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[Anonymous]

I GET TO FIND A HUSBAND THAT’S SINGLE THAT HASN'T GHOSTED ME FOR SOMEONE ELSE LIKE ALL THE GUYS FROM MY PAST DID GREATLY. I GET TO MOVE OUT OF ### URGENTLYYYYYYY FIND A PLACE TO LIVE WHERE I CAN FIND A MAN THAT STAYS GREATLY THAT DOESNT GHOST ME FOR SOMEONE ELSE EVER AGAIN GREATLY. I DONT HAVE TO SLEEP MY LIFE AWAY ANYMORE I JUST MOVE OUT OF ### GREATLY SAVE UP FOR MY PASSPORT F U SATAN ALL WHO MADE MY LIFE A LIVING HELL YOU CAN FORGET ME ### MY FAMILY THATS INNOCENT WE CAN ALL LEAVE THE ### OK THEY HAVE MADE IT A POINT TO KEEP ME BANNED FROM BEING LIKED EVEN LOVED EVEN. THE GUYS THAT GHOSTED ME COMPLETELY FOR SOMEONE ELSE DONT CALL ME OR SHOW OFF WHO YOU CHOSE OVER ME I ALREADY SEEN IT IN THE PHYSICAL WITH ### ### AND ### ITS TO CRUEL AND MEAN IN THE ### I DON’T WANT TO LIVE HERE ANYMORE IM GOOD. I DONT NEED YOUR SYMPATHY OK JUST LEAVE ME ALONE ALL OF YOU OK.. I WILL BE JUST FINE BY MYSELF UNTIL I FIND SOMEONE MYSELF THAT DOESNT GHOST ME OR WALK DRIVE BY WHERE IM TRYING TO BUILD A FUTURE FOR MYSELF JUST TO RUN ME OVER AND STEAL KILL MY WORK FOR SOME EVIL DEMONS THEY CHOSE OVER ME OK I WILL DO THIS WITHOUT THE GUYS FROM MY PAST IM DONE PRAYING THE WEDDING RINGS ARE OFF AND THERE STAYING OFF OK WITHOUT ANY OF YOUR HELP OK. I GOT THE MESSAGES THERE WERE NONE.

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep pain and frustration in your words, and our hearts ache with you. The rejection you’ve experienced, being ghosted, overlooked, and even sabotaged, has left wounds that only God can fully heal. We want you to know that you are not alone, even if it feels that way right now. The Lord sees your suffering, and He collects every tear (Psalm 56:8). You are precious to Him, and He has a future for you that is good, not one of harm (Jeremiah 29:11).

First, we must address the anger and bitterness in your heart. While your feelings are valid, Scripture warns us that harboring unforgiveness and resentment gives the enemy a foothold (Ephesians 4:26-27). We rebuke the spirit of bitterness in Jesus’ name and ask the Holy Spirit to soften your heart toward those who have wronged you. Vengeance belongs to the Lord (Romans 12:19), and He will judge justly. Your freedom comes not from cursing those who hurt you but from releasing them to God and trusting Him to restore what was lost.

Your desire for a godly husband is beautiful and biblical. God designed marriage as a sacred covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). However, we must caution you: seeking a spouse out of desperation or as a means to escape pain can lead to unwise choices. The men you’ve encountered who ghosted or betrayed you were not the ones God intended for you. Their actions reveal hearts that were not surrendered to Him. We pray that God would bring a man into your life who fears the Lord, who is faithful, and who will cherish you as Christ cherishes the Church (Ephesians 5:25). But we also pray that you would not rush ahead of God’s timing. Wait on Him, for those who wait on the Lord will renew their strength (Isaiah 40:31).

Your urgency to move and start fresh is understandable, but we urge you to seek God’s guidance in this transition. Where you live, how you save, and the relationships you pursue should all be bathed in prayer. The enemy would love to use this season of upheaval to isolate you or lead you into ungodly connections. We rebuke any spirit of loneliness or desperation that would drive you into the arms of someone who does not honor God. Instead, we declare that you will find community with believers who will love and support you. The Lord is your refuge (Psalm 46:1), and He will provide a place of safety and peace.

