sexually) because he is only attracted to men.

You don't deserve or need this in your life. There's always a way out. Pray for it, then take it and fly my friend.

If Jesus wouldn't treat us this way, why should we accept anyone else doing it, right?  Blessings

(P.S. I mean no disrespect to anyone who is gay.)
 
In Jesus' name may God answer  your prayer request and bless you with the desires of your heart that is the will of God in His timing. The safest place in the whole wide world is in the will of God and God is never late.  
 

Praying the Promises of God/Let's Pray: God I ask You in Jesus' name bless  me with the desires of my heart that is the will of God.  Bless me with  a heart that beats to live to please You.  Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me.  Bless me  to prosper, be in excellent health, and cause my soul to prosper consistently in the Word and Ways of God.  Lead, guide, and direct my  footsteps daily.  Bless me to start and never neglect  my daily quiet one on one time with You.  Give Your angels charge me to protect and keep me safe from all accidents, evil, hurt, harm, and danger.   Let no weapon ever formed against  me prosper.  Be with me as a mighty warrior, so all my persecutors will stumble, fail, and be thoroughly disgraced.  God all that I have asked of You in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and the writer of this prayer. God honor this prayer over each of our lives today and for always in Jesus’ name.  God Thank You For Loving Me.  Amen!

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