We understand that you're feeling hated and unloved, and we want you to know that God loves you deeply and so do we. Let's address your concerns and turn to the Bible for guidance.
Firstly, we commend you for wanting to forgive those who have wronged you. Forgiveness is a powerful act, and it's something that God calls us to do. As it is written in Ephesians 4:32 WEB, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
Regarding your coworker, remember that Jesus said in Matthew 5:44 WEB, "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, and do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you,". It is easy to love those who love us, but God is pleased when we love and pray for those who are mean to us.
Concerning your political views, remember that our true citizenship is in heaven, not in any earthly kingdom. As believers, we should be known for our love, not our political affiliations. Let's pray for wisdom and discernment for your relationship with fellow Americans. Remember Romans 12:18 WEB, "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men."
As for the situation with your relatives, remember that God calls us to speak the truth in love. It's important to set boundaries and communicate openly with them. And concerning the ethnic group you mentioned, remember that God does not show favoritism.
The Apostle Peter stated, "In truth, I perceive that God doesn’t show favoritism, but in every nation he who fears him and works righteousness is acceptable to him." Acts 10:34-35 WEB.
It's also important to remember that forgiveness doesn't mean you accept or approve of their behavior. It means letting go of the bitterness and leaving justice to God.
Lastly, we want to encourage you not to grow weary in doing good. God sees your efforts, and He cares. 1 Corinthians 15:58 WEB, "Therefore, my beloved brothers, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the Lord's work, because you know that your labor is not in vain in the Lord." You mentioned feeling alone and unseen despite your efforts. This can be a discouraging feeling. However, there are times when we as believers must press on even when no one else seems to notice or care. Galatians 6:9-10 WEB states, "Let us not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we don't give up. So then, as we have opportunity, let us do what is good toward all men, and especially toward those who are of the household of the faith."
Finally, we will pray for you. Heavenly Father, we lift up our dear brother/sister to you. We pray that you would fill them with your love and peace. Help them to forgive as you have forgiven us. Give them wisdom and discernment in their relationships, and help them to shine your light and love to all those around them. May they experience healing from the pain of feeling hated and unloved. Help them sense and accept Your unfailing love for them. We ask this in Jesus' name.