I had a nightmare

[Alaongire]

I had a horrible dream about how I did something that was harmless only to get yelled at and shunned. I dreamt that I went to some big library in which they had everyone’s blank diaries out for everyone to write or draw stuff in there. I was told to go in there and do it if I wanted to. So I did. I write down in those journals just personal stuff to help me get over what ill feelings I have and it was feeling better. Whatever rules that the people instructed me (use a pencil only or only write on scratch paper) was never communicated to me. Finally my neighbor, David collected my stuff and was disturbed that I wrote down stuff on other people’s blank diaries. My mom heard it and yelled at me in my ear. I didn’t even know what I did wrong! They gave me permission to write my feelings down in the blank diaries in the library so why was everybody mad at me for? I tried to apologize but the boy and girl (who looked like Howard and Bernadette from Big Bang Theory) were not quick to forgive me. Please Lord grant me peace and mercy. Please help me Me recover from these horrible dreams of me getting yelled at by my mom and not being forgiven by my friends. Why do I keep having these nightmares about me getting yelled at for? Is there a message that the Lord is trying to tell me?

 

[Articles]

We hear your distress and understand how deeply unsettling nightmares can be, especially when they leave you feeling confused, accused, and rejected. Dreams often reflect our inner fears, anxieties, and unresolved emotions, and it seems yours is revealing a deep concern about being misunderstood, judged, or condemned for actions you didn’t even realize were wrong. This fear of rejection and shame is something many believers struggle with, but we must remember that in Christ, we are fully known, fully loved, and fully forgiven—not by our own understanding, but by His grace.

First, let us address the spiritual foundation of your prayer. You call upon the "Lord" for peace and mercy, but we must emphasize that it is only through the name of **Jesus Christ** that we have access to the Father. Jesus Himself said, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me"* (John 14:6). There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only by His blood that we are cleansed from sin and fear. If you have not already, we encourage you to place your faith fully in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, for He alone can break the power of fear and condemnation in your life.

Now, regarding your dream, we see several biblical truths that apply. The confusion and lack of clear instruction in your dream may reflect real-life frustrations where you feel uncertain about boundaries or expectations. However, the overarching theme of being unjustly accused and shunned speaks to a deeper spiritual battle. The enemy, Satan, is called *"the accuser of our brothers"* (Revelation 12:10), and he delights in making believers feel guilty, ashamed, or rejected—even when they have done nothing wrong. But Scripture assures us, *"There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus"* (Romans 8:1). If you are in Christ, you are not under condemnation, and no accusation against you can stand before God’s throne of grace.

Your dream also touches on the fear of unforgiveness. The boy and girl in your dream who resembled Howard and Bernadette were *"not quick to forgive"* you, which may mirror real-life anxieties about strained relationships. But we must remember that **forgiveness is not optional for believers**. Jesus taught us to pray, *"Forgive us our debts, as we also forgive our debtors"* (Matthew 6:12), and He warned that if we do not forgive others, neither will our Father forgive us (Matthew 6:15). If there are real-life relationships where you feel unforgiven or struggle to forgive, we urge you to seek reconciliation in Christ’s love. If the offense is on your side, repent and ask for forgiveness. If the offense is against you, release it to God and choose to forgive, even if the other person does not respond as you hope.

As for the recurring nightmares of being yelled at, we must consider whether there are areas in your life where you feel spiritually or emotionally "under attack." The enemy often uses fear and shame to keep believers in bondage, but God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7). If these dreams are causing you distress, we encourage you to **take authority over them in Jesus’ name**. Before you sleep, pray something like this:

*"Heavenly Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, I come before You and declare that my mind, my heart, and my dreams belong to You. I rebuke every spirit of fear, accusation, and confusion in Jesus’ name. I cancel every assignment of the enemy against my peace, and I ask You to fill my mind with Your truth and my heart with Your love. Lord, if there is any message You want me to hear through these dreams, reveal it to me clearly. But if these dreams are only the enemy’s lies, I command them to cease in Jesus’ name. I declare that I am Your child, forgiven, loved, and secure in Christ. Thank You for Your protection and peace. Amen."*

We also want to gently address the **emotional wounds** that may be fueling these dreams. The yelling from your mother in the dream suggests there may be unresolved pain or fear of rejection tied to your upbringing or past experiences. If this resonates with you, we encourage you to bring those hurts to the Lord in prayer. Psalm 34:18 says, *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* You are not alone in your pain, and Jesus longs to heal and restore you.

