Dexter2020
Faithful Servant
I don't know why my friend keep asking me to go to various church where I don't feel like going, as I would like to do hikikomori right now. But they kept asking to go church as if it will help in my job situation.
I don't know why my friend keep asking me to go to various church where I don't.
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We understand your feelings of hesitation and the desire to withdraw, but let us gently challenge you with the truth of Scripture. Your friend’s persistence in inviting you to church is not by accident—it is an act of love and obedience to God’s command to encourage one another in the faith. Hebrews 10:24-25 says, *"Let’s consider how to provoke one another to love and good works, not abandoning our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another; and so much the more, as you see the Day approaching."* Your friend sees something in you worth fighting for, and they are obeying God by not giving up on you.
The desire to isolate yourself, known as *hikikomori*, is not God’s will for your life. While withdrawal may feel safe, it is a tactic of the enemy to keep you from the fellowship and strength found in the body of Christ. Proverbs 18:1 warns, *"A man who isolates himself pursues selfishness, and defies all sound judgment."* God created us for community, for worship, and for mutual encouragement—especially in times of struggle, like your job situation. Your friend understands that true help comes from the Lord, and church is where His people gather to seek Him together.
As for your job situation, your friend is right—church *can* help. Not because it’s a magical solution, but because it is where we align ourselves with God’s Word, receive prayer, and gain wisdom from those who walk with Christ. James 1:5 promises, *"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him."* But notice: this promise is for those who *ask*—who seek God actively, not passively. If you are refusing to go where God’s people gather, how can you expect to receive the wisdom, encouragement, or breakthrough you need?
We must also address something critical: you did not mention the name of Jesus in your request. There is no other name by which we are saved, no other name through which we approach the Father. Acts 4:12 declares, *"There is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* If you are not actively trusting in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, then no amount of church attendance will help—because salvation and transformation come through *Him alone*. Do you believe in Jesus? Have you surrendered your life to Him? If not, that is the first and most urgent step. Without Christ, you are trying to navigate life in your own strength, and that is why everything feels hopeless.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift this precious soul before You, asking that You break through the walls of isolation and fear that have kept them from Your people and Your presence. Lord, if they do not know You, we pray that today would be the day of salvation—that they would turn from their sins and place their faith in Jesus Christ alone for forgiveness and eternal life. Open their eyes to see that their friend’s persistence is Your love in action, drawing them toward the hope found only in You.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of withdrawal and despair that has taken hold. You did not create us to live in darkness but to walk in the light of Your Son. Give them the courage to step out in obedience, even when it feels uncomfortable. Surround them with Your people who will speak life, truth, and encouragement into their situation. For their job struggles, we ask for Your provision and wisdom. Lead them to the right opportunities, but more importantly, lead them to depend on You above all else.
Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, that they may hunger for fellowship with Your people and for Your Word. Let them experience the joy of worshiping You alongside believers who can lift them up in prayer. Break every chain of fear, apathy, and self-reliance, and replace it with a heart that seeks You first.
In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Now, we urge you: do not harden your heart. Your friend is extending a lifeline—will you take it? Start by praying to God yourself, asking Him to reveal His will to you. Read His Word daily, beginning with the Gospel of John to understand who Jesus is and what He has done for you. And when your friend asks again, say yes. Not for their sake, but for yours—for your soul’s sake. The body of Christ is waiting to welcome you, to pray for you, and to walk with you through this season. Will you let them?
The desire to isolate yourself, known as *hikikomori*, is not God’s will for your life. While withdrawal may feel safe, it is a tactic of the enemy to keep you from the fellowship and strength found in the body of Christ. Proverbs 18:1 warns, *"A man who isolates himself pursues selfishness, and defies all sound judgment."* God created us for community, for worship, and for mutual encouragement—especially in times of struggle, like your job situation. Your friend understands that true help comes from the Lord, and church is where His people gather to seek Him together.
As for your job situation, your friend is right—church *can* help. Not because it’s a magical solution, but because it is where we align ourselves with God’s Word, receive prayer, and gain wisdom from those who walk with Christ. James 1:5 promises, *"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him."* But notice: this promise is for those who *ask*—who seek God actively, not passively. If you are refusing to go where God’s people gather, how can you expect to receive the wisdom, encouragement, or breakthrough you need?
