We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting you both up in prayer, for we know that our God is a God of mercy, forgiveness, and restoration—but also a God of holiness who calls His children to walk in purity. First, we must address what has taken place, for the Word of God is clear: *"Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s"* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, WEB).
What you have described is fornication, and though the world may treat such things lightly, Scripture calls it sin—a grievous offense against a holy God. Yet we also know that *"if we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9, WEB). So we urge you both to repent sincerely before the Lord, turning away from this sin and seeking His forgiveness and cleansing. There is no shame in coming to Christ with a broken and contrite heart, for He is near to those who call upon Him in truth.
We also commend your desire to wait until marriage from this point forward, for this is God’s perfect design. *"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed is undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers"* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). If you truly love one another and seek to honor God in your relationship, then marriage—not mere courtship—should be your goal, pursued in purity and with accountability. Until then, you must set firm boundaries, avoiding situations where temptation can overpower your resolve. *"Can a man scoop fire into his lap, and his clothes not be burned? So is he who goes in to his neighbor’s wife. Whoever does so will not go unpunished"* (Proverbs 6:27, 29, WEB). Though you are not yet married, the principle remains: sexual intimacy is reserved for the covenant of marriage alone.
As for your fear of disease, we understand your concern, but we encourage you to trust the Lord with this burden. You have taken responsible steps by testing, and we pray that God would grant you peace, knowing that He is sovereign over your bodies and your health. *"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB). Continue to seek medical wisdom if needed, but do not let fear rule your heart. Instead, let this situation drive you both closer to the Lord and to His Word, where true security is found.
We also notice that your prayer request did not invoke the name of Jesus, though you mention believing in Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name by which we are saved. *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). We encourage you to always approach the throne of grace in Jesus’ name, for He is our Mediator and Advocate.
Now, let us pray together for you both:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts, lifting up these two beloved children of Yours who have stumbled into sin. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing, for they have confessed their wrongdoing, and we know You are faithful to purify those who repent. Wash them anew by the blood of Jesus and restore their hearts to a place of holiness and devotion to You.
Father, we pray for protection over their bodies—guard them from disease and fear. Grant them peace that surpasses understanding, knowing that You hold their futures in Your hands. Remove any anxiety and replace it with trust in Your sovereignty.
Lord, we ask that You would strengthen their resolve to flee from sexual immorality and to honor You in their relationship. If it is Your will, lead them toward a godly marriage, built on the foundation of Christ and committed to serving You together in ministry. Give them wisdom to set boundaries that glorify You and accountability to walk in purity.
We rebuke the enemy’s lies that would condemn them or lead them to believe they are beyond Your grace. Remind them that Your mercy is new every morning and that You are able to redeem even their mistakes for Your glory.
Finally, Father, we pray that their love for one another would be rooted in You—first and foremost. May their relationship be a testament to Your faithfulness, and may they seek You above all else. Bind their hearts together in Christ, and if marriage is Your plan, prepare them for a union that reflects Your love for the Church.
We ask all this in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you both to immerse yourselves in Scripture, particularly passages that speak to purity, forgiveness, and God’s design for relationships. Surround yourselves with mature believers who can hold you accountable and guide you in wisdom. And remember: *"No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it"* (1 Corinthians 10:13, WEB). The Lord is with you, and He will equip you to walk in righteousness if you seek Him wholeheartedly.
I do appreciate you seeking God on our behalf. I apply this to myself in Jesus name. I come into agreement with this prayer. Thank you father God for the intercession on our behalf. I really needed this. Because I didn't know how to go to God about it. I am going to pray this prayer over me and him as much as I can. I really thank God for you. Please continue remember us. Please
I don't really have anyone to go to who can pray for us. My family is not saved. Only myself. I pray God will take this prayer and heal and deliver us. Whoever you are, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You have no idea. And thank you for also implying the word. I needed that also.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
I needed prayer so bad. I don't know you guys, but I appreciate you in Jesus name so much!!!! Please continue to keep us in prayer. I just really want the Lord to bring us together as one but in God's way when it comes to marriage and ministry. I don't want to mess up anymore. I thank you so so so much for praying. I do believe God hears our prayers and moves on our behalf. Thank you Lord for using these wonderful people to pray for me. Because I really didn't know how.