Finally, if you are struggling with feelings of guilt or shame—even over things you didn’t realize were wrong—remember that **God’s grace is greater than our mistakes**. The apostle Paul wrote, *"Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death"* (2 Corinthians 7:10). If you have sinned unknowingly, confess it to God, receive His forgiveness, and move forward in His mercy. But if these dreams are simply the enemy’s lies, stand firm on the truth of God’s Word: *"If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9).

Let us pray for you now:

*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We lift up our dear brother/sister who is struggling with fear, confusion, and the weight of these troubling dreams. Lord, we ask that You would break every chain of accusation, shame, and rejection that the enemy has tried to place upon them. Fill their heart with Your perfect love, which casts out all fear (1 John 4:18).

Father, we declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we cancel every assignment of the enemy to steal their peace. Lord, if there is any unconfessed sin in their life, reveal it to them so they may repent and receive Your forgiveness. If these dreams are merely the enemy’s lies, we command them to cease in Jesus’ name.

We pray for healing over any past wounds—whether from childhood, relationships, or moments of misunderstanding. Lord, You are the God who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds (Psalm 147:3). Pour out Your comfort and peace upon them. Help them to rest in the assurance that they are fully known, fully loved, and fully forgiven in Christ.

We also pray for wisdom, Lord. If there is a message You want them to hear through these dreams—perhaps about boundaries, forgiveness, or trust—reveal it to them clearly. But if these dreams are only distractions from the enemy, silence them by Your power.

Father, we thank You that You are a God of mercy, and Your compassions never fail (Lamentations 3:22-23). We ask that You would surround our brother/sister with Your presence tonight and every night, guarding their mind and heart in Christ Jesus. May they wake up refreshed, renewed, and anchored in Your truth.

We pray all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen."*

We encourage you to **stand firm in God’s truth** and not allow the enemy to use fear or shame to control you. Memorize Scripture that speaks to your identity in Christ, such as:
- *"I have been crucified with Christ, and it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me"* (Galatians 2:20).
- *"The Lord is my light and my salvation—whom shall I fear?"* (Psalm 27:1).
- *"No one will snatch them out of My hand"* (John 10:28).

If these dreams persist, consider speaking with a trusted pastor or biblical counselor who can help you process any deeper spiritual or emotional struggles. You are not alone, and God is faithful to complete the good work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6). Walk in His peace, dear one.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear friend, we hear your distress and the confusion these nightmares bring. It's like you're stuck in a loop, trying to make sense of why you're being yelled at and shunned for something you didn't even know was wrong. It's easy to feel helpless and alone in these dreams, but remember, you're not alone. We're here with you, and so is Jesus.

In your dream, you were writing in those blank diaries, expressing your feelings. That's a good thing, dear one. God wants us to be honest with ourselves and with Him about what we're feeling. The Psalms are full of people pouring out their hearts to God, just like you were doing in your dream. It's okay to feel, and it's okay to express those feelings.

Now, about the rules you didn't know. It's like you were playing a game where the rules weren't clearly explained. That can be frustrating, even infuriating. But here's the thing, dear one: in real life, God doesn't play games like that. He wants us to understand His rules, and He's given us the Bible to help us do just that. If you're feeling confused about something, ask Him to help you understand. He's more than willing to guide you.

As for the yelling and the shunning, it's important to remember that God doesn't yell at us or shun us. He loves us, no matter what. Even when we mess up, He's there to pick us up, dust us off, and help us try again. That's what grace is all about. If you're feeling accused or rejected, it might help to spend some time in His presence, reading His Word and letting His love wash over you.

And those recurring nightmares? They can be exhausting, can't they? It's like you're stuck in a bad movie, and you can't change the channel. But remember, you don't have to be a passive observer in your dreams. You can take authority over them in Jesus' name. Before you go to sleep, pray and ask God to give you peaceful, restful sleep. Ask Him to fill your dreams with His love and His truth.

If there's a message in these dreams, God will make it clear. But if it's just the enemy trying to harass you, don't give in to the fear and the confusion. Stand firm in God's truth, and trust that He's got you.

Keep talking to God about this, dear one. He's listening, and He cares. And if you need someone to talk to, we're here for you. You're not alone.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name.