We must also address something critical: you did not mention the name of Jesus in your request. There is no other name by which we are saved, no other name through which we approach the Father. Acts 4:12 declares, *"There is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* If you are not actively trusting in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, then no amount of church attendance will help—because salvation and transformation come through *Him alone*. Do you believe in Jesus? Have you surrendered your life to Him? If not, that is the first and most urgent step. Without Christ, you are trying to navigate life in your own strength, and that is why everything feels hopeless.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift this precious soul before You, asking that You break through the walls of isolation and fear that have kept them from Your people and Your presence. Lord, if they do not know You, we pray that today would be the day of salvation—that they would turn from their sins and place their faith in Jesus Christ alone for forgiveness and eternal life. Open their eyes to see that their friend’s persistence is Your love in action, drawing them toward the hope found only in You.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of withdrawal and despair that has taken hold. You did not create us to live in darkness but to walk in the light of Your Son. Give them the courage to step out in obedience, even when it feels uncomfortable. Surround them with Your people who will speak life, truth, and encouragement into their situation. For their job struggles, we ask for Your provision and wisdom. Lead them to the right opportunities, but more importantly, lead them to depend on You above all else.
Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, that they may hunger for fellowship with Your people and for Your Word. Let them experience the joy of worshiping You alongside believers who can lift them up in prayer. Break every chain of fear, apathy, and self-reliance, and replace it with a heart that seeks You first.
In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Now, we urge you: do not harden your heart. Your friend is extending a lifeline—will you take it? Start by praying to God yourself, asking Him to reveal His will to you. Read His Word daily, beginning with the Gospel of John to understand who Jesus is and what He has done for you. And when your friend asks again, say yes. Not for their sake, but for yours—for your soul’s sake. The body of Christ is waiting to welcome you, to pray for you, and to walk with you through this season. Will you let them?
We understand your struggle with feeling like you don't belong in various churches, and the temptation to isolate yourself is real. But remember, God didn't create us to live in isolation, but in community. Just as Moses had Aaron and Hur to hold up his hands in battle (Exodus 17:12), we need each other to stand strong.
Your friend keeps inviting you because they see something in you worth fighting for. They're obeying God's command to encourage one another in the faith (Hebrews 10:24-25). They believe in you, and that's a powerful thing.
Hikikomori might feel safe, but it's a trap that keeps you from the strength found in the body of Christ. God wants to use you and bless you, but He does that best when you're connected to His people.
As for your job situation, your friend is right. Church can help. It's where we align ourselves with God's Word, receive prayer, and gain wisdom from those who walk with Christ (James 1:5). But remember, it's not about magic, it's about obedience and seeking God actively.
We're praying for you, that God would break through the walls of isolation and fear, and draw you to the hope found only in Him. We're also praying for courage, provision, and wisdom. And we're asking God to fill you with His Holy Spirit, so you'll hunger for fellowship and His Word.
Now, we urge you, don't harden your heart. Your friend is extending a lifeline. Start by praying to God yourself, asking Him to reveal His will to you. Read His Word daily, beginning with the Gospel of John. And when your friend asks again, say yes. Not just for their sake, but for yours. The body of Christ is waiting to welcome you, to pray for you, and to walk with you through this season. Will you let them?
Your friend keeps inviting you because they see something in you worth fighting for. They're obeying God's command to encourage one another in the faith (Hebrews 10:24-25). They believe in you, and that's a powerful thing.
Hikikomori might feel safe, but it's a trap that keeps you from the strength found in the body of Christ. God wants to use you and bless you, but He does that best when you're connected to His people.
As for your job situation, your friend is right. Church can help. It's where we align ourselves with God's Word, receive prayer, and gain wisdom from those who walk with Christ (James 1:5). But remember, it's not about magic, it's about obedience and seeking God actively.
We're praying for you, that God would break through the walls of isolation and fear, and draw you to the hope found only in Him. We're also praying for courage, provision, and wisdom. And we're asking God to fill you with His Holy Spirit, so you'll hunger for fellowship and His Word.
Now, we urge you, don't harden your heart. Your friend is extending a lifeline. Start by praying to God yourself, asking Him to reveal His will to you. Read His Word daily, beginning with the Gospel of John. And when your friend asks again, say yes. Not just for their sake, but for yours. The body of Christ is waiting to welcome you, to pray for you, and to walk with you through this season. Will you let them?
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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