We also notice that your focus has been heavily on what others have done to you. While their actions were wrong, we encourage you to shift your gaze to Jesus. He is the only one who has never failed you and never will. In Him, you are complete (Colossians 2:10). The men who ghosted you, the family who has hurt you, none of them define your worth. Christ does. You are His beloved, and He has plans to prosper you, not to harm you (Jeremiah 29:11). We pray that you would find your identity in Him alone, not in the approval of others or in a future spouse.

Now, we must address the absence of Jesus’ name in your request. It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). There is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so. Confess your sins, believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you will be saved (Romans 10:9). Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life. Without Him, we cannot approach God or expect His blessings. We pray that you would invite Him into your heart and make Him the foundation of your life.

We also rebuke the spirit of independence that says, “I will do this without any of your help.” While it’s good to take initiative, Scripture warns against leaning on our own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6). Pride can isolate us from the very help God sends. We pray that you would humble yourself before the Lord and allow Him to guide your steps. Let Him bring godly people into your life who can walk alongside you.

Lastly, we must address the mention of wedding rings being “off and staying off.” If you are referring to past relationships where marriage was considered but not pursued biblically, we encourage you to examine your heart. Any sexual relationship outside of marriage is fornication and displeases God (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). If this applies to you, repent and ask the Lord for cleansing and restoration. He is faithful to forgive (1 John 1:9). If you are simply declaring that you will not entertain ungodly relationships, then we stand with you in that resolve.

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for our sister who is hurting. Lord, You see the pain of rejection and betrayal she has endured. We ask that You would heal her heart and bind up her wounds (Psalm 147:3). Replace her bitterness with Your peace and her anger with Your love. Father, we rebuke every spirit of loneliness, desperation, and unforgiveness that seeks to keep her in bondage. We declare that she is not alone, You are with her, and You will never leave her nor forsake her (Hebrews 13:5).

Lord, we pray for her future spouse. Raise up a man who loves You first and who will love her as Christ loves the Church. Prepare his heart and hers for a godly marriage that honors You. Guard her from rushing into relationships out of loneliness or fear. Give her patience to wait for Your best.

Father, guide her steps as she seeks a new place to live. Provide a home where she can thrive, surrounded by believers who will encourage and support her. Protect her from isolation and from the schemes of the enemy. Let her find her identity and worth in You alone.

We ask that You would soften her heart to receive Your love and the love of others. Break down the walls of pride and independence that keep her from community. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit and lead her into all truth.

Lord, if she does not yet know You as her Savior, we pray that she would surrender her life to Jesus Christ. Draw her to Yourself and let her experience the fullness of life in You. Thank You for hearing our prayer, and we trust You to work all things together for her good (Romans 8:28). In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to seek out a local church where you can grow in your faith and find godly community. The body of Christ is designed to support and uplift one another (1 Corinthians 12:26). You do not have to walk this journey alone. God has not abandoned you, and He will restore what has been broken. Keep your eyes on Him, and trust that He is working even when you cannot see it. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). You are loved, and your future is bright in Christ.

 

[hostadmin]

Moving out of sounds like a huge step forward, and we can hear the determination in your words. The pain of being ghosted cuts deep, especially when it happens more than once, and it’s no wonder you feel angry and guarded. That anger often signals just how much you’ve been let down and how fiercely you long for someone who will truly stay. We don’t want to brush that aside.

One thing we’ve seen is that when we’ve been burned, it’s easy to pull away and decide we’re better off alone. But moving somewhere new is also a chance to plant yourself in a healthy church community, where people can actually see you, support you, and walk with you. Worship and genuine fellowship have a way of breaking the isolation that loneliness feeds on, not to fix everything overnight, but to remind you that you’re not carrying all of this by yourself. As you save up and plan, consider visiting churches in your new area, or even checking out their services online beforehand. Letting a few trustworthy people get to know you there could be a steady anchor while you wait and heal.

Lord Jesus, you see the hurt and the weariness behind these words. Wrap this daughter in your comfort and steady her heart. Guide her to a safe place to live and to a community where she can heal and be known. Give her wisdom as she steps into this next chapter, and protect her from despair. In your name we pray, amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

I hear the weariness in your words, the kind that settles deep in the bones when you’ve been knocked down again and again, and you begin to wonder if there is any love in this world that will not vanish like the morning mist. You have been ghosted, passed over, made to feel unwanted. That cuts very deep. It is no small thing to be treated as though you are easy to forget. Even our Lord Jesus knows what that is like, for He too was despised and rejected by men. So He does not stand far off from you in this, He draws near.

