We hear the anguish in your cry, and we come before the throne of grace with you, lifting up every burden that weighs so heavily upon your heart. The pain of betrayal, the weight of financial strain, the fear of eviction, and the exhaustion of human effort—these are not small trials, but we serve a God who sees, who hears, and who is mighty to save. You are not forgotten, even when it feels as though the world has turned its back on you. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). We declare that truth over you now, even as the enemy seeks to convince you otherwise.
First, we must address the spiritual warfare at play here. The enemy wants you to believe that you are abandoned, that your efforts are in vain, and that hope is lost. But Scripture tells us, *"Be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary, the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour. Withstand him steadfast in your faith"* (1 Peter 5:8-9). The feelings of persecution and being stuck in lack are real, but they are not the final word. God has not left you, nor has He forsaken you. *"For He Himself has said, 'I will never leave you nor forsake you.' So we may boldly say: 'The Lord is my helper; I will not fear. What can man do to me?'" (Hebrews 13:5-6).*
We rebuke the spirit of despair and hopelessness that seeks to take root in your heart. The Lord did not promise an easy path, but He did promise to be with you through every storm. *"These things I have spoken to you, that in Me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world"* (John 16:33). Your current circumstances do not define your future. God is able to make a way where there seems to be no way, and He specializes in turning ashes into beauty (Isaiah 61:3).
We also want to gently address the mention of assistance and the desire to no longer rely on it. While it is understandable to want to be self-sufficient, we must remember that God often provides through means we may not expect. *"And my God will supply every need of yours according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:19). This does not mean we sit idle, but it does mean we trust God to open doors and provide opportunities in His timing. Have you sought counsel or assistance from your local church or Christian community? Many times, God uses His people to be the hands and feet of Jesus in practical ways. *"Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ"* (Galatians 6:2). Do not let pride or shame keep you from reaching out for help when it is needed.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our brother/sister who is carrying such a heavy load. Lord, You see every betrayal, every unpaid bill, every sleepless night, and every fear that grips his/her heart. We ask that You would be a very present help in this time of trouble (Psalm 46:1). Father, we rebuke the spirit of fear and despair that seeks to overwhelm him/her. We declare that You are the God who provides, the God who heals, and the God who restores. You are Jehovah Jireh, our Provider, and we trust You to meet every need according to Your riches in glory.
Lord, we ask that You would give him/her peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Calm the anxiety, still the racing thoughts, and grant rest to his/her weary body and soul. We pray against the threat of eviction and ask that You would open a door that no man can shut (Revelation 3:8). Provide the resources needed to cover the rent and any other pressing needs. If there are steps he/she needs to take, give wisdom and clarity to know what those steps are.
Father, we also lift up the "even bigger" circumstance that is crushing him/her. We do not know the details, but You do. We ask that You would intervene in a mighty way, turning what seems like a hopeless situation into a testimony of Your faithfulness. Remind him/her that You are the God of the impossible (Luke 1:37) and that nothing is too hard for You (Jeremiah 32:17).
Lord, we pray for strength to endure and for the faith to believe that this season will not last forever. Help him/her to fix his/her eyes on You, the Author and Finisher of our faith (Hebrews 12:2). Surround him/her with godly community—people who will pray, encourage, and stand in the gap on his/her behalf. And if there are areas where repentance is needed, grant the humility to seek Your face and turn from anything that hinders his/her relationship with You.
We thank You, Lord, that You are working even when we cannot see it. We thank You for Your promise that those who wait on You will renew their strength (Isaiah 40:31). We declare that this is not the end of his/her story. You are writing a testimony of Your goodness, and we trust You to bring beauty from these ashes.
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Friend, we want to encourage you to hold on to hope. The enemy may have meant these trials for harm, but God can use them for good (Genesis 50:20). You are not alone in this battle. The Lord is fighting for you, even when it feels like you are losing the fight. Keep crying out to Him. Keep seeking His face. And remember, *"The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles"* (Psalm 34:17).
If you have not already, consider reaching out to a trusted pastor, biblical counselor, or Christian friend who can walk alongside you during this time. You do not have to carry this burden alone. And if you are not connected to a local church, we strongly encourage you to find one where you can be surrounded by believers who will love and support you.
Lastly, we want to remind you of the hope found in Christ. If you have never surrendered your life to Him or if you have wandered away, now is the time to return to your First Love. Jesus said, *"Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest"* (Matthew 11:28). He is the only One who can give true peace and rest to your soul. Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). If you would like to pray to receive Christ or rededicate your life to Him, we would be honored to pray with you. Simply say, *"Lord Jesus, I need You. I believe You died for my sins and rose again. I turn from my sins and invite You to come into my heart and life. I want to trust and follow You as my Lord and Savior. In Your name, I pray. Amen."* If you prayed that prayer for the first time, we rejoice with you! We encourage you to find a Bible-believing church where you can grow in your faith and be baptized as a public declaration of your new life in Christ.
You are not forsaken. You are not abandoned. The Lord is your Shepherd, and He will lead you through this valley. Keep your eyes on Him.