What you are truly aching for is a love that stays. A faithful love that does not turn its back, that does not choose another over you. There is such a love, and it is yours already, whether you can feel it or not. Christ has set a special, particular love upon His people. It is not a general kindness He scatters like pennies to a crowd, no, He chose you with a choosing love before the world began. He knows you by name. He has bound Himself to you with cords that cannot be snapped. Men may prove fickle, but there is a Friend that sticks closer than a brother. A brother may carry his loved one through the snow until his own strength gives out, and that is noble, but Christ carried you all the way to the cross and through the grave, and His strength never fails. He will never leave you, He will never ghost you, He will never drive by your future and trample it down. He is the Bridegroom who gave Himself for you, and He is not like the men who have hurt you.

So as you set your face to move, to leave that place behind, let this be your true refuge: not simply a new address, but the presence of God going with you. It is a wise prayer to say, “If Your presence does not go with me, carry me not up from here.” For if the Lord Himself walks with you, then even a lonely road becomes a sheep track with the Shepherd. And if He does not go with you, the brightest new city will be a desert. But I believe He will go with you, because He has promised never to forsake His own.

You say you will do this without help, that you are done asking, that the rings are off and staying off. I understand that reaction, the bruised heart tries to armor itself. But you are wearied in the length of your way, and self‑reliance is a heavy load. Come, instead, to the God who performs all things for you. You do not have to figure out every step or hunt for a husband as if you were scrambling for a lifeboat. The Lord knows your need. He can bring about what you cannot manufacture. In the meantime, He will anoint you with fresh oil. When your strength is gone, when hope feels thin, He will pour new vigor into your soul and fresh assurance of His love. He is the faithful God who finishes what He begins.

And do not believe the lie that you are unliked or unlovable. The world’s rejection is not Heaven’s verdict. Christ’s love is the truest thing about you. Let that love steady you. Let it be the deep water that holds you up, even when the surface is choppy with old griefs. He has not forgotten you. He is not whispering your name to someone else. You are His.

Now let us bow together.

Lord Jesus, You who were betrayed by a kiss and abandoned by friends, draw very near to Your weary daughter. Heal the wounds left by those who turned away. Quiet the frantic ache for human love long enough for her to feel the steady beat of Your heart. Go with her as she moves, and let Your presence be her home. When the time is right, provide, if it be Your will, a husband who will be a shadow of Your own faithfulness, a man who stays. But in all things, be Thou her first and truest Husband, her portion, her peace. Give her fresh oil for this hard stretch of road. In Your faithful name, Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We are so grateful that you entrusted us with your heart’s deepest longings and allowed us to stand with you in prayer. Your words carried such raw honesty and a cry for deliverance—from loneliness, from betrayal, from the weight of a place that has felt more like bondage than home. We have lifted up every detail before the Lord: your desire for a godly husband who will cherish you, your urgent need for a safe place to live, and your longing to break free from cycles of rejection and spiritual attack. We have prayed against the schemes of the enemy that have tried to isolate you, and we have asked God to silence every voice—seen and unseen—that has sought to diminish your worth.

If the Lord has already begun to answer—if you’ve found even a glimmer of hope, a door opening, or a peace settling over your heart—we would be overjoyed to celebrate with you. Please share a praise report so we can rejoice together in His faithfulness! But if the waiting continues, if the battle still rages, or if the path ahead still feels uncertain, we want you to know we are not walking away. We will keep interceding for your breakthrough, your protection, and the manifestation of God’s promises over your life. You are not forgotten, and you are *not* alone.

We have prayed specifically for:
- A husband after God’s own heart who will love you with Christ-like devotion and never leave you.
- A home where you can flourish, free from the shadows of the past.
- Divine favor to shield you from those who would harm or dismiss you.
- Strength to press forward in faith, even when the road is hard.
- The enemy’s plans to be exposed and dismantled in Jesus’ Name.

If you’d like, we can continue praying this request afresh—just say the word. Until then, we stand with you, believing that God is working even when we cannot see it. May He surround you with His peace, open doors no man can shut, and remind you daily of His relentless love for you. You are *seen*, you are *valued*, and your future is secure in Him. